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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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#1
 2007-01-08, 20:26
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in this thread, we find out why people are so against other people seeing them naked.
dont get me wrong, I am not doing this because I am horny teenager who wants to see nude pics(although I am a horny teenager who wants to see nude pics).
but I am doing this to better understand people.
I have posted naked pics of myself on totse, and other sites, and people who I am not fucking have seen me naked before as well. I have never been modest, or hesitent to show someoen my penis.
I recently asked a friend why she didnt think like I did, and she told me that it was because unless you where with someoen, they wherent meant to see you in your natural form.
I disagree in so many ways.
if you where only ment to be seen by one person, then wouldnt we have evolved in some crazy strange way, so that you can only be seen by one?
and, come on, we where born naked, so why is it that we make such a struggle to cover it up? if it was up to me, I would go everywhere naked. and I would screw as much as I could(thats a completely different issue).
so, you people who say it is a mistake to post naked pictures, or that a woman is whore because she does, why do you say this?
please, explain it to me, and anyone else that would like to know.
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#2
 2007-01-08, 20:27
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Re: in this thread, we find out why people are so against other people seeing them naked.
haha. if nobody is home and i just got out of the shower I cant be fucked putting clothes on until someone comes home.
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#3
 2007-01-08, 20:29
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Re: in this thread, we find out why people are so against other people seeing them naked.
You do know what it means to be self conscious right?
So many images of perfection. So many definitions of ugly. It's not that hard to fucking grasp my friend.
The vast majority of the population believe that the body that they have is not for lack of a better word, worthy to be seen naked. If it weren't for the media, the arrogant, self absorbed snobs. And just plain unfair judgment, people would go naked all the time. Except when it's uncomfortable physically to do so.
Also, it's harder to hide a boner.
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#4
 2007-01-08, 20:32
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burntoffering 
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Re: in this thread, we find out why people are so against other people seeing them naked.
quote:Originally posted by Psychonautical:
You do know what it means to be self conscious right?
So many images of perfection. So many definitions of ugly. It's not that hard to fucking grasp my friend.
The vast majority of the population believe that the body that they have is not for lack of a better word, worthy to be seen naked. If it weren't for the media, the arrogant, self absorbed snobs. And just plain unfair judgment, people would go naked all the time. Except when it's uncomfortable physically to do so.
Also, it's harder to hide a boner.
so what man, a boner just makes your dick look bigger.
but you make a good point, now that I think about it, there is a lot of judgement going around nowadays.
but I say fuckit to all that.
my question was, why is it that people think its wrong to have others see them naked.
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#5
 2007-01-08, 20:34
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Psychonautical 
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Re: in this thread, we find out why people are so against other people seeing them naked.
quote:Originally posted by burntoffering:
so what man, a boner just makes your dick look bigger.
but you make a good point, now that I think about it, there is a lot of judgement going around nowadays.
but I say fuckit to all that.
my question was, why is it that people think its wrong to have others see them naked.
They don't think it's wrong. They just don't want to be judged.
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#6
 2007-01-08, 20:35
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Re: in this thread, we find out why people are so against other people seeing them naked.
quote:Originally posted by Psychonautical:
They don't think it's wrong. They just don't want to be judged.
I hate them.
actually I dont, I just feel sorry for them.
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#7
 2007-01-08, 20:37
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Psychonautical 
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Re: in this thread, we find out why people are so against other people seeing them naked.
quote:Originally posted by burntoffering:
I hate them.
actually I dont, I just feel sorry for them.
You really are way too opinionated. Not everybody is like you. Learn to deal with it.
That's probably for the best though.
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#8
 2007-01-08, 20:39
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Re: in this thread, we find out why people are so against other people seeing them naked.
Everyone knows nude bodies hold the utmost of sin!
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#9
 2007-01-08, 20:41
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burntoffering 
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Re: in this thread, we find out why people are so against other people seeing them naked.
quote:Originally posted by Psychonautical:
You really are way too opinionated. Not everybody is like you. Learn to deal with it.
That's probably for the best though.
I could say the same about them. couldnt you?
think about it. they simply say "that girls a whore" or "if you post pussy pics you will regret it". I at least give people a chance to give their side of things.
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#10
 2007-01-08, 20:41
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Re: in this thread, we find out why people are so against other people seeing them naked.
You mean you feel sorry for 99% of the world? Wow, i can think of such a better use of my emotions/time.
People don't want to be seen naked primarily because of self-conciousness/worries about their physical appearance. Plus it has a lot to do with trust. Do you trust people to see you naked?
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#11
 2007-01-08, 20:45
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Re: in this thread, we find out why people are so against other people seeing them naked.
It's a cultural thing.
We're taught from an early age that nakedness is somehow 'wrong'. It's fundamental - look at Adam and Eve.
If you overcome that and are comfortable enough with your body to want to show it off, by all means go ahead.
