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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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 #1 
Old 2007-01-10, 13:32
bitplane bitplane is offline
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Default rape: wet or dry?

This conversation has come up in work, and since between us we've done very few rapes, nobody knows the answer.

Is rape wet or dry, or does it depend on the circumstances? I'm guessing Tyson's victims would be at least slightly damp, while Brian Peppers would have to bring some lube along.

Just because something is wrong, does that mean it's not exciting?

So, do we have any authorities on the subject here, and if so what do you guys/girls think?

[This message has been edited by bitplane (edited 01-10-2007).]
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Old 2007-01-10, 13:37
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Georgia USA
Default Re: rape: wet or dry?

Here's a way for you to find out this fun fact for yourself!

1. Go to the store and make sure you bring along an unlicensed firearm.

2. Rob the store using said firearm.

3. After you get to prison and become "Big Bubba's" bitch, see how lubed up YOU get when he rapes your sweet, virgin (I'm assuming here) ass.
 #3 
Old 2007-01-10, 13:38
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Florida, US
Default Re: rape: wet or dry?

Fuck you.

/thread
 #4 
Old 2007-01-10, 13:39
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Default Re: rape: wet or dry?

What a stupid fucking question.
 #5 
Old 2007-01-10, 13:45
bitplane bitplane is offline
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Default Re: rape: wet or dry?

You can only call it a stupid question if the answer is obvious.

In this case it's an interesting question, an outrageous, offensive and ethically bad question, but still pretty thought provoking and valid as far as questions go.
 #6 
Old 2007-01-10, 13:50
jvm222 jvm222 is offline
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Default Re: rape: wet or dry?

Hot mustard
 #7 
Old 2007-01-10, 13:53
bailoutaccount bailoutaccount is offline
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Default Re: rape: wet or dry?

Firstly, http://pepperstruth.ytmnd.com/

Secondly, you suck at life.
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Old 2007-01-10, 14:01
Duck In Fog Duck In Fog is offline
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Default Re: rape: wet or dry?

the question does sound pretty sick and like you're insinuating the victim enjoyed it.

I don't think it's really meant like that.

but women tend to be pretty moist generally, not just when are about to have sex. Think about it, it would probably hurt a bit to move normally if you were bone dry.

It wouldn't exactly be wet, it'd probably just be normal. Unless of course the 'victim' enjoyed it and secretly got a thing out of rape situations.
 #9 
Old 2007-01-10, 14:20
Gus Gus is offline
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Default Re: rape: wet or dry?

quote:Originally posted by Duck In Fog:

but women tend to be pretty moist generally, not just when are about to have sex. Think about it, it would probably hurt a bit to move normally if you were bone dry.

It wouldn't exactly be wet, it'd probably just be normal. Unless of course the 'victim' enjoyed it and secretly got a thing out of rape situations.

Actually the victim's vagina would become wet from the stimulation. No matter what they're thinking, their body still knows they're getting fucked. So their body does whenever they're being fucked, it doesn't care if it's a invited fuck off not (in fact, before we were all so high and mighty, just taking a woman was the animalistic way of reproducing, so in some small way, rape fantasies and getting off on rape are just natural [not to say that they're good, because then you get lawsuits and other bullshit for just trying to relive the days of old. ]) results of being animals.
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Old 2007-01-10, 14:23
Flock Flock is offline
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Default Re: rape: wet or dry?

quote:Originally posted by Gus:

Actually the victim's vagina would become wet from the stimulation. No matter what they're thinking, their body still knows they're getting fucked.That's what I was about to say, but then I got lazy.

So QFT!
 #11 
Old 2007-01-10, 14:28
Duck In Fog Duck In Fog is offline
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Default Re: rape: wet or dry?

quote:Originally posted by Gus:

Actually the victim's vagina would become wet from the stimulation. No matter what they're thinking, their body still knows they're getting fucked. So their body does whenever they're being fucked, it doesn't care if it's a invited fuck off not (in fact, before we were all so high and mighty, just taking a woman was the animalistic way of reproducing, so in some small way, rape fantasies and getting off on rape are just natural [not to say that they're good, because then you get lawsuits and other bullshit for just trying to relive the days of old. ]) results of being animals.

