My philosophy has always been that people need their space and privacy, even online. I figured, even if it is a public thing, there is no reason to go looking at it. Well, I just went against that.

Here is the story.

I was feeling particularly lonely. As you all know, my ex just dumped me recently citing 'needing space' as the reason. She said she still wanted to be friends, etc. I tried emailing her, to which she wouldn't really email back.

Anyway.. tonight I was feeling it, and I just wanted to see her. So I checked her myspace. Here's a little back story.. when we were still together, she had recently put it to private and wrote "DJ > You" as her little subtitle. I didn't really think anything of it, because I had no idea who any DJ was. Turns out "DJ" is some kid (20 years old) she met via World of Warcraft. Uh.. yeah. While I was there, apparently they started chatting each other up like dirty freaks. The real reason she left me, in fact, was to be with him.

Why does this bother me so much? Well, other than the fact that I saw the girl I wanted to marry say she wants to be licked all over by some ugly kid and fucked by him.. it was that she lied. She could've just told me "I found someone else." It would've been a lot easier on me. Instead, I've been sitting here for over a month wondering WHY and feeling some hope for the future.

It disgusts me, but what can I do? Nothing, really. Just get over it. Get over her.

I wish I hadn't looked at her myspace, though. Seriously, I did NOT need to see that shit.

Ugh, someone slap me.

You had it right when you said that you had to get over her. You could think of it this way, if she's content having some pug faced, WoW cretin inside of her, does she really deserve you?

Of course this will do little to make you feel all warm and fluffy inside again. Be sad, be angry, go to bed, wake up and do it again until the little bastard inside your chest shuts up.

Sucks. Are you sure that's why she dumped you? Maybe she's just on the rebound. And hey, girls can be like guys sometimes - completely lewd and driven by physical desire. This guy could just be a meaningless cyberfuck.

Of course, what's really important is that she isn't yours anymore. You're a new man - a man who exists without her. She's just a girl you had a thing with. You're a free agent, so act like one.

[This message has been edited by lauren7249 (edited 01-04-2007).]

She plays Warcraft?

You're better off without her.

I don't think it is a rebound, because I remember her playing for HOURS and HOURS like the night before I went home and she wouldn't fucking get off. She just kept chatting to this kid all the time. I thought it was meaningless, but apparently not.

What the fuck. I'd like to punch her, to be honest.

damn that sucks. My last 2 ex pulled that on me but its nothing comapred to what you going through

God damn. I don't think I'm ready for any kind of relationships with women yet. This sort of thing would probably send me over the edge, and some people would end up seriously hurt or dead.

You think he's ugly now?

Wait until I carve his facial skin off with a glass shard Hannibal-style.

But seriously, he's an ugly WoW playing kid and he managed to steal your girlfriend? Sounds like you must have been wonderful to begin with...

Fucking whore.

She told me that she loved me but wasn't "in love" with me anymore when she dumped me. It was 7 years, and she said she thought we may have grown apart.

I guess that's sort of true, considering I grew up and she didn't. I guess that also sort of explains the fact that she is dating someone 20 years old that looks 15.

I really did treat her great, though. Not to toot my own horn, but I am a nice guy to people I want to be with. Am I much to look at? I don't know. I think I'm pretty good looking. Not only that, but I am fun and funny as well.

Oh well, her loss.

Thanks for the comments, though, guys. I really appreciate it.

Yet another life ruined by World of Warcraft.

quote:Originally posted by OpiateSeclorum868:

Yet another life ruined by World of Warcraft.

QFFT

As you said, it's her loss. If she breaks up with you after 7 years for somebody she's met over the internet, then she was never worth having.

If it doesn't work out for her, be prepared for her to come begging back to you.

What a whore/dipshit. I trust you don't communicate with her anymore? if so, now'd be a good time to erase her from your cellphone/msn/myspace whatever.

quote:Originally posted by Ouster:

As you said, it's her loss. If she breaks up with you after 7 years for somebody she's met over the internet, then she was never worth having.

If it doesn't work out for her, be prepared for her to come begging back to you.



QFT. she doesn't deserve you and she will may very well come crawling to you.

quote:Originally posted by Byss:

God damn. I don't think I'm ready for any kind of relationships with women yet.

lol. this sounded funny to me but im a bit warped.

quote:Originally posted by malaria:

my ex just dumped me recently citing 'needing space' as the reason. She said she still wanted to be friends, etc.....

quote:So I checked her myspace..

quote:some kid (20 years old) she met via World of Warcraft..

*slap*

Feel better now?

Anyway, re-read the things you've written about her in itallics up there, and you'll be sooOooOo thankfull that you're not stuck with her anymore.

Eugh. She sounds like a very fat rather insecure,lonely person. I mean, I'm pretty bad, but flirting with people on WoW?

