I've had my dick sucked, but only briefly. I've never been sucked off until completion.

Am I missing out?

I have a thing about oral sex, where I'd much rather not have to go down on a girl if I can help it, so likewise, I never expect a girl to go down on me.

I've been considering getting a hooker (like a high-class escort or whatever, a hot one) to suck my dick. If I'm paying for it, then obviously I won't feel a need to reciprocate.

Do you think it's worth it? It'll probably cost me at least a hundred bucks for a decent one (plus hotel costs).

wtfbbq. just tell the next girl you're with you've never had one and give her a sad puppy face.

It's nice, but it's not as good as sex. That more or less sums it up. Also people who havn't done it before or arn't good at it really hurt becuase they always scrape their teeth on your cock *shudders*.

quote:Originally posted by lauren7249:

wtfbbq. just tell the next girl you're with you've never had one and give her a sad puppy face.

I'd feel like I'm being manipulative. Since I don't see myself giving her oral at any point.

My ex was the first girl to put my dick in her mouth for longer than a minute, so at one point I ended up trying to give her oral. But the most I could do was lick her clit for like 1 second, and I couldn't handle anymore.

Not that she smelled bad or anything, I just have a thing about that area. Sticking my dick in is hard enough.

*awaits "omg ur gay" comments*

quote:Originally posted by lauren7249:

wtfbbq. just tell the next girl you're with you've never had one and give her a sad puppy face.

Just cuz youre easy doesnt make his hookers easy!

Do you have any idea why you don't like giving oral?

quote:Originally posted by Mr.Happy:

Do you have any idea why you don't like giving oral?

He's Gay.

The experience depends entirely on the person giving you oral sex. I've heard complaints that some women are too rough/don't know what they're doing/suck too hard/bite, etc. For most men, that isn't pleasurable. It's not rocket science, but it does take a bit of finesse.

If you truly want to enjoy it, find a girl you can talk to about anything, including how you want your blowjob. Only then will it be truly enjoyable.

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

I'd feel like I'm being manipulative. Since I don't see myself giving her oral at any point.

My ex was the first girl to put my dick in her mouth for longer than a minute, so at one point I ended up trying to give her oral. But the most I could do was lick her clit for like 1 second, and I couldn't handle anymore.

Not that she smelled bad or anything, I just have a thing about that area. Sticking my dick in is hard enough.

*awaits "omg ur gay" comments*

I think you first need to work out why you can't do it.

Then talk to your girlfriend.

Think about how offended you would be if she cheated on you with an escort?

But either way, you need to try and understand why you can't do it and talk about it in order to hopefully overcome it.

damnit, i couldnt not go down. my GF gets oral from me every day.

I've never had a proper blowjob either. Not for lack of trying on her part, she just wasnt experienced enough. I'll take the old in-out over oral any day.

My husband likes it, but he says that regular sex is better.

It's true though that if you're not willing to give it, then you won't be getting it. My husband goes down on me a LOT more than I go down on him...But he's the opposite of gadzooks in that he LOVES doing it. We only discovered this fact within the past year, because before that he was all wierd about going down there as well.

All I can say is, try it for longer than a few seconds and maybe you'll get over your aversion? My husband sure as hell did...And then maybe girls will go down on you too?

I've never had one to completion, either.

As a side note, I find it strange to see Digital Saviour in this forum! I just can't picture her doing anything sexual.

quote:Originally posted by SilentMind:

I've never had a proper blowjob either. Not for lack of trying on her part, she just wasnt experienced enough.

if you\'re not willing to go down on a chick she won\'t be willing to do so for you, i had a friend who had sucked it before but always sucked at it, one day i decided i would eat her really well, this got her really excited and performed the best blowjob i\'ve had yet, the simple desire to please me that she had after i pleased her really drove her to do an excellent job, and yes you are missing out

I always have a sad puppy face.

You are missing out.

quote:Originally posted by Mr.Happy:

Do you have any idea why you don't like giving oral?

Honestly, I just kinda find that area gross. I don't like close-up pussy shots in porn or anything. I'm not even too fond of vaginal intercourse to be honest.

I usually prefer masturbation over sex for some reason. It's been like that for me for the past few years.

quote:Originally posted by Duck In Fog:

Think about how offended you would be if she cheated on you with an escort?

I'm single right now. I would never cheat, even with a hooker for just a one-time blow job.

\ quote:Originally posted by Xiao Mei:

All I can say is, try it for longer than a few seconds and maybe you'll get over your aversion? My husband sure as hell did...And then maybe girls will go down on you too?

I don't know. The thought of it alone makes me cringe.

I guess I would be satisfied not getting a blow job while in a relationship. I think I might just go for the whole hooker thing. Vancouver supposedly has some of the hottest prostitutes on this one street (at least for North America or something), but they cost like a couple hundred just for a blow job, and you have to take them to one of the expensive hotels downtown.