Yea, it probably would get a bit wet. Like when something gets put up there when you're only a lil damp and it's like a flood after that sometimes. =|

But it would probably not be as wet than if it was consentual. I'd be surprised if it was. If you don't want sex with someone you can't really get into the right frame of mind and it hurts a bit sometimes because you're not fully 'ready' so to speak. Or maybe I'm weird.
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Old 2007-01-10, 14:55
Wmupilot Wmupilot is offline
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Default Re: rape: wet or dry?

I thought I read somewhere that it was a protection thing. it would get wet to protect the vagina. Or maybe I just made it up, I'm not sure.
 #13 
Old 2007-01-10, 16:41
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Default Re: rape: wet or dry?

quote:Originally posted by Duck In Fog:

Yea, it probably would get a bit wet. Like when something gets put up there when you're only a lil damp and it's like a flood after that sometimes. =|

But it would probably not be as wet than if it was consentual. I'd be surprised if it was. If you don't want sex with someone you can't really get into the right frame of mind and it hurts a bit sometimes because you're not fully 'ready' so to speak. Or maybe I'm weird.

I think you're right. I mean, there are plenty of threads about consentual willing sex, where there isnt enough foreplay and the girl isnt 'ready' down there yet. And then they go ahead anyways and fuck it up
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Old 2007-01-10, 17:10
Docta? Docta? is offline
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Default Re: rape: wet or dry?

quote:Originally posted by Gus:

Actually the victim's vagina would become wet from the stimulation. No matter what they're thinking, their body still knows they're getting fucked.

Bullshit!

If a female rape victim isnt wet beforehand, and the rapist forces himself into her, hurting them both in the process (no doubt) then the only thing lubricating after that is blood. The woman, probably hysterical, isnt going to become even slightly wet due to horniness... theres nothing subconsious about it.
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Old 2007-01-10, 17:13
Flock Flock is offline
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Default Re: rape: wet or dry?

quote:Originally posted by Docta?:

If a female rape victim isnt wet beforehand, and the rapist forces himself into her, hurting them both in the process (no doubt) then the only thing lubricating after that is blood. The woman, probably hysterical, isnt going to become even slightly wet due to horniness... theres nothing subconsious about it.But the in-out motion would get something going because of the physical act.. surely?

Foreplay wasn't always regarded as important back in the day when women weren't meant to enjoy sex.
 #16 
Old 2007-01-10, 17:21
psuedogunslinger psuedogunslinger is offline
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Default Re: rape: wet or dry?

Bullshit, sometimes it's just dry down there. I imagine it would be even dryer if an uninvited cock goes down there and your being assaulted/scared shitless. I've tried fucking my girlfriend when she's not in the mood and it's almost impossible to get it in there without using lubrication or licking her first.

Besides a lot of rapist can't even come or get it up while their raping their victims.
 #17 
Old 2007-01-10, 17:26
Docta? Docta? is offline
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Default Re: rape: wet or dry?

quote:Originally posted by Flock:

But the in-out motion would get something going because of the physical act.. surely?

I seriously doubt it, but Im not planning on asking any rape victims about the small details of their experience.

quote:Besides a lot of rapist can't even come or get it up while their raping their victims.

The rape isnt so much to do with penetration, as much as the fear and humiliation associated with the whole ordeal.
 #18 
Old 2007-01-10, 19:31
StealthyRacoons StealthyRacoons is offline
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Default Re: rape: wet or dry?

From what i heard in criminology its not uncommon for women to orgasm while bieng raped. Not that they like it but just cause there getting fucked.
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Old 2007-01-10, 19:35
burntoffering burntoffering is offline
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Default Re: rape: wet or dry?

I would imagine it is dry.

but fuck, when I dont want to have sex wiht someone, and they grab my dick, that doesnt stop it from jumping to attention.
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Old 2007-01-10, 19:47
bitplane bitplane is offline
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Default Re: rape: wet or dry?

the actual point was one of taboo and docta? hit the nail on the head, anyone who knows about this is either a rapist or victim and is unlikely to share the juicy (or not so juicy) details. so i guess this is destined to be one of those things we'll never know, I can live with that, but it doesn't stop it from being a good question.

For the record I agree with Gus, it is probably a biological special-case (unlike "no thanks i don't feel like it"), as lubricant makes a good protection against damage and it's evolution that calls the shots. Taking the moral high-ground and not being aroused while getting abused and humiliated would make no sense from an evolutionary standpoint if the alternative is damage, infection and possibly sterilization or death.

