I was talking online to a female submissive last night. We were discussing various things to do with S&M. She asked me which was the worst 'punishment' i had ever inflicted on a woman had been.

I had to go and have a smoke and think about that for a minute.

My answer might surprise some of you and its not of the 'broken bottle in vag' variety (although some of those were horrific :P)

The worst punishment i have ever inflicted on a girl, for my own perverted pleasure, and one of the few things I am ashamed of is: I once told a woman she was stupid.

That might sound a little tame but trust me on this, whipping her cunny with eletro-cable would have caused her less pain.

So sadists what is the worst you have inflicted and Masochists, what is the worstes you have received?

I probably inflicted the most pain with a leather strap. I was also very good at nipple torture back in the day.

I wasn't brutal, but when they're tied up and helpless, they get a little fearful. I did get carried away many times.. :S

I would honestly have to say being ignored..

That is the worst type of punishment for me. Pain I can handle, but knowing I've disappointed him just hurts more than anything.

You called her stupid?

Arent you the least bit ashamed that thats the worst you've done?



For me...meh. A year ago I lost my virginity with a girl I was dating, and we've been on and off since then. Mostly off, but we still hook up. So a week ago, she finally hooked up with some other guy. Usually sex is something that's pretty serious for both of us, but she slept with this guy like 2 hours after meeting him. And from what I gather, he was a lot wider then I was, and a little rough in his technique. Bottom line, he tore her or bruised her or...whatever. And she bled for a few days after.

I'm the one that broke up with her mind you. And she still wants a relationship, but in all honesty...even when we were together it was almost completely based on sex. She knows that I dont really care about her in that way, but she still does care about me.



A few nights ago, I ended up drunk at her house. So we went into the backyard and started fooling around, and everything hurt her. By the time we actually had sex, she was crying. But she said that she missed me, and that she wanted to do it to be with me again. And whenever it hurt the most, she would tell me she loved me. At one point, I tried to pull her on top, but she wouldnt. She said it would hurt too much like that. And I asked her if thats how she did it with him, and she told me it was. And after that, I wasnt gentle at all. I held back when I needed to, but for the most part I was rough. I only slowed down when she had been begging me to stop for a few minutes.

Psychological fuckage is a lot worse than physical pain, I think.. it strikes deeper.

quote:Originally posted by Flock:

Psychological fuckage is a lot worse than physical pain, I think.. it strikes deeper.



Very true..

quote:Originally posted by Flock:

Psychological fuckage is a lot worse than physical pain, I think.. it strikes deeper.

Yep, Silent mind missed the point. I have inflicted terrible physical damage on women (i wasn't joking about the examples i mentioned).

But the deepest scars i have left weren't the torn genitals.

Back in the days when yoyobek did that shit, he once sat me down and walked around me, alternately insulting me, and then comforting me and being lovely. At the end of it he said

'I'm going home to my wife now. she's better than you'.



I think that's about the time it went too far.

quote:Originally posted by yoyobek:

Back in the days when yoyobek did that shit, he once sat me down and walked around me, alternately insulting me, and then comforting me and being lovely. At the end of it he said

'I'm going home to my wife now. she's better than you'.



I think that's about the time it went too far.



That isn't right at all...

quote:Originally posted by yoyobek:

Back in the days when yoyobek did that shit, he once sat me down and walked around me, alternately insulting me, and then comforting me and being lovely. At the end of it he said

'I'm going home to my wife now. she's better than you'.



I think that's about the time it went too far.

Lol god, reading the story of your life is like watching a bad A&E movie. Jesus, talking in third person, and having a shitty life to top it off. Can you like, never have children please?

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

Jesus, talking in third person,

Actually its a very brit way of talking/recounting a anecdote...Mrs.Ketch's retarded son (ie Me!) does it all the time.

Just so no one gets the wrong idea , the'submissive female' wasn't outcast.

There are many words to describe outcast but 'submissive' or 'masochist' are NOT among them :P

So, where are all these women with broken bottles in their vaginas? Explain.

quote:Originally posted by Khepri:

I would honestly have to say being ignored..

That is the worst type of punishment for me. Pain I can handle, but knowing I've disappointed him just hurts more than anything.

i hear that.

I'd be interested in hearing yoyo expand on that!

did you actually meet the man skin to skin as it were how brave if you did!

quote:Originally posted by rocker:

I'd be interested in hearing yoyo expand on that!

did you actually meet the man skin to skin as it were how brave if you did!



As far as I know she was indeed talking about a guy she knew IRL.

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:



As far as I know she was indeed talking about a guy she knew IRL.

