I remember reading, in an old thread, a post by some girl who claimed her boyfriend didn't even feel sexually attracted to other girls since he was with her. She thought he was lying, and as I recall most of Totse said "bullshit" too. I agreed...

...except now, I'm doing the same thing. I think I found, y'know, the one... and I don't really care about other girls any more. There's just no interest there. Sure, I can appreciate their beauty, but there's no more DESIRE. Has this happened to anyone else?

Yes.

A sccary prospect indeed.

Yeah. But it quickly passed.

Early in a relationship I tend to idolize a girl and always see her as the one, but soon enough I realize she’s human and get bored. :/

Urgh. It’s stupid. But I’m happy for you man! It’s a wonderful feeling and I’m sure you’ve got the stuff to make it last.

-F☺rd

You're infatuated. There's no such thing as love. Get over it. When one wants something, the rest of the world blurs out. Save yourself the trouble and stop.

quote:Originally posted by Phaint:

You're infatuated. There's no such thing as love. Get over it. When one wants something, the rest of the world blurs out. Save yourself the trouble and stop.

Eeemoo.



I disagree, sire, and also advise you get the chip off the shoulder.

Did I make that thread? Sounds very familiar...

I really don't know what to say dude. Maybe that gaping void that everyone posesses has finally been filled for you (albeit temporarily) by your girlfriend? The desire will come back, sooner or later.

It happens, but it has nothing to do with infatuation.

That always happen after breaking up with someone.

To me, at least.

Yes, it's happening to me right now. But honeslty, is it her actual actions and sexual manuvers which make you lose desire, or is it the fact that you have this pussy secured, and know that your physical chances with other ones weren't probable anyway...

yep, i know that feeling.

it's like...i can recognize that someone is goodlooking, but i just don't find them attractive or appealing. my friends all think i'm weird. they'll go "do you think ___ is hot?" and i have to be like "uhhmmm...wait, let me think...uh, i guess." like it just doesn't register anymore, it's only been him for so long.

Yeah dude I'm in the same situation right now. I finally have found a girl that I have true feelings for and that I am looking forward to a great serious relationship with, and it seems like other girls are of just no interest to me now. Hmm maybe that statement could even score me some brownie points with her...

/\ No shit, dumbass. Just don't show her your post in this thread.

You'll get bored or drunk. Either way you end up cheatin

quote:Originally posted by Phaint:

You're infatuated. There's no such thing as love. Get over it. When one wants something, the rest of the world blurs out. Save yourself the trouble and stop.

Fuck you asshole.

i think Phaint has a sort of valid point.

be careful it could be just infatuation, but dont stop, keep going to see what its like.

ive been there, that girl made me feel genuinely different, i had hot flushes every time i saw her.

but yes, because you feel that this girl is SOOOOOOO suited to you, you believe that there is no need anymore. its perfectly normal. but chances are, youll get over it after a long while

i had it with my ex. She didn't believe it either. BUt it lasted for over 2 years. And after that.....well....

Ive been hit by pretty much any girl Ive been with, for checking out other girls while Im with them.

I'm a human, it's natural to feel the need to procreate.

I find other girls attractive, but I'm not attracted to them. Which is nice.

fuck that shit.

quote:Originally posted by Phaint:

You're infatuated. There's no such thing as love. Get over it. When one wants something, the rest of the world blurs out. Save yourself the trouble and stop.

You know tuhe truth clearly, i just wish i was in control of my emotions so i could truly put this belief into practise.

Obviously you're suffering from a repressed libido. Which will have drastic and dire consequences to the rest of your day-to-day being as you become effeminate, weak-willed, and productivity ceases.

You'll become sterile too.

But seriously I know what you mean. There's no one who stirs anything in me except my beautiful.

quote:Originally posted by Ford Prefect:

Urgh. It’s stupid. But I’m happy for you man! It’s a wonderful feeling and I’m sure you’ve got the stuff to make it last.



Thank ye kindly! I'm trying my best.

quote:Originally posted by Phaint:

You're infatuated. There's no such thing as love. Get over it. When one wants something, the rest of the world blurs out. Save yourself the trouble and stop.

Of course love exists. I have the evidence of my feelings... and since love is a feeling, that's all the evidence needed.

quote:Originally posted by Demoiselle:

Did I make that thread? Sounds very familiar...

I really don't know what to say dude. Maybe that gaping void that everyone posesses has finally been filled for you (albeit temporarily) by your girlfriend? The desire will come back, sooner or later.

I think you were the one who made that thread.

Temporarily, you say? I don't see why it can't last longer, if we last longer.

quote:Originally posted by Run_For_Tha_Hills:

Yes, it's happening to me right now. But honeslty, is it her actual actions and sexual manuvers which make you lose desire, or is it the fact that you have this pussy secured, and know that your physical chances with other ones weren't probable anyway...

Neither! It's just her, her whole self, everything about her. She completes me... I have no need or desire for another.

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quote:Originally posted by YouLookFourteen:

yep, i know that feeling.

it's like...i can recognize that someone is goodlooking, but i just don't find them attractive or appealing. my friends all think i'm weird. they'll go "do you think ___ is hot?" and i have to be like "uhhmmm...wait, let me think...uh, i guess." like it just doesn't register anymore, it's only been him for so long.

Exactly!

quote:Originally posted by Docta_Gonzo:

You'll get bored or drunk. Either way you end up cheatin

Believe it or not, some people never cheat... or want to.

quote:Originally posted by Mr.Happy:

I find other girls attractive, but I'm not attracted to them. Which is nice.

Exactly, again. Great minds...

quote:Originally posted by I_Like_Traffic_Lights:

Obviously you're suffering from a repressed libido. Which will have drastic and dire consequences to the rest of your day-to-day being as you become effeminate, weak-willed, and productivity ceases.

You'll become sterile too.

But seriously I know what you mean. There's no one who stirs anything in me except my beautiful.

Ahahaha. Made me LOL.

phaint has a very cynical outlook(exactly like mine until a few months ago) and also i know what the op means kinda ruins porn as well

quote:Originally posted by bazthefish:

kinda ruins porn as well

true that.

I can definately relate, sometimes you become so in love (or enfatuated) with someone else that everyone else tends to become much less attractive and interesting.

I've felt that way for over 6 months now, And I know you're all gonna say "Oh, you say that now but just wait and see" etc etc. But I can honestly say I want to marry this girl.

I love her. More than I thought I was capable of loving anything or anyone.

quote:Originally posted by shadow12-:

I've felt that way for over 6 months now, And I know you're all gonna say "Oh, you say that now but just wait and see" etc etc. But I can honestly say I want to marry this girl.

I love her. More than I thought I was capable of loving anything or anyone.

QFT! Exactly the same here.

quote:Originally posted by shadow12-:

I've felt that way for over 6 months now, And I know you're all gonna say "Oh, you say that now but just wait and see" etc etc. But I can honestly say I want to marry this girl.

I love her. More than I thought I was capable of loving anything or anyone.

i certainly have that too, its definitely teh best feeling ever

i know what you mean. you see them, you recognize their beauty, but then it reminds you of how beutiful your own girl is and you disregard them, and then you cant feel whole again till youre with them

there's a biological reason behind it that i learned during my psychology course

once a male decides he's going to be with this one women for a long period of time or for the rest of his life.. he makes the decision to not look at any other women or even think about them

yea, i've definately had that happen. it's weird. it's like no one else is even close to the level she's at.



EDIT: oooo, my 500th post



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