So you like this girl and she likes you back - alot. You want to ask her out, but first you gotta see if she's a virgin or not, how do you do this without offending her? Thanks my friends of totse. (If you're gonna flame then please just leave now)

-WifiGuy

PS, the boob thread is great

Edit: I cant explain it, but it matters a lot to me, so please look past why I want to know.

[This message has been edited by WifiGuy (edited 01-07-2007).]

why does it matter if she is or isnt?

quote:Originally posted by Crack Man:

why does it matter if she is or isnt?

My thoughts exactly.

quote:Originally posted by Crack Man:

why does it matter if she is or isnt?

+2

quote:Originally posted by Crack Man:

why does it matter if she is or isnt?

Wrong.

quote:Originally posted by y4m4:

+2

+1

"so, are you a virgin"

either way, it doesn't matter.

if she is: you get to be her first (potentially) and she will always remember you.

if she isn't: she probably won't suck as badly as most virgins so you will have more satisfying sex.

quote:Originally posted by Aseren:

Wrong.

explain nigga

Here's how you find out -- ask her out, then get her in a private place and ask her.

Asking her if she's a virgin while not in a relationship will make it sound like you just want to get in her pants if you ever ask her out.

If you got enough guts to ask her out you got enough guts to ask her ...btw doesnt matter does it really?

DON'T ASK IF SHE'S A VIRGIN. Trust me, if you want for example a relationship with her, don't ask her about her past anything she did. Tell her that, you don't want to know.

With my girlfriend, I get pissed everytime I see her,it tears me apart emotionally that she used to blow guys and we have been together for a couple of years now. I can't forgive and forget.

I can see why its important, especially if you're a virgin yourself.

But you dont ask if she's a virgin. Ever. If you absolutely have to know, then just bring up a conversation where you're talking about your romantic history, and ask her how experienced she is. Not even necessarily sexually. Just with relationships in general. And then you can pry a little further into the physical aspects.

That way, if she's not a virgin, she wont feel horrible awnsering the question, because you're not asking with the hopes that she is.

teeheee.



YOU:Hey Dixie! What's up?!

HER: Oh, not much! what about you?

YOU: Nothing, So ARE YOU A VIRGIN ?????

HER: No, my name isn't Dixie Normus for anything!

See the bold above.

/fun



Don't ask, but if you are going to or anything, make it slip into conversation. Like maybe have a playful discussion on how far you have gone, or you WOULD go with eachother.

quote:Originally posted by tainteddd:



HER: No, my name isn't Dixie Normus for anything!



I dont get it...

Make friends with one of her friends and get her to ask.

quote:Originally posted by SilentMind:

I dont get it...

It is from Austin Powers.



Like

Dixie= Dicks e

Normus= normous



= dicks enormous.

quote:Originally posted by tainteddd:

It is from Austin Powers.



Like

Dixie= Dicks e

Normus= normous

...

= dicks enormous.

quote:Originally posted by SilentMind:

I can see why its important, especially if you're a virgin yourself.

But you dont ask if she's a virgin. Ever. If you absolutely have to know, then just bring up a conversation where you're talking about your romantic history, and ask her how experienced she is. Not even necessarily sexually. Just with relationships in general. And then you can pry a little further into the physical aspects.

That way, if she's not a virgin, she wont feel horrible awnsering the question, because you're not asking with the hopes that she is.

I would agree with that, it's a good way.

I can understand why you'd want to ask aswell .. hope it goes well for you

Be indirect:

Q: Have you seen The 40 year old Virgin?

A: Yes no maybe im a dipshit blah blah

Q: So, is it too late to be a 40 year old virgin?

just forget it. there is no way unless youre in a serious relationship and only then will it be possible to ask without messing it up.

either that, or you can drug her and search for a hymen...

you don't wanna know. Trust me.

1. Ask her how far she's gone

2. Ask her a question that would inadvertently tell you the answer, without having to ask the direct 'are you a virgin' question. Ask her something like whats the craziest place you've made love

Meet up with her and repeat these words;

"Are you a virgin?"

Why the fuck did you need to ask how to do that?

quote:Originally posted by tainteddd:

teeheee.

Don't ask, but if you are going to or anything, make it slip into conversation. Like maybe have a playful discussion on how far you have gone, or you WOULD go with eachother.





this is wut i do i just bring up a conversation about how far she has gone with a guy

Um.. pardon for asking but once you get the answer, what do you do with it?