But if people feel uncomfortable about it, for whatever reason, there's no reason why they should get nekkid
Jx
[This message has been edited by Jessic (edited 01-08-2007).]
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#12
 2007-01-08, 20:46
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Re: in this thread, we find out why people are so against other people seeing them naked.
I get self conscious with people seeing me naked. I'm uncircumcised, have a penis like a water focet, have back acne, ass hair... lots more humanly stuff that now seems to be rejected by mainstream media and most people considered "hot."
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#13
 2007-01-08, 20:49
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Psychonautical 
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Re: in this thread, we find out why people are so against other people seeing them naked.
quote:Originally posted by voodoonirvana:
I get self conscious with people seeing me naked. I'm uncircumcised, have a penis like a water focet, have back acne, ass hair... lots more humanly stuff that now seems to be rejected by mainstream media and most people considered "hot."
Aside from the water faucet thing.. I'm about the same.
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#14
 2007-01-08, 20:51
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Re: in this thread, we find out why people are so against other people seeing them naked.
quote:Originally posted by burntoffering:
[B] so what man, a boner just makes your dick look bigger.
B]
Dumbest thing I've read today.
People just don't like being judged by others are are afraid of it, that's about it.
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#15
 2007-01-08, 20:57
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burntoffering 
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Re: in this thread, we find out why people are so against other people seeing them naked.
quote:Originally posted by The Poet Chemist:
Do you trust people to see you naked?
should I not? even if I dont trust a person, why cant she see me naked? she might tell someone that she saw me naked? osunds shakey to me.
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#16
 2007-01-08, 21:00
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Re: in this thread, we find out why people are so against other people seeing them naked.
quote:Originally posted by voodoonirvana:
I get self conscious with people seeing me naked. I'm uncircumcised, have a penis like a water focet, have back acne, ass hair... lots more humanly stuff that now seems to be rejected by mainstream media and most people considered "hot."
water faucet huh? I would think most women would know a g spot dick when they see one.
as for ass hair and backne, so what, most people have backne at some point, and if you have a dick dhaped like a faucet, a woman should over look everything else.
I would If I was female.
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#17
 2007-01-08, 21:09
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Re: in this thread, we find out why people are so against other people seeing them naked.
quote:Originally posted by burntoffering:
water faucet huh? I would think most women would know a g spot dick when they see one.
as for ass hair and backne, so what, most people have backne at some point, and if you have a dick dhaped like a faucet, a woman should over look everything else.
I would If I was female.
Isn't the G spot in an up? My dick goes straight and then about the last inch and a half it dramatically curves downwards. So I suppose it would be good on the G spot id I were fucking her doggy style.
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#18
 2007-01-08, 21:13
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Re: in this thread, we find out why people are so against other people seeing them naked.
Regarding posting naked pictures on the internet, I'm just overly paranoid and crazy. Who knows where those pictures are going to end up.
Real life though, I'm not really self-conscious. I won't walk around naked in front of people (other than my boyfriend) but if someone happens to get a glimpse by walking in on me changing or something, I don't freak out.
There's also this thing known as "class." Displaying your naked self to the world? Not typically viewed as classy. It's inappropriate, even in our over-sexed, over exposed society, some people still have some morality and dignity.
To those that are fine with revealing themselves, that's all well and good. Those pictures stay on the internet forever though. Good luck explaining them.
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#19
 2007-01-08, 21:17
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Re: in this thread, we find out why people are so against other people seeing them naked.
I have given up trying to figure people out.
I will now embrace your views, and accept your choices. but I wont be happy about it.
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#20
 2007-01-08, 23:01
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Re: in this thread, we find out why people are so against other people seeing them naked.
When I drink... I'm always getting naked. I don't know why... Running totally nude is fun you know? Slapping the face of sleeping people is also fun. My friends got picture of my penis doing some crazy stuff you know?
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#21
 2007-01-08, 23:04
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burntoffering 
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Re: in this thread, we find out why people are so against other people seeing them naked.
quote:Originally posted by Zacher:
When I drink... I'm always getting naked. I don't know why... Running totally nude is fun you know? Slapping the face of sleeping people is also fun. My friends got picture of my penis doing some crazy stuff you know?
I know excactly what you mean.
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#22
 2007-01-08, 23:05
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Re: in this thread, we find out why people are so against other people seeing them naked.
It's just stems from what our society deems to be normal and acceptable. People are taught from a young age that they have to wear clothes, and that seeing other people naked is scandalous. What else are they supposed to believe?
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#23
 2007-01-09, 14:34
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Re: in this thread, we find out why people are so against other people seeing them naked.
quote:Originally posted by burntoffering:
I have given up trying to figure people out.
Here, this might help.
Not everybody thinks the same way as you do.
It's been pointed out already, but the italics might help it sink in. People just have fundamental differences and it just so happens that you're in the minority in this one.
