Lets say you got a new girlfriend and you where friends for a short time before but then you decided to start dateing. When would you make the move for:

1. First kiss.

2. In the shirt.

3. Hands in the pants.

4. In the bed.

I just used the four bases as a rough relationship advancement. But what signs did you get to try to get to this next thing. Or just stuff that pushed your relationship to the next level.

All I have to say is that, assuming you're both reasonably experienced, sooner is better than later.

You wait to long and you start to build it all up in your mind and waiting for it to be 'right.'

I think we're all generally better off to have sex pretty soon into it, the first time it seems natural. That way you're over the hurdle of the 'first time' and can get on to the good old fashioned fucking.

Follow the Fibonacci sequence and you'll be FINE LIKE WINE.

just move through those "bases" every next time things get hot...gauge her reaction.

Take it slow at first, then speed up when it feels right.

quote:Originally posted by Nameless Dude:

When would you make the move for:

1. First kiss.

2. In the shirt.

3. Hands in the pants.

4. In the bed.



1. When she's not in the hospital.

2. When her tits are at least a C-cup.

3. When the forest has been chopped down.

4. When it's not time to "ride the red dragon."

I find this depends on the age of the girl... generally speaking, once they hit 18 they're a lot more willing to miss steps...

Yeah, there is no right time to make moves. You need to play this ALL by ear, and be able to make changes on the fly.

If you need to ask, you're doing it wrong.

quote:Originally posted by Gus:

Yeah, there is no right time to make moves. You need to play this ALL by ear, and be able to make changes on the fly.

If you need to ask, you're doing it wrong.

I was just curious of what other people thought.

it depends entirely on the situation personaly ive never bothered with step two in my life cos ive never realy given a shit about it

All I have to say is what the fuck are you thinking going into a "dating" relationship and you haven't had a "first kiss?" What're you? In fucking middle school. If so, come back in a few years.

quote:Originally posted by Just Another Facial:

1. When she's not in the hospital.

2. When her tits are at least a C-cup.

3. When the forest has been chopped down.

4. When it's not time to "ride the red dragon."

QFT!

[This message has been edited by dominic_arenas (edited 01-12-2007).]

when you are making out, generally acheived pretty soon, make out then go for the boobies, then if thats cool go down her pants, and she will probably reciprocate and once thats happened once you have a precedence and can keep going at least until that point and it will take its natural progression