Then she has my sympathy!

I can't think of anything. The most pain... sitting back and letting two guys spank her for over an hour. Everything I do from sticking pingpong balls in her pussy and fucking her to ejaculating in her hair and making her walk down the hallway of my dorm; none of it is punishment, she loves it just as much as I do.

The harder I am the more fun she is having. She doesn't have a god time unless I'm jabbing her cervix, stepping on her head and telling her to shut up and take it.

quote:Originally posted by y4m4:

I can't think of anything. The most pain... sitting back and letting two guys spank her for over an hour. Everything I do from sticking pingpong balls in her pussy and fucking her to ejaculating in her hair and making her walk down the hallway of my dorm; none of it is punishment, she loves it just as much as I do.

The harder I am the more fun she is having. She doesn't have a god time unless I'm jabbing her cervix, stepping on her head and telling her to shut up and take it.

What deity did you have to blow to find a woman like this? Lucky bastard. I demand photographic documentation that such a woman actually exists.

[This message has been edited by D Krunk (edited 01-07-2007).]

i told the girl who loved me to death she didn't matter enough to me to be likely to be remembered in 10 years. We had dated for 4 years and were still datin. I'm afraid i said it just to see the look on her face. Sometimes... i wish very hard i wasn't the meany i am.

how does she get the ping pong balls out?

and insults...be it stupid, ugly, worhtless, whatever...those always hurt more than any whipping, pull, or cut.

quote:Originally posted by y4m4:

I can't think of anything. The most pain... sitting back and letting two guys spank her for over an hour. Everything I do from sticking pingpong balls in her pussy and fucking her to ejaculating in her hair and making her walk down the hallway of my dorm; none of it is punishment, she loves it just as much as I do.

The harder I am the more fun she is having. She doesn't have a god time unless I'm jabbing her cervix, stepping on her head and telling her to shut up and take it.



Sounds good to me..

wow....this thread is .... O.O

quote:Originally posted by MartialShot:

wow....this thread is .... O.O



O.O??

quote:Originally posted by D Krunk:

I demand photographic documentation that such a woman actually exists.

Can it wait a few hours? I'm driving back to college in the morning. I'll make "Post your dirty pictures" thread so it can be locked when no one else posts in it so I don't have to hijack Jack's thread.

quote:Originally posted by oral fixation:

how does she get the ping pong balls out?

That's half the fun.

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quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

Yep, Silent mind missed the point. I have inflicted terrible physical damage on women (i wasn't joking about the examples i mentioned).

But the deepest scars i have left weren't the torn genitals.

I didnt miss the point. I understand how terrible psychological damage can be. However I dont rank 'stupid' up there as a critical psychological blow.

Yoyobek's one sounded kind of harsh though :\

quote:Originally posted by y4m4:

Can it wait a few hours? I'm driving back to college in the morning. I'll make "Post your dirty pictures" thread so it can be locked when no one else posts in it so I don't have to hijack Jack's thread.

Of course, whatever it takes

Live frog up the vagina sounds ghastly

quote:Originally posted by Trousersnake:

Live frog up the vagina sounds ghastly

Ewww... That made me shudder.

I'm terrified of frogs..

quote:Originally posted by Khepri:

Ewww... That made me shudder.

I'm terrified of frogs..

rrr..ribbit

I once called an extremely annoying young woman a 'stupid bitch', then later informed her that 'in all fairness, you were being a stupid bitch when I called you one.'

I still maintain she had it coming.

I'm not much of a sadist, nor masochist, so beyond profanities my stories are pretty tame.

quote:Originally posted by RogueWarheart:

rrr..ribbit



That reminded me of chronotrigger for some reason.

quote:Originally posted by SilentMind:

I didnt miss the point. I understand how terrible psychological damage can be. However I dont rank 'stupid' up there as a critical psychological blow.

Yoyobek's one sounded kind of harsh though :\



Ahhh right, my bad.

Actually in this specific case it was indeed the cruelest possible thing i could have said (which of course is why I said it).

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:



Ahhh right, my bad.

Actually in this specific case it was indeed the cruelest possible thing i could have said (which of course is why I said it).



I think theres more of a story there that you're holding back. -prods jack- Out with it!

When I was raped, My vagina bled for several days even though I'm on the pill and it wasnt period week.

The worst part was though, that he was a good friend of mine's boyfriend, so when I confronted him about it the next day he denied that anything had happened at all.

I was in such a fragile emotional state at the time that I almost believed him and convinced myself it never happened.

It was a long time after that before I could talk to men again.