That said, I don't mind being seen naked too much. I mean, I'd rather not be naked in public, but I don't hate it. But if I had any major perceived 'imperfections', I know I'd hate it.
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#24
 2007-01-09, 14:51
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Re: in this thread, we find out why people are so against other people seeing them naked.
I haven't ever seen a decent thread thats topic includes "In this thread".
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#25
 2007-01-09, 15:43
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Re: in this thread, we find out why people are so against other people seeing them naked.
It's winter, it's freezing cold outside. maybe in summer...
Anyway if you're so against wearing cloths, then join one of those nudist camps.
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#26
 2007-01-09, 16:08
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Re: in this thread, we find out why people are so against other people seeing them naked.
I prefer wearing clothes with or without people around, I'm not a big fan of my physical appearance.
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#27
 2007-01-09, 16:17
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Re: in this thread, we find out why people are so against other people seeing them naked.
I don't care if people see me naked, providing it was my decision to be naked.
On new years I went to Barwon Heads, a town on the ocean. There were like 2,500+ people all on the beach waiting for the countdown. I ripped off my clothes, got butt naked, and went skinny dipping into the ocean. Body surfing at midnight. People stole my tshirt and thongs  , but they didn't get my pants or boxers. I was the only naked person out there. Some random girl came in with me in her bra/underwear and my best make came in in his boxers.
Police on horseback questioned me as to why I was naked. I told them people stole my clothes. The dumb fucks asked "..what...while you were wearing them?" God, sometimes I wonder.
Any way, that concludes my unrelated story.
Nakedness is cool.
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#28
 2007-01-09, 16:36
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Re: in this thread, we find out why people are so against other people seeing them naked.
quote:Originally posted by Psychonautical:
You do know what it means to be self conscious right?
So many images of perfection. So many definitions of ugly. It's not that hard to fucking grasp my friend.
The vast majority of the population believe that the body that they have is not for lack of a better word, worthy to be seen naked. If it weren't for the media, the arrogant, self absorbed snobs. And just plain unfair judgment, people would go naked all the time. Except when it's uncomfortable physically to do so.
Also, it's harder to hide a boner.
Oh, also a while ago I modelled naked for my friends art folio. He was doing a thing on the media's portrayal of the normal 'perfect' male. So I would stand naked infront of a white backdrop and he would use a projector to project images of "Mens Health" cover men, and Brad Pit in Fight Club and Troy.
In the end, his lecturer (female) said that I was the perfect portrayal of a man (she must be on crack).
But yeah, every where we look we see perfection. It sucks.
Again, another irrelivent story.
[This message has been edited by arquin (edited 01-09-2007).]
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#29
 2007-01-09, 20:03
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Re: in this thread, we find out why people are so against other people seeing them naked.
quote:Originally posted by Zacher:
When I drink... I'm always getting naked. I don't know why... Running totally nude is fun you know? Slapping the face of sleeping people with my penis is also fun. My friends got picture of my penis doing some crazy stuff you know?
EDIT: Added with my penis.
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#30
 2007-01-09, 21:16
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Re: in this thread, we find out why people are so against other people seeing them naked.
quote:Originally posted by arquin:
People stole my ... thongs  , but they didn't get my boxers
WTF
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#31
 2007-01-09, 21:47
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Re: in this thread, we find out why people are so against other people seeing them naked.
probably my middle aged spread, and Im only 17 FFS
/>/> Michael
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#32
 2007-01-09, 23:29
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Re: in this thread, we find out why people are so against other people seeing them naked.
nudist.
People are self-conscious, body conscious.
There's alot of pressure from society to look picture perfect, and girls fear that what they are perhaps won't fill your expectations.
Well, that's me atleast.
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#33
 2007-01-09, 23:50
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Re: in this thread, we find out why people are so against other people seeing them naked.
quote:Originally posted by schmexy:
nudist.
People are self-conscious, body conscious.
There's alot of pressure from society to look picture perfect, and girls fear that what they are perhaps won't fill your expectations.
Well, that's me atleast.
fuck, I am happy whenever I see a female body, I could give a fuck less if there are imperfections.
nothing is perfect. for instance, my nuts are to big, and that sucks. but I dont mind people looking at my big nuts.
and I am not a nudist, I just dont mind people seeing me naked.
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#34
 2007-01-09, 23:52
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Re: in this thread, we find out why people are so against other people seeing them naked.
I'm afraid people will realize i actually have a small penis. 
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#35
 2007-01-10, 01:04
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Re: in this thread, we find out why people are so against other people seeing them naked.
If I saw more people walking around naked I would to but as I see nobody around me naked I don't feel like being the first one.
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#36
 2007-01-10, 02:01
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Re: in this thread, we find out why people are so against other people seeing them naked.
I love being nude, and nude is such a better word than naked.
Nudity is totally natural but we've developed clothes as a sort of advanced preening kind of thing.
Plus we're conditioned from birth to think NUDITY BAD, NAKED SHAME.
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