So the girl I'm with has trouble reaching orgasm. She'll get up to that point, but all of a sudden she'll shut down mentally and just not want to try any more.

Any tips? I know it isn't much I'm doing, because she's gone with me before, but any tips for her?

-Dust

No tips for her, just a tip for you: just make sure she's comfortable, give her time, and give her space. It'll happen.

When she gets to that point, try sticking a few fingers in her ass.

Welcome to my world, sonny.

I can't believe I'm actually admitting this on Totse, but here it goes- The last two women I've been with have been un-able to acheive orgasm at any point in their lives (Or they're just using the same excuse :P) No matter what we do, or for how long it just never comes. I still make sex as enjoyable for them as I possibly can, and I've never had any troubles really bringing any other women to orgasm, I guess it's just certain people?

quote:Originally posted by Siatek:

I can't believe I'm actually admitting this on Totse, but here it goes- The last two women I've been with have been un-able to acheive orgasm at any point in their lives (Or they're just using the same excuse :P) No matter what we do, or for how long it just never comes. I still make sex as enjoyable for them as I possibly can, and I've never had any troubles really bringing any other women to orgasm, I guess it's just certain people?

Duct tape a vibrator to her clit. X amount of time later = orgasm.

Hehe, I don't think it's lack of time/effort/technique, I've heard some women just can't orgasm.