Some good answers here, thanks to those who took this thread semi-seriously, and a big fuck you to those who took it too seriously.
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Old 2007-01-10, 19:47
Duck In Fog Duck In Fog is offline
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Default Re: rape: wet or dry?

quote:Originally posted by StealthyRacoons:

From what i heard in criminology its not uncommon for women to orgasm while bieng raped. Not that they like it but just cause there getting fucked.

Not uncommon, but not very likley I don't think.

It probably has happened, but that more than likley had a really bad effect on them mentally like they're dirty because they think they must have enjoyed or wanted it.

But I think if they orgasm from it, they're probably easy to make cum. I don't reckon most women could from rape.

I'd feel fucked up if I came from it.
 #22 
Old 2007-01-10, 20:02
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Default Re: rape: wet or dry?

Okies, this is something i know something about (and that is as much as I will say here).

1.FEAR CAN CAUSE A WOMAN TO BECOME WET.And not because she is turned on. Don't ask me the science behind it, i don't know. I just know it is so. However the 'wetness' tends to be more mucus like than normal sexual arousal.

2. You can't generalize on this one. Some will be bone dry all the way down, some just at the opening.

The typical rape wounds to the vag are as much due to a woman not being dilated enough as to lack of lube.

[This message has been edited by jackketch (edited 01-10-2007).]
 #23 
Old 2007-01-10, 20:06
Gus Gus is offline
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Default Re: rape: wet or dry?

Just remember: Always keep a can of lube (motorcycle chain lube works best with the little straw on the end) with you at all times just in case you find yourself in a situation that calls for a dry pussy to become wet. But really now, I'm rather sure I'm right.
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Old 2007-01-11, 09:19
RogueWarheart RogueWarheart is offline
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Default Re: rape: wet or dry?

quote:Originally posted by Gus:

Just remember: Always keep a can of lube (motorcycle chain lube works best with the little straw on the end) with you at all times just in case you find yourself in a situation that calls for a dry pussy to become wet. But really now, I'm rather sure I'm right.
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Old 2007-01-11, 11:04
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quote:Originally posted by burntoffering:

when I dont want to have sex wiht someone, ...

lol, nice try
 #26 
Old 2007-01-12, 03:04
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San Francisco
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quote:Originally posted by Xiao Mei:

Here's a way for you to find out this fun fact for yourself!

1. Go to the store and make sure you bring along an unlicensed firearm.

2. Rob the store using said firearm.

3. After you get to prison and become "Big Bubba's" bitch, see how lubed up YOU get when he rapes your sweet, virgin (I'm assuming here) ass.

Thanks for reminding me why I respect you so much.

But please don't make it harder for intelligent people to get guns, we have enough trouble as it is.
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Old 2007-01-12, 03:07
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Florida, US
Default Re: rape: wet or dry?

quote:Originally posted by reggie_love:

Originally posted by Xiao Mei:

Here's a way for you to find out this fun fact for yourself!

1. Go to the store and make sure you bring along an unlicensed firearm.

2. Rob the store using said firearm.

3. After you get to prison and become "Big Bubba's" bitch, see how lubed up YOU get when he rapes your sweet, virgin (I'm assuming here) ass.

Thanks for reminding me why I respect you so much.

But please don't make it harder for intelligent people to get guns, we have enough trouble as it is.

Intelligent people dont need guns.

-psiwave attack-!
 #28 
Old 2007-01-12, 03:45
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Las Vegas NV
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I remember in 8th, and again in 10th grade we saw a presentation by this one woman with the local Rape Crisis Center, and she basically gave a really long and very interesting presentation on rape, it's social stigma, etc. She was also a former rape victim.

But one of the things she stressed was that many women were ashamed to come forth with a rape because they felt horrible because they often became wet during the rape, or even reached orgasm because of it.

The same was true with this one football player she told us a speech about. She said that basically, a guy that he trusted was giving him a ride home, pulled over, and told the kid he had a gun and would shoot him if he didn't give him a blowjob. So the kid gave him a blowjob. Then, and this is the weird part, the guy gave the kid a blowjob(threatened, of course). One of the first questions asked by the kid when he reported the case was of course "Am I gay?", and the people at the Rape Crisis Center said of course not.

You don't really have as much control over your own bodies physical response system as you think.
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Old 2007-01-12, 06:44
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Napier, New Zealand
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I lol'd
 
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