Alright so new years weekend, I took my girlfriend to vermont with my family. I took the opportunity to really advance on her for the first time. After much foreplay/fingering I asked her if she wanted to have sex. Which she did, but she was a virgin. I had trouble inserting myself but when I did she couldn't take all my dick. I tried forcing it a couple times but the pain was too much for her, she later started bleeding. I didn't get myself completely in, but im hoping I completely broke her hymen.

Today she came over and we would have had enough time to have sex but she didn't respond to my advances. I think she may be resitant to try again. Any advice?

I want you to promise there will be pictures on totse before anyone else responds ...

Maybe a nice bottle of chloroform??

Alcohol.

Okay, serious response,

a little bit of alcohol, dark lighting, some candles, some good time where you know the two of you can be alone without being interupted, and lick her out. For the love of god, or the god of clitorisis, lick her out till she orgasms, then she'll be so slippery you

Dude for fucks sake be gentle, you idiot!

God damn it sounds like you don't have a clue what you're doing. You tried to FORCE IT all in her?

Fuck.

*SMACK*

Think about her, you fuckwit.

As mentioned before. Lick that clit and make her orgasm. Since you've already been fingering her, this is probably the method you want to use...

Let her lie down on her back. Stick your head between her legs and start licking slowly. Make sure you are licking the right spot because just being a little off makes a big difference. Once she starts getting into it, you'll know by the sounds she will start making, sneak a finger in and curl it upwards as if you are pointing at your own face.

There should me this really soft, a bit rough, area there. Gently rub on that area with your finger while you are licking her clit. Do the rubbing with your finger at a constant slow pace, but start to put a little more pressure and speed on the clit with your tongue.

Seeing that she is a virgin, this may take awhile until she orgasms because of the uncertainty and humility she may feel about the situation. This means you may be down there for a good amount of time. You might want to do some tongue exercises before hand because of this. Your tongue will get tired and your jaw will lock if it takes awhile to get her to orgasm. But once she does, you are pretty much in the door to getting whatever you want.

quote:Originally posted by Syzygy117:

I had trouble inserting myself but when I did she couldn't take all my dick. I tried forcing it a couple times but the pain was too much for her, she later started bleeding. I didn't get myself completely in, but im hoping I completely broke her hymen.

You're a fucking idiot, not to mention a complete asshole for thinking only of yourself. You dont deserve a second go with her until you know what the hell you're doing. I dont blame her a bit for not wanting to do it again.

I dont know if anyone already said this, but...



NEVER FUCKING FORCE IT IN FOOL!

Dude, you suck. Don't make it a goal to have sex with her anymore. Use your time with her to foster physical and emotional intimacy until she initiates it.

uhhh, I wouldn't recommend eating her out/fingering her for an extended amount of time before hand, as that will get rid of alot of natural lubrication and will make things even more difficult.

Finger her a little bit too loosen it up, then try and work it in SLOWLY. Maybe have her on top so she can control it.

quote:Originally posted by stab:

Dude for fucks sake be gentle, you idiot!

God damn it sounds like you don't have a clue what you're doing. You tried to FORCE IT all in her?





Kinda ironic that a guy named STAB said that lol. Besides that nothing productive, sorry.

damn people, my bad, I didn't force it all the way. plus im only 17. not like I have taken many virgins, any... and well she is err 15 . Thank you for the advice. Any advice on how to find the clit once im in the heat of things?

quote:Originally posted by Syzygy117:

damn people, my bad, I didn't force it all the way. plus im only 17. not like I have taken many virgins, any... and well she is err 15 . Thank you for the advice. Any advice on how to find the clit once im in the heat of things?

I'm going to assume for education's sake that you don't know where the clit is at all. In which case here is a diagram that should be helpful:

http://www.gineco.com.br/images/clitoris.jpg

Sometimes in the heat of things it can be hard to find the exact spot, but a good rule of thumb is to find her inner labia and put your finger at the point where they meet. And what is it with you men, if you can't find it just ask for directions!

You finger her but her hyman wasn't bust? You're a noob.

quote:Originally posted by burntoffering:

I dont know if anyone already said this, but...



NEVER FUCKING FORCE IT IN FOOL!

quote:Originally posted by Run_For_Tha_Hills:

You finger her but her hyman wasn't bust? You're a noob.

one finger... couldn't fit two.

quote:Originally posted by Syzygy117:

one finger... couldn't fit two.

If you are a logical, reasoning being this would mean that your cock is smaller than your finger.

quote:Originally posted by yoyobek:

lick her out till she orgasms, then she'll be so slippery you

Not necessarily true... if you lick her out until she almost orgasms, just on the edge, you'll be safer to try again.

Most women experience a brief dry spell after orgasm.

Quite the opposite, actually. In my experience, girls get really wet after orgasm.

quote:Originally posted by Byss:

If you are a logical, reasoning being this would mean that your cock is smaller than your finger.

exactly what i was thinking