Alright might as well jump right into it. When my girlfriend and I are doing whatever, I have no problem getting and staying hard. I know I don't have erectile disfunction or some shit. Twice so far, as soon as the condom goes on and we're about to penetrate I'll go limp, and it sucks. I mean we'll be going hard as hell and -it- will be too.. but once the real deal comes.. I have a gut feeling it's nervousness, in addition to the fact that my guy doesn't like the feeling of a condom .

Basically, all I'm looking for is a way to have sex with the girl I love without a ton of hassle. last night we were looking in each others eyes, hours of fun it was all good and boom - shit happens.

why, cause, solution, experiences? thanks..

Just keep trying. There are always complications with a new partner. And condoms suck :\

Just get comfortable with the situation, and it'll happen when its ready.

Stop putting so much into having sex... It's really not worth getting so upset over. Take a deep breath, and stop trying to get that far. Enjoy each other orally, maybe a little heavy petting, and then just throw the condom on and keep orally fucking. This will help your body, if it is having an adverse reaction to the condom, to hopefully work it out.

If you stay hard for over five minutes with the condom on your dick while you eat her out and she plays with you, then try stickin' it in. You should be fine after that.

why not just try using a diaphragm? i know they might be more expensive, but they go inside the girl, so you wouldnt have to waste time putting a condom on...(in case no one knows what a diaphragm is, its a female condom)

-Kman101

No it's not.... a female condom is a female condom. A diaphragm is like one of those rubber dome shaped toys that you turn inside out and put on a hard surface and then it pops in the air.

quote:Originally posted by Enset:

No it's not.... a female condom is a female condom. A diaphragm is like one of those rubber dome shaped toys that you turn inside out and put on a hard surface and then it pops in the air.

Yup, and it's covered in spermicide to stop pregnancy.

Remember though that only condoms protect against STIs.

thanks you for your replies, let's try tomorrow

Pics pls.

Joke.