I don't know why or how I manage to gain any sexual pleasure with such a difficult clitoris. Honestly, My clit is so sensitive that nearly all direct contact leaves me screaming out and jumping 10 feet into the air. This has made it nearly impossible to receive cunnilingus which is frustrating for my fiance. (I've just let him think that he sucks at going down on me ) I have to receive all stimulation indirectly which can get difficult for my partner. What I want to know is if there is anything I could use or do to desensitize my clit a little. It's a nightmare to work with and I'd like to have an easy orgasm from my partner. It used to be easy for me to just get on top of him and take control that way, but now that I'm about 5 months into this pregnancy, We have to use alternate positions to avoid even more discomfort, making sex just too hard to get into. Help, please.

Hmmm, what about a thong with a leather bit, opening for your pussy hole, but protecting your clit... Meh, you might just have to live with it for a bit, as I've heard that there isn't too much that can truly be done.

could you use just a little bit of that desenitizing gel/cream they have for men to make them last longer?

you may have to try a few times with how much you use, but at worst it would be numbed...but in that case at least you could enjoy vaginal intercourse? :/

good luck!

Get your Fiance to make fashion himself some icharus like wings for his arms. Then, lie spread-eagle on the bed, and enjoy orgasm after orgasm as he flaps his wings and screeches, allowing the air movement to stimulate your clit.

quote:Originally posted by rabbitweed:

Get your Fiance to make fashion himself some icharus like wings for his arms. Then, lie spread-eagle on the bed, and enjoy orgasm after orgasm as he flaps his wings and screeches, allowing the air movement to stimulate your clit.

It's the least he can do.

quote:Originally posted by rabbitweed:

Get your Fiance to make fashion himself some icharus like wings for his arms. Then, lie spread-eagle on the bed, and enjoy orgasm after orgasm as he flaps his wings and screeches, allowing the air movement to stimulate your clit.

Genius.

quote:Originally posted by oral fixation:

could you use just a little bit of that desenitizing gel/cream they have for men to make them last longer?

you may have to try a few times with how much you use, but at worst it would be numbed...but in that case at least you could enjoy vaginal intercourse? :/

good luck!

I was actually considering this. I'm only afraid that the tingle it gives men would burn me. :/

quote:Originally posted by rabbitweed:

Get your Fiance to make fashion himself some icharus like wings for his arms. Then, lie spread-eagle on the bed, and enjoy orgasm after orgasm as he flaps his wings and screeches, allowing the air movement to stimulate your clit.

I think this one's the winner.