I suppose that's not punishment though, just a horrible, painful, sexual experience.

quote:Originally posted by Marchesa:

So, where are all these women with broken bottles in their vaginas? Explain.



Yeah, tell us about that!

quote:Originally posted by SilentMind:



That reminded me of chronotrigger for some reason.

The frog dude =P

The worst punishment is being in your 30's and hanging around chatrooms looking for S&M experiences.

Probably the most interesting experience was purely psychological. I had been dating her for a couple of months, and we enjoyed going out to parks at night to hang out. Stars, picnic tables, and the possibility of being discovered. One time, I handcuffed her to a picnic shelter beam. She was completely naked except for high heels, a blindfold, and a makeshift gag made out of her panties.

I would play with her while she was bound, and then punish her for getting her juices on my finger. "You made it dirty. You're such a fucking slut. Why do I stoop so low to be with you?" And then I'd walk away, leaving her helpless and naked.

That was pretty intense.

There was another time where we were sitting outside, and she was stuck in a moment of thought. I asked her what she was thinking about, she said "you and God." "For all practical purposes," I said, "we are one in the same." (No, I'm not that egostical, it was part of the dom-sub roleplay)

She flipped the fuck out.

We fought for dominance, and after smacking her bare ass really hard for talking back and attacking me, I made her choke on my cock.

We have vanilla sex, too. I promise.

The more I read/hear about these kinky sexual things you guys do, the more vanilla I get. It's weird.

When I was a freshman in high school, my boyfriend of the time cheated on me with a fat girl. Then dumped me for her (because I was stupid enough to tell him I still wanted to be with him). Then continued to go to his house twice a week, let him get me all worked up, only to tell me that it didn't mean anything. We ended up dating again, and he cheated on me with the same girl. I broke up with him after I went to prom, and pretty much did a complete 180 with my personality.

The WORST thing I ever did to my husband was to pretend I was hurt worse than I actually was. He had forced me to have sex with him and I was very upset about it...Mainly because he didn't think of it as "rape" since I am his wife. Anyway, I had gotten up from the couch to get something when he suddenly said, "There's blood all over your dress!" To make a long story short, I had the curse, but I let him believe he had hurt me and caused me to bleed that bad. He felt so awful that he cried and most importantly he has NEVER forced himself on me again. He still doesn't think it's possible for a man to rape his wife, though...He just doesn't want to actually hurt me.

quote:Originally posted by Xiao Mei:

The WORST thing I ever did to my husband was to pretend I was hurt worse than I actually was. He had forced me to have sex with him and I was very upset about it...Mainly because he didn't think of it as "rape" since I am his wife. Anyway, I had gotten up from the couch to get something when he suddenly said, "There's blood all over your dress!" To make a long story short, I had the curse, but I let him believe he had hurt me and caused me to bleed that bad. He felt so awful that he cried and most importantly he has NEVER forced himself on me again. He still doesn't think it's possible for a man to rape his wife, though...He just doesn't want to actually hurt me.



Yeah but did you get off on doing that to him or did he enjoy 'raping' you ? Thats the point of this thread.

On a side note, depending on where you are and when you married he is right. Most places it used to be impossible for rape to occur within in a marriage as by marrying both parties gave automatic consent.

Unfortunately, along with so much else, the fem nazis have now just about managed to destroy /make criminal that fundamental tenet of marriage everywhere.

I'm his wife, not his property. He has no right to hold me down and forcibly penetrate me than if I were any other woman. I mean, he has a right to expect our relationship to be a sexual one, but if I happen to turn him down once or twice, he has no call to take what he wants anyway.

And no...I didn't get off from hurting him, but I did feel like he deserved it.

And yes I do think he got off on raping me...Because of my helplessness and how easy it was for him to overpower me.

quote:Originally posted by Xiao Mei:

I'm his wife, not his property.

the word is 'chattel' :P

quote:Originally posted by Xiao Mei:

I'm his wife, not his property. He has no right to hold me down and forcibly penetrate me than if I were any other woman. I mean, he has a right to expect our relationship to be a sexual one, but if I happen to turn him down once or twice, he has no call to take what he wants anyway.

And no...I didn't get off from hurting him, but I did feel like he deserved it.

And yes I do think he got off on raping me...Because of my helplessness and how easy it was for him to overpower me.

I agree. (About the "he's got no right to expect etc etc")

All I think is that it shows a lack of respect and it's just a disgusting way to treat someone you love.

Something similar happened to me a few times. But I suppose it's hard for him to think of it as rape because you're together. You should have punched him.