But oh man are they ever hot. I've talked to them before, and have been so tempted to blow huge amounts of money just for one night. Luckily I can kill the temptation pretty easily when I think of all the other things I can do with that amount of money.

But one blow job, I might just do it. For the experience and all.

Maybe find a girl who doesn't like recieving oral? Then you wouldn't have to feel bad for not reciprocating. I go down on my boyfriend all the time, and he's never gone down on me and I don't mind...But if the media has taught me anything, it's that most women love oral sex, so maybe not...If you really want to experience it, just go with your hooker idea. I'm sure you can find a decent looking cheap hooker if you look hard enough.

But something concerns me...You say you have a hard time even putting your dick in a vagina...Are you sure you're not gay? Isn't a huge part of heterosexuality wanting to stick your dick in a pussy? No offense though, you know I love you!

quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:

But something concerns me...You say you have a hard time even putting your dick in a vagina...Are you sure you're not gay? Isn't a huge part of heterosexuality wanting to stick your dick in a pussy? No offense though, you know I love you!

It's really hard to explain. I just know that I'm not gay though because I have no desire to ever stick it in a guys ass (or a girls ass either, for that matter).

Maybe I'm more Asexual than anything. I crave sex with myself (masturbation) first and foremost, then with a girl at times, and not at all with a guy.

Again, it's hard to explain. The few friends I have even mentioned anything close to this too think it's weird. In fact alot of them think I'm just a homosexual trapped in the closet.

Which is why I pretend to be more interested in sex (with chicks) just to throw them off. It's easy though for me to act horny though, and sometimes kinda fun. But I also have an easy time faking homosexuality (I've actually done it at parties).

But anyway, yeah I'm not offended ( <3 ). I know it must be hard to understand to most people, so I kinda expected at least someone to suggest that I might be gay.

You could say you're in between straight and asexual then...

quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:

You could say you're in between straight and asexual then...

That pretty much sums it up quite well actually.

Goddamn, that sucks for you. Yeah, youre missing out. Especially if you are drunk, that way you dont have to do anything except lay there and have a good time.

Im still angry about mine getting interrupted the other night. >:/

Buddy at least you've gotten head.

if you find it disgusting, how about look at it so much that you become desensitised?

i mean, thats how i became immune to goatse

I'm honestly baffled by the fact you have no desire towards vaginal intercourse...

...but onto fellacio. I can't orgasm from a blow-job, I didn't honestly think it was possible. Ive always enjoyed trying, though.

I'm thinking if you wanna find out what you really like then you should take note of what you think of when you masturbate.

Men or women? Or what triggers it?

Then you can discover what turns you on.

You say you're not gay but you really might be, (this will need a sex therapist, obviously), especially if you have experienced negativity about homosexuality early on.

Or, it could be that there are trust issues, you may need a more fulfilling relationship with a woman, establishing more than just physical attraction, before you start getting intimate with her, or develop those feelings later on..

You haven't had a proper blowjob ever???

God

Well....it's. I wouldn't say it's better or worse then sex. It's different. Good none the less.

Ohw, and don't make the mistake of sayin suck as hard as you can. I did it once. Scared the shit outa me the next day, i had sorta forgotten it but when i looked down in the shower my dick had all these darkish spots. I thought it was dyin and fallin off. Turns out you can get serious hicky's on ya dick too.

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

That pretty much sums it up quite well actually.

*glows with pride*



lol

Just out of curiousity, what do you think about when you masturbate?

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

I'd feel like I'm being manipulative. Since I don't see myself giving her oral at any point.

My ex was the first girl to put my dick in her mouth for longer than a minute, so at one point I ended up trying to give her oral. But the most I could do was lick her clit for like 1 second, and I couldn't handle anymore.

Not that she smelled bad or anything, I just have a thing about that area. Sticking my dick in is hard enough.

*awaits "omg ur gay" comments*

Are you 12? Do you still fear girl germs or something. Other then that nothing really productive, A hooker will do the job but it isn't worth it. Go to a party. Fuck off all this sexuality shit evryone else is spouting, get drunk, get her drunk and you're set.

Now you guys are going to flame the absolute shit out me, meh, shit happens. have a nice day

[This message has been edited by Mr Smith (edited 01-09-2007).]

Take a big fat rip of 60x salvia and stick it in a yogurt, it will all soon become clear.

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

I'm single right now. I would never cheat, even with a hooker for just a one-time blow job.



Read it wrong sorry, thought you said you were with someone.

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

I'd feel like I'm being manipulative. Since I don't see myself giving her oral at any point.

My ex was the first girl to put my dick in her mouth for longer than a minute, so at one point I ended up trying to give her oral. But the most I could do was lick her clit for like 1 second, and I couldn't handle anymore.

