my girlfriend has agreed to have teh butsekz, but i was wondering if anyone had any good suggestions for any lubes that i can buy at walmart or krogers?

thanks!

http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=Good+lube+for+anal+sex

Since you didn't bother to google, I don't bother to tinyurl.

http://files.blog-city.com/files/M05/99962/p/f/green_anal_lube.jpg

No its not a joke.

AstroGlide!

You shouldn't need lube. She should be 1. relaxed enough because she trusts you and 2. Her cunny juices should be flowing so hard that you can use them (they work fine).

You need lube, chances are she ain't ready.

That means it WILL hurt her and you can forget ever having it again.

DO it the way I suggest and she'll probably orgasm from it and start prefering it to vanilla.

BTW the classic 'doggy' position is probably the worst one for the first time.Choose aposition where she can guide you with her hand and control the depth of penetration.



[This message has been edited by jackketch (edited 01-05-2007).]

^ hmn, dont know about the no lube thing, but other advice is good.

give her bumhole a god fingering before hand. i would recoment geting her to use a plug or a small dildo to get her opened up, so she can open at her own pace.

also, dont let her go on top, i have been told that this is the most painful way.

I'd suggest 'Wet Stuff', it's a water-based lubricant that's fantastic for people who are new to the experience.

Personally, I'd only rely on her juices once she's used to being stretched. It's actually great to slowly prepare her for anal over a period of weeks, depending on her own pain threshold and... erm... 'flexibility'.

Go down on her and finger her asshole with a pinky... if that's cool, work up the size of your digits (build to two). Butt plugs are also fantastic for training a girl for anal. If you go too hard, too soon, you can accidently give some girls a complex regarding anal sex, due to the enormous amount of pain that can occur if she's not used to it.

As for positions, it's best to have her on her side the first time. Let her rock and control the depth of penetration.



[This message has been edited by Durell (edited 01-05-2007).]

Anal sounds like such a hassle, plus you end up with shit on your dick. I wouldn't bother.

quote:Originally posted by Zinedine Zidane:

Anal sounds like such a hassle, plus you end up with shit on your dick.



You've obviously never done anal.

quote:Originally posted by Toraton:



You've obviously never done anal.

Or he just had anal with dirty ass crack whores.

as an anal virgin i did not use any lube. the fluid from my vag was enough.

just be sure to go easy on her, and fingering her ass first doesn't hurt.

i dont get the anal fixation, yes it can feel just as good, but what if the man doesnt notice a big difference your vagi-gi than your ass? what then? hmmm?

quote:Originally posted by Zinedine Zidane:

plus you end up with shit on your dick. I wouldn't bother.



And for what, pray tell, did the good Lord give her a mouth?

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:



And for what, pray tell, did the good Lord give her a mouth?



*relives ass to mouth*

eh....its not that bad.

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

You shouldn't need lube. She should be 1. relaxed enough because she trusts you and 2. Her cunny juices should be flowing so hard that you can use them (they work fine).

DO it the way I suggest and she'll probably orgasm from it and start prefering it to vanilla.

That takes a little of the fun out of anal with my girlfriend. I thought she was kinda special that her vagina gets well covered in 'juice.' Its thick, thick like maple syrup, and runs onto my penis when she is laying on her back.

We use lube anyway, makes things a little easier to start out for us. Its that KY Liquid stuff, only takes a few drops.

And yes, she loves anal more than coitus. She has actually achieved orgasm during anal while stimulating her clitoris. Something she has never managed to do with any other man. She can only seem to orgasm through masturbation until that time.

Little spit goes a long way...

quote:Originally posted by Clit Commander:

Little spit goes a long way...

exactly