Yes it's about how I am always late getting a girlfriend. I asked out a girl today, turns out she just got a boyfriend 2 days ago. I know the guy too. A while back, I was going to ask out a girl but didn't because I found out another guy asked her out 1 day before me

What really ticks me off though, is I don't even know if these guys care that much. I liked her for 5 months and it took me this long to get up the courage to ask her I know this is typical teenage/nothing is working for me bullshit but my friends have girlfriends. My friends whom are girls seem to all have boyfriends. What should I do? I'm not going to sit around and bitch about how I can't get anywhere with them because I don't see that as an effective solution to the problem. What should I do?

I read the title, And I was like "whoa, kenshiro's preggers!"

but anyway, try to just work up the courage to ask them out when you first have feelings for them. or just try to get some fugly girls to fuck you.

quit putting the pussy on a pedestal.

if all else fails, make friends with yourself.

but remember to wash hands afterwards, to avoide awkward confrontations when making friends with others.

[This message has been edited by burntoffering (edited 01-09-2007).]

I should quit putting the pussy on the pedestal , lol.

But another thing is I feel more mature then they might be. I don't want to make myself sound all super, but what I mean is when I go on a date I'm basically looking to take them out to a nice restaurant and pay, something like that. I'm only 14 and other kids just go over to there gf's/bf's house and occasionally see a movie. I still think that aspect would be fun, but where I would enjoy actually taking them for dinner they might think it's weird.

quote:Originally posted by kenshiro_kid:

My friends whom are girls seem to all have boyfriends.

Sorry, grammar bug:

In this case it should be "who" not "whom". If in doubt, don't use "whom".

I'd have said "All my friends who are girls seem to have boyfriends.".

I thought this thread was about punctuality.

kenshiro, you just have to be patient. In my experience, any time I've been actively pursuing a partner, I would get shot down, time after time. Once I stopped caring/trying, boys just came to me. I think the opposite sex can smell desperation and insecurity on others.

So that's my advice, stop looking for a girl, and one will come to you eventually.

How old are you, by the way? You may have to be patient. And in my opinion, highschool relationships are a bunch of crap, just kids playing at being adults (no offense). Not to say that it's impossible to find a meaningful relationship while in highschool, but I wouldn't count on it.

The only couples I knew in highschool that are still together now (I graduated in 2004) are the mormon ones, lol.

quote:Originally posted by kenshiro_kid:

I should quit putting the pussy on the pedestal , lol.

But another thing is I feel more mature then they might be. I don't want to make myself sound all super, but what I mean is when I go on a date I'm basically looking to take them out to a nice restaurant and pay, something like that. I'm only 14 and other kids just go over to there gf's/bf's house and occasionally see a movie. I still think that aspect would be fun, but where I would enjoy actually taking them for dinner they might think it's weird.

I was like that when I was 14 too. I am almost 16 now, by the way.

the truth is, most girls 13-15 arn't into the whole dating thing.

they say "oh yeha, thats the guy I am going out with, so you betta not touch him bitch!"

whist snapping their fingers repeatidly in front of someones face.

Try to go for the older more mature girls, 16-18 range, who know whats going on.

of course, I am not one to be offering advice on dating, cause I never date myself. I am just in it for the sex.

Ah ok. Well...I have been waiting for about 2 years :S I never say anything, I'm not insecure about it I just have a small problem asking that one question. I can carry conversations otherwise.

And er...about the grammar thing. What's the difference? Lol. I always try and use proper grammar but it kind of escapes me why that small point should be of concern...meh.

quote:Originally posted by kenshiro_kid:

Ah ok. Well...I have been waiting for about 2 years :S I never say anything, I'm not insecure about it I just have a small problem asking that one question. I can carry conversations otherwise.

And er...about the grammar thing. What's the difference? Lol. I always try and use proper grammar but it kind of escapes me why that small point should be of concern...meh.

grammer is not a concern. do not pay attention to whoever said that.

now, heres what you do. you go and buy a fith of the cheapest whiskey you can find, drink a tall glass of it. no, three tall glasses of it, and then go talk to a girl. everything will come out much smoother, and you wont have any trouble at all saying what you want to say.

I didn't read any of the other replies, but,

CON WEVOS BATO! CON WEVOS!

The best thing you can do is just do it. Don't think about it because the more you think about it the less likely your gonna do it.

Your 14 theres no reason to go out on dates like you want. Your not mature so don't bother trying to be. Have fun getting away with what stupid kids do, no one will blame you they will just think your some immature 14 year old.

Stop jacking off to kiddie porn. That might raise your sex appeal with girls your own age.

Just be a little bit more spontaneous and it'll all come together.

quote:Originally posted by kenshiro_kid:

I'm only 14

Being you're rather young, and are able to conjure up the courage to even ask girls out, this means it'll become a heck of a easier for you in a few years time kiddo. Don't be so put back that someone got there first.

edit: Spelling. I swear reading these forums have made my spelling get worse.

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quote:Originally posted by Nameless Dude:

The best thing you can do is just do it. Don't think about it because the more you think about it the less likely your gonna do it.

Your 14 theres no reason to go out on dates like you want. Your not mature so don't bother trying to be. Have fun getting away with what stupid kids do, no one will blame you they will just think your some immature 14 year old.

I really like this advice. Thanks And ironically, these forums made my spelling better.