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connect your lips to her lips etc.....

But should it just be a peck or what?

it's a kiss. and apparently your first, you'll be too caught up in the moment to follow any predetermined planning



just let it flow, do what feels good. a peck will leave you dissatisfied, i say go for a nice, long, wet smooch, possibly with some tongue.

quote:Originally posted by baliente:

it's a kiss. and apparently your first, you'll be too caught up in the moment to follow any predetermined planning



just let it flow, do what feels good. a peck will leave you dissatisfied, i say go for a nice, long, wet smooch, possibly with some tongue.

for the first kiss with the chick, initiating the tongue would be going a bit far. if she tries it while you go whatever route, go with it, but otherwise, you probably want to stay away from using your tongue the first time.

aww! youre cute

actually .. since its your first time kissing her, you have to make it good. or decent enough. or else you'll probably never get to kiss another girl again, if she tells anyone. and you'll definately never see her again.

dont make a move so quick though; you have to flirt with her a lot and make sure she's flirting BACK, cause a lot of girls just have a flirty personality but dont want anything to do with the guy.

then when you are forsure she wants to hookup with you, ask her to hang out. just you & her. and when you're hanging out with her and get to that point where both your faces are really close to each other - lean in and kiss her. dont use your tongue first unless she does it. (and if she uses her tongue, USE YOURS! because if you dont youll make it suck and she'll hate you. this guy did that to me and i never want to kiss anyone like that again!) dont just quickly peck her face, cause thats stupid. oh yeah, and dont just kiss her in the middle of a sentence.

umm .. i dont know how to explain making out, so if she starts trying to use her tongue, just stick your tongue in her mouth and move it around. haha. watch Cruel Intentions if you need to. theres a scene in it where this girl teaches another girl how to kiss!

actually, my first kiss with my boyfriend (before he was my boyfriend)- we were in his car & i had a packet of PopRocks and i put them in my mouth, then i motioned him to come kiss me and he did. i was scared of getting rejected though, so if you are too its ok. and dont kill yourself if you DO get rejected

oh yea. or you could just say 'can i have a goodbye kiss?' when you drop her off.

and if she says she doesnt kiss on the first date ... give her the puppy eyes!

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drunkenees on her part would help cos she wouldnt know how bad u are that said before my current girlfreind ive been wasted everytime id pulled in my life so i sucked till then i expect due to not remembering much

quote:Originally posted by yodel:

I won't be able to pull a fast one over her.



Dont try and go fast, ive never picked up anyone who goes fast but ive herad that it is bad. Over use of tongue is simply dissatisfying and disgusting. /mykissingexpertise.

Start small you can always go bigger. Once you get some experience under you belt you will be more confident and can try bigger better things. In the end though if she goes hard at it follow the lead and fake it till you make it.

Just let her lead until you're ready to take over.

quote:Originally posted by ethical_digger:

Dont try and go fast, ive never picked up anyone who goes fast but ive herad that it is bad. Over use of tongue is simply dissatisfying and disgusting. /mykissingexpertise....

It's an expression, her didn't mean it literally.

Kissing feels quite natural once you've started, so I wouldn't worry too much about technique. Just don't get excited; keep your movements small at first and as it progresses you'll know what to do. It's pretty hard to screw up a kiss unless you have down syndrome or something..

I have to say, the first time I kissed a girl, it really didnt turn out to be what I expected. Then again, I was trashed off my ass and just went for it. Lips feel a lot different than they look.

And when making out, the guy is really supposed to have the top lip. And tilt your head sideways so you dont bonk foreheads, dumbass.

*laughs for about 10 minutes while thinking of my friend doing that*

Trust me, it makes it worse when you think about it. If you have never kissed before..don't think about it just let it happen.

quote:Originally posted by yodel:

First, I never had a girlfriend before or really talked to girls before now. But now I have this girl falling all over me and I have to make my move. I want to kiss her, but I have no clue what I'm doing and the fact that she's been with other boys before means I won't be able to pull a fast one over her.

So I need advice as to what I do when I muster up the courage to lean in and go for it.

What's the big fucking deal???? Just wait for the right moment which is absolutely the hardest part in this subject. If she likes you then there's no problem just be patient. Now about the kissing don't worry is as simple as putting your lips against hers and closing your eyes and that's it everything else will follow from there you'll see... besides nobody can really explain to you how to do it because there's nothing to learn. It's pretty simple I promise, it's like walking or driving a car you don't think about it you just do it and that's it..... Good luck !!!

quote:Originally posted by prettypoems:

Kissing feels quite natural once you've started, so I wouldn't worry too much about technique. Just don't get excited; keep your movements small at first and as it progresses you'll know what to do. It's pretty hard to screw up a kiss unless you have down syndrome or something..

Hey, don't pick on downies! Besides, I heard there awesome kissers, what with all the drool and all.

the guy is really supposed to have the top lip. And tilt your head sideways so you dont bonk foreheads, dumbass.

hahah. aw.

oh yeah i forgot to mention that too.

also.. it might seem weird but, CLOSE YOUR EYES

No tongue unless she does it first. Tilt your head and close your eyes. That is all you need to know for now. But the best thing to do is not to think about it.

quote:Originally posted by yodel:

So I need advice as to what I do when I muster up the courage to lean in and go for it.

Practice with your mom.

quote:Originally posted by Nameless Dude:

No tongue unless she does it first. Tilt your head and close your eyes. That is all you need to know for now. But the best thing to do is not to think about it.

Fuck!!! finally somebody makes good sense ..

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Reason #81651 you are my favourite poster, Gus.

It's not a military coup, it's a girl. Just lean in slowly, kiss her gently (pecking first), and see what she does. Body language is key ! If she is enjoying it, then move on to heavier things.

quote:Originally posted by doornob_lightbulb:

Hey, don't pick on downies! Besides, I heard there awesome kissers, what with all the drool and all.

..If you're into that.

quote:Originally posted by prettypoems:

..If you're into that.

I ONLY HEARD ABOUT IT I SWEAR!! NOTHING HAPPENED!!! FINE IT WAS A ONE TIME THING OK!!!

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