my gf has been having trouble getting me off latley... stress, psychological, hormonal, who knows. any way its really been getting her down and i feel shitty about it, so i was trying to think of a way so solve the problem. what if i were to beat it to the point of climax, but stop just before i got there, then let her finish me off a couple hours later? and just for clarification she wouldnt know about the preceedings... would i be more sensitive to her?

just looking for some guidance

Won't work mate.

Try this...You jack off while she plays with herself and you tell her how much you love watching her getting pleasure.

Works for me when it's one of those days.