Not that she smelled bad or anything, I just have a thing about that area. Sticking my dick in is hard enough.

*awaits "omg ur gay" comments*

Wow... have you gone through puberty yet? I mean like fully?

quote:Originally posted by fuckbiscuit:

Take a big fat rip of 60x salvia and stick it in a yogurt, it will all soon become clear.

somehow i think a 20x big hit might do fine

Me neither, too much teeth on my cock kind of put me off.

I only like giving oral because I usually feel the girl deserves some special treatment, doesn't taste especially nice and the cooch isn't the most attractive thing to look at it so I just close my eyes and get licking.

being fairly young, I've only gotten blowjobs from two different girls.

one fairly modest one technique-wise, which was still great though because it was my loving girlfriend, and one which was fucking amazingly mindblowing. holy SHIT. I seriously hadn't thought that kind of physical pleasure could be possible.

as for going down on girls, I love it. I really do. the reaction I get from it is amazingly arousing, plus they usually feel compelled to reciprocate.

what did I want to say? oh yea. don't worry, it'll come along. many girls will readily give you one, and be quite good at it too. just give it time, or get a hooker if you don't mind.

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

I've had my dick sucked, but only briefly. I've never been sucked off until completion.

Am I missing out?

I have a thing about oral sex, where I'd much rather not have to go down on a girl if I can help it, so likewise, I never expect a girl to go down on me.

I've been considering getting a hooker (like a high-class escort or whatever, a hot one) to suck my dick. If I'm paying for it, then obviously I won't feel a need to reciprocate.

Do you think it's worth it? It'll probably cost me at least a hundred bucks for a decent one (plus hotel costs).

No, man, it's not that great. Compared to the wonders of the vagina, it's nothing special.

quote:Originally posted by lauren7249:

wtfbbq. just tell the next girl you're with you've never had one and give her a sad puppy face.

QFT.

But get the all clear on HIV first.

Then listen to laurens advice

Me neither man... I was in the middle of a great one but i lost wood 'cuz it was my first time with the girl...

quote:Originally posted by Marchesa:

Or, it could be that there are trust issues,

That could have something to do with it. But I have trust issues with everyone. I don't even trust my own family or best friends. I barely even trust myself.

quote:Originally posted by Mr Smith:

Are you 12? Do you still fear girl germs or something.

I'm 22, and yes, I do still fear germs. I fear practically everything. I'm pretty paranoid.

quote:Originally posted by Thromboembolic:

Just out of curiousity, what do you think about when you masturbate?

Females, but not in a way that's easy to explain. I have a collection of at least 1,000 pics in my "porn" folder, but only like 5% of it is actual pornography (IE: full nudity, etc). I'm more turned on by the general female form than by the actual genital areas.

I definitely don't think about men, animals, or inanimate objects when I masturbate though, which is what brings me to the conclusion that I must be straight (if it had to come down to either gay or straight, although not everything can be so oversimplified).

This will probably sound really fucked up, but sometimes I have to try to imagine that I'm masturbating while I'm having sex just so that I can get off. Yes, you read that correctly, I fantasize that I'm by myself masturbating when I'm having sex...

But then sometimes when I'm masturbating, I imagine myself having sex.

Figure that one out if you can, then let me know how it works, because I sure don't.

Me either.

But I love giving cunnilingus, so I'm sure it shall come in time.

I dont think you need to pay for a hooker, honestly wtf is wrong with totse guys thinking this is a good idea.

Furthermore, i agree with most of the above posters in saying that you dont need to give head to get head. I hate getting head, but like giving it, i'm sure you could meet someone like me.

quote:Originally posted by fuckbiscuit:

Take a big fat rip of 60x salvia and stick it in a yogurt, it will all soon become clear.

Oh my God I hate Salvia. I was so scared my first time that I only did it once more, hoping that it would be different. But no, it's definitely not for me.

quote:Originally posted by Duck In Fog:



Read it wrong sorry, thought you said you were with someone.

That's alright. Maybe it was where I mentioned my ex that threw you off.

quote:Originally posted by DuckWarri0r:

Wow... have you gone through puberty yet? I mean like fully?

Yes, I do believe that I have gone through puberty... Fully.

quote:Originally posted by Argus:

and one which was fucking amazingly mindblowing. holy SHIT. I seriously hadn't thought that kind of physical pleasure could be possible.

This kind of thing is what makes me want one so bad... At least once.

quote:Originally posted by yoyobek:

But get the all clear on HIV first.

I was actually going to go to the clinic today but the power is out in like, half of my city.. WTF?

I woke up early for nothing.

But yeah, I'm working on that.

quote:Originally posted by pulsera:

Furthermore, i agree with most of the above posters in saying that you dont need to give head to get head. I hate getting head, but like giving it, i'm sure you could meet someone like me.

