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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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 #1 
Old 2007-01-08, 23:25
SlimSaku SlimSaku is offline
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Default Need help with a girl.

I only have about 2 days and i need help fast.

Okay, i don't need help with introducing myself to her or anything, but i really want to get her email adress or something. A couple weeks ago i realized i liked her and i have heard she has a crush on me but i'm too fucking nervous to do anything. We only have one class together and it's a gym class. Can anyone help me?
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Old 2007-01-08, 23:28
Sick_Boy Sick_Boy is offline
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Default Re: Need help with a girl.

Just talk to her man, there's no other way. Sound her out, and if she seems interested ask for her email address. The worst she can do is say "no". It sucks to get rejected, but at least you tried. But if you heard that she has a crush on you, then she probably wont say no anyway.
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Old 2007-01-08, 23:28
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Default Re: Need help with a girl.

Do something sportingly exherting with this girl. Then shower up and blow off the day of school. Go kick back somewhere and get to know each other better.
 #4 
Old 2007-01-08, 23:33
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Default Re: Need help with a girl.

Kick a soccer ball at her face.

If that doesn't work then just ask her for her email/myspace.. it's less intense then asking for a phone #.
 #5 
Old 2007-01-08, 23:35
SlimSaku SlimSaku is offline
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Default Re: Need help with a girl.

Any advice on what to say i already planned on asking for her email but i cant come up with a way to ask her without it being really weird. I am also kind of shy.
 #6 
Old 2007-01-09, 00:06
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Default Re: Need help with a girl.

You need a way to approach things, okay.

Do you have an interesting or entertaining e-mail to send her?

Just talk about it and tell her that you'd like to send it. Then ask for her e-mail.
 #7 
Old 2007-01-09, 00:41
SlimSaku SlimSaku is offline
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Default Re: Need help with a girl.

Thanks for the advice and i'll give it a shot.
 #8 
Old 2007-01-09, 00:44
Tesla Tesla is offline
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Default Re: Need help with a girl.

just go over to her. Start chatting her up a bit about random chit chat then ask her for her number not that hard.
 #9 
Old 2007-01-09, 07:05
modega modega is offline
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I'm laughing at the new fad of younger people using email and myspace rather then phone numbers. Lol, actually I read on article regarding this on CNN recently.
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Old 2007-01-09, 08:00
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quote:Originally posted by modega:

I'm laughing at the new fad of younger people using email and myspace rather then phone numbers. Lol, actually I read on article regarding this on CNN recently.

Yep, using e-mail, myspace etc. is making kids less social out of the house.

SlimSaku, I hope you see how hiding behind a computer is more harmful then beneficial. Do what makes you uncomfortable or nervous if you want to grow.

Do you think you can "log out" when you're afraid to kiss her in "real life" ...there's no backspace or "undo" there.
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Old 2007-01-09, 08:12
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quote:Originally posted by flash:

Kick a soccer ball at her face.

I actually meet an ex that way.

Wasn't intentional, of course.

OP, really, just talk to the girl mate. She likes you! You've got very little to lose and MUCH to gain.

-F☺rd
 #12 
Old 2007-01-09, 08:26
socratic socratic is offline
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Default Re: Need help with a girl.

After conversing for some long (so that the two of you are somewhat comfortable talking to one another) period of time, ask her for her email address, or invite her to go do something outside of school.
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Old 2007-01-09, 18:45
fat_people_suck fat_people_suck is offline
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Default Re: Need help with a girl.

quit bieng a fag and talk to her, whats the worst that could happen
 #14 
Old 2007-01-09, 19:24
Bean_Doodle Bean_Doodle is offline
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Default Re: Need help with a girl.

quote:Originally posted by flash:

Kick a soccer ball at her face.

If that doesn't work then just ask her for her email/myspace.. it's less intense then asking for a phone #.

One day in seventh grade when my mind drifted off in science class I thought up this intricate scenario where me kicking a soccer ball in this girl's face won me her love.

I really miss seventh grade.
 #15 
Old 2007-01-09, 19:28
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Default Re: Need help with a girl.

Write your Email down on a piece of paper, and give it to her in your nervous bumbling manner. It'll be cute, and save you the fear and stress of her possibly saying 'um no' if you ask for her email first.
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Old 2007-01-09, 19:52
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quote:Originally posted by Bean_Doodle:

One day in seventh grade when my mind drifted off in science class I thought up this intricate scenario where me kicking a soccer ball in this girl's face won me her love.

I really miss seventh grade.



In year 10 sport I broke a girls nose with an Aussie rules football.

I kicked it at her, it was going to hit her in the back of the head, I screamed "WATCH OUT" she turns around CRACK. Blood every where.

...I didn't win her love ...not like I would have wanted her broken nosed love
 #17 
Old 2007-01-09, 20:00
MJR deus MJR deus is offline
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Default Re: Need help with a girl.

Ok you need to do soemthing inconspicous. Ok so if she has an Ipod ask her whar music she likes, and though its below the belt and pisses me off...pretend to like her music unless its atrocious strictly female stuff. Otherwise be like..yeah i love the xxxx (even though they suck dick). Dont do this infront of a friend who will point out you ahte them though. then take it off from there.

One more simple thing, everytime you see the girl say hi afterwards, I know its fucking tough but this is a method of making her think about you... anyway good luck hunting

/>/> Michael
 #18 
Old 2007-01-09, 23:51
fat_people_suck fat_people_suck is offline
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Default Re: Need help with a girl.

quote:Originally posted by yoyobek:

Write your Email down on a piece of paper, and give it to her in your nervous bumbling manner. It'll be cute, and save you the fear and stress of her possibly saying 'um no' if you ask for her email first.



yeah don't do this, its lame and she'll think you're a freak
 #19 
Old 2007-01-13, 05:29
SlimSaku SlimSaku is offline
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Default Re: Need help with a girl.

Thanks for all the advice.

I quit being a pussy and asked her for her email address.
 #20 
Old 2007-01-13, 05:41
Nameless Dude Nameless Dude is offline
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Default Re: Need help with a girl.

quote:Originally posted by flash:

[B]Kick a soccer ball at her face. [B]

A couple of months ago we were playing some stupid game in the gym and I ended up falling on some chicks face with my crotch and about a week later I hit her in the head with a volleyball. All this by accident of course. Later on I think she liked me but I wasn't intrested or I had the girlfriend I have now.
 #21 
Old 2007-01-13, 05:44
Khronick Khronick is offline
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Default Re: Need help with a girl.

What are you twelve? Don't ask her for her email, don't ask her for her number.

You give her your number... Never deal with email, it makes you look bad.

And if you give her your number it gives her time to think about you, and also you don't have to take the time to get the guts up to call her.
 
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