If she says yes, what do you do? Isn't that pressure on? Cause she is going to be extra nervous/cautious before going that extra step?

and what does that say to a guy if the girl says it without being asked? Like up front, you wanna go out? "Um, Ill give it a go but just to let you know I am not too experienced in anything at all... only dated.. I dunno for 2 weeks and am a virgin"?

quote:Originally posted by Sentinel:

you don't wanna know. Trust me.



qft.

You'll find out sooner or later. Be patient.

Why, are you the kind of douchbag that wouldn't date her if she's not a virgin?

If you are, you're the kind of asshole that represents most of what's wrong with men today.

You're also in for terrible sex.

Just ask what her experience level is with guys.

the OP never responded u know

easy answer myspace survey quiz bulliten things just find one where a question has somthing to do with the last time they had sex and like fill it out and message to them and try ti get them to fill it out

quote:Originally posted by WifiGuy:

So you like this girl and she likes you back - alot. You want to ask her out, but first you gotta see if she's a virgin or not, how do you do this without offending her? Thanks my friends of totse. (If you're gonna flame then please just leave now)

-WifiGuy

PS, the boob thread is great

Edit: I cant explain it, but it matters a lot to me, so please look past why I want to know.



Retarded.

Listen people, to answer your questions, I WILL NOT do anything with a girl that isn't a virgin. I can't explain why, but just trust me on that. I guess I cant be with a girl if I know she was that close with another guy.

quote:Originally posted by WifiGuy:

Listen people, to answer your questions, I WILL NOT do anything with a girl that isn't a virgin. I can't explain why, but just trust me on that. I guess I cant be with a girl if I know she was that close with another guy.

Why? You're just afraid she will know you have a small dick.

quote:Originally posted by WifiGuy:

Listen people, to answer your questions, I WILL NOT do anything with a girl that isn't a virgin. I can't explain why, but just trust me on that. I guess I cant be with a girl if I know she was that close with another guy.

Haha, well better find a keeper now, because when you get older there wont be many virgins. Just get over the fact that they fucked someone else. Just don't think about it.

quote:Originally posted by tainteddd:

It is from Austin Powers.



Like

Dixie= Dicks e

Normus= normous



= dicks enormous.



hehe...I get it.

No, I passed through this phase quickly honestly, i've noticed most other guys though this sticks in their craw till their in there 30's. They want to know all sorts of crazy shit like if their the biggest their girl has ever had. I could care less. Don't ask don't tell. I don't want to pick scabs, i've learned my lesson. I'm mature enough to live in the present moment and fuck what has happened as long as there's no std's.

quote:Originally posted by WifiGuy:

Listen people, to answer your questions, I WILL NOT do anything with a girl that isn't a virgin. I can't explain why, but just trust me on that. I guess I cant be with a girl if I know she was that close with another guy.

Better marry this chick then, cause good luck finding a virgin 5-10 years down the road. Seriously, it's better not to think of stuff like that. My girlfriend used to go out with one of my acquaintances. i followed that line of thought and didn't like where it went so i simply didn't think about it anymore. The less you think about some other guy fucking the girl you like, the better it is for you

quote:Originally posted by oral fixation:

"so, are you a virgin"

either way, it doesn't matter.

if she is: you get to be her first (potentially) and she will always remember you.

if she isn't: she probably won't suck as badly as most virgins so you will have more satisfying sex.

Apparently I wasn't that bad on my first time.

o_O

Not all virgins are totally clueless.

quote:Originally posted by hojadepapel:



2. Ask her a question that would inadvertently tell you the answer, without having to ask the direct 'are you a virgin' question. Ask her something like whats the craziest place you've made love





i would have never thought of that

quote:Originally posted by WifiGuy:

Listen people, to answer your questions, I WILL NOT do anything with a girl that isn't a virgin. I can't explain why, but just trust me on that. I guess I cant be with a girl if I know she was that close with another guy.

You're FUCKED. Why would you WANT to pop a cherry? Chances are, if she's a virgin, deflowering her will make her so much more clung to you. Don't get married. Most chicks aren't virgins after the age of 18.

quote:Originally posted by WifiGuy:

Listen people, to answer your questions, I WILL NOT do anything with a girl that isn't a virgin. I can't explain why, but just trust me on that. I guess I cant be with a girl if I know she was that close with another guy.

I watched Kids a few days ago...

Aw jeez, girls get passed around me and my friends like joints sometimes.

Dear OP,

If you are, yourself a virgin then you would be looking for a virgin to pop your cherry so its like a two way deal, if you arnt a virgin it doesnt fucking matter.