Well I hope you're right.

Wait a sec... *checks profile*

Where in BC are you from? (Assuming you're a female...)

Nothing is better then getting head while watching the game and having a beer. Sometimes sex is just to much work.

quote:Originally posted by StealthyRacoons:

Sometimes sex is just to much work.

You're preachin' to the choir... I know exactly what you mean. That's half of the reason that I don't like sex.

I get some interesting looks when I turn it down, but half the time it's just because I really don't feel like doing it.

I paid like... $80 for a fleshlight and I'm even too lazy to use that.

Dude, you're just not getting it from the right chick period. Either that, or you're secretly gay. Seriously. I've been with chicks who give such good head, it's almost like having your dick in a pussy. Also, there's some sort of satisfaction that comes from fucking a bitch/having her ride your cock up and down, side-to-side. I don't know about you, but it just gets me so hard when I'm making out with a chick and she gets all wet. Then the starts stroking my cock, and her panties fall down. Next thing you know, well, YOU KNOW. Sex isn't considered work for me. It's like, skating is work, but it's fun. And sex isn't even that. If you know what you're doing and both people benefit, it's the bombest shit. I'm telling you, there's nothing more appealing than a wet pussy.

Unless you're gay.

This will sound corny but I really believe it will work. Not trusting anyone is a BIG deal. Stop looking at porn (believe it or not too much porn can be having a negative influence on your sex drive) and start building fulfilling relationships with real women(positive influence). Nevermind about actually doing anything for the moment as I think it will just happen anyway.

quote:Originally posted by Mr. Stabby:

It's nice, but it's not as good as sex. That more or less sums it up. Also people who havn't done it before or arn't good at it really hurt becuase they always scrape their teeth on your cock *shudders*.

The teeth scraping is the fun part >.>

I've never had a proper BJ either.

I felt TEETH. I know SOME scraping is nice, but I felt more than that. it was painful. I had to slap her to stop with the teeth.

Scooby DO WORK!!

quote:Originally posted by Mr. Stabby:

It's nice, but it's not as good as sex. That more or less sums it up. Also people who havn't done it before or arn't good at it really hurt becuase they always scrape their teeth on your cock *shudders*.

maybe thats because your not into pain, mr. stabby? i think i might quite like it for a chick to use teeth...

-Kman101

i shot a wad in my gf's mouth and she nearly gagged but sawllowed. she didnt like it so I dont do it anymore but she loves sucking the dick so I let her. the other night she wnated me on top of her so we both got the experience throat fucking and out of respect i popped it on her tits and then went and got her a washcloth.

Gadzooks, your a weird kid.

Pfft. Neither have I. Sex but no bjs. Dumb huh? Every chick I have had sex with finds it demeaning. But thats not a very large sample size.

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

I've had my dick sucked, but only briefly. I've never been sucked off until completion.

Am I missing out?

I have a thing about oral sex, where I'd much rather not have to go down on a girl if I can help it, so likewise, I never expect a girl to go down on me.

I've been considering getting a hooker (like a high-class escort or whatever, a hot one) to suck my dick. If I'm paying for it, then obviously I won't feel a need to reciprocate.

Do you think it's worth it? It'll probably cost me at least a hundred bucks for a decent one (plus hotel costs).

dude no offense...but if you plan on getting married try explaining to your wife you payed a hooker to suck your dick...yes it probably would be worth the 100 dollars but think about the consequence.

quote:Originally posted by soro_one:

Gadzooks, your a weird kid.



quote:Originally posted by Knobchops:

Sex but no bjs. Dumb huh?

Yeah. I've had plenty of vaginal intercourse, so I want to see what it's like in a different orifice, and you can probably all tell by now about me that there's no way that I'm sticking it in the ass.

quote:Originally posted by kinkybitch:

dude no offense...but if you plan on getting married try explaining to your wife you payed a hooker to suck your dick...yes it probably would be worth the 100 dollars but think about the consequence.

How is she supposed to know that?

For one thing, I don't plan on getting married anytime soon (if ever). Also, it's not like I'm going to tell my future wife each and every sexual encounter I've had.

And I really hope she doesn't tell me either.

That's one thing I don't like discussing in any kind of relationship. The past is in the past.

Besides, I've done much worse than getting a blow job from a hooker. I'd rather she know about that than some of the other things I've done.

quote:Originally posted by kinkybitch:

dude no offense...but if you plan on getting married try explaining to your wife you payed a hooker to suck your dick...yes it probably would be worth the 100 dollars but think about the consequence.

Take it to the grave!

The last time I got a BJ, probably the first time I actually got a load off with a BJ, the girl choked on my cum.

Funniest shit I've seen in awhile.

I felt it better to just blow my load while she was doing it without any signs that it was imminent.

Plus, we were both wasted so I was just to lazy to say anything, haha.