Icky icky!!



[This message has been edited by yoyobek (edited 01-04-2007).]

Damnit, bek... I was just about to ask you to meet me on <Insert lame MMORPG here> for some secksay chat and synchronised dancing... better get back to the drawing board!

Murder/Suicide..

quote:Originally posted by Docta?:

Damnit, bek... I was just about to ask you to meet me on <Insert lame MMORPG here> for some secksay chat and synchronised dancing... better get back to the drawing board!



Apparently (and i don't think I am giving away priviliged information here) despite all her 'I'm fat' banter, Yoyo is an extremely good dancer.

Thats if you consider the semi epilectal fits modern kids perform at clubs as 'dancing' ...

*is in OLD FART mood and remembers the days when people really danced*

[This message has been edited by jackketch (edited 01-04-2007).]

I have to go with Jack here, I was just out 'dancing' on New Year's Eve and it was nothing more than dry humping! Not on my end, of course, I danced like an idiot and loved every minute of it.

Yoyo, she is indeed insecure and probably lonely, but she does it to herself. As a side note, she is not fat and is extremely hot.

quote:Originally posted by yoyobek:

*slap*

Feel better now?

Thank you!

Jesus fucking Christ.

Seven fucking years and she's seduced over fucking WORLD OF WARCRAFT? I can't even begin to describe my confusion... and I don't even know either one of you. It must be ten thousand times worse for you. Seven years and WoW. Fuck, that's made me as paranoid as shit. If someone - someone who's been yours for SEVEN YEARS - can be stolen away through chatting on an MMORPG... Jesus. It's not comprehensible.

...this probably isn't helping you. Sorry. I just can't get over it. Well, at least you're not wasting any more time with her. You're nice, funny, good-looking... there are lots of fish in the sea.

People suck dick, man.

quote:Originally posted by Twisted_Ferret:

Seven fucking years and she's seduced over fucking WORLD OF WARCRAFT?

Really, I'm certain that this fellow was merely her safety guy. The guy that she always knew she could go back to after she cheated on him, and the guy that'd always be there to hold her and say it's all better now.

Everygirl tries to have one, so don't let yourself be one. Otherwise when she finally gets bored of you and wants a new one, you'll be crushed.

That's fucking shit man, take out some anger on something.

Make this a fresh start, you sound way too good for her anyway.

Haha... safety guy! I think by law her friends get first dibs on you.

thats really shitty man. im kind of going through the same thing too. id hinestly would like to punch her too but it just takes tim to heal.

quote:Originally posted by xXBatgirlXx:

She plays Warcraft?

You're better off without her.

QFT. Plus, looking at your significant others myspace is death to any relationship.

Cheers,

Lost

Isnt it obvious what you must do?

Create a WoW account (I like paladins), level that suckekr to 60, get your gear and pwn her boyfriend at WoW, she will think you are the video pimp and come crawling back.

I feel bad for you. But clearly she is a whore, a femme fatale (a femme fatale who plays Wow??..thats a new one). Theres one thing to do. go to a party she is going to and completely eat a girls face there. Failing that I suggest mroe revenge, three cheers for it infact.

/*/* Michael



p.s. You would have wanted a divorce two years down the lane anyway, no one can stay with a whore, they'll mentally rip you to pieces.

quote:Originally posted by malaria:

I have to go with Jack here, I was just out 'dancing' on New Year's Eve and it was nothing more than dry humping!

That's what cages were invented for.

Back on topic..

If you wanted some sweet bitter revenge you'd fuck each and every one of her friends, male and female alike.

THEN, you hack her warcraft account (or simply access it, if you know the password),

and you dont do anything to her friends or anything silly like try to immitate her, but you sell the most valuable rare items she has in her inventory. And then you spend all her gold that she's spent her sad little months collecting to buy that oh so special rare item.

If she's as hooked as you say, the acts you perform will be devastating to her. Trust me on this .



Oh yeah,tell her she's fat/ugly/whatever, then fuck her brother/sister.

Also works well.



One good thing in all this is that you're not hiding at home crying, and that you're actually going out and having a good time. This is good.

quote:Originally posted by xXBatgirlXx:

She plays Warcraft?

You're better off without her.

Hey, don't be judgemental. No one here gets onto you about your eating habits.

Alternatively, give us her email or myspace and we can troll it for you.

quote:Originally posted by xXBatgirlXx:

She plays Warcraft?

You're better off without her.

dude(I am guessing you are male), she obviosly hurt you, and you are no doubt trying to figure out what is wrong with you, that she doesnt want you anymore.

stop it.

it may be partly because of you, hell it may be completely because of you, that she fell for DJ, but the truth is, whether you are to blame or no, she isnt right for you, and you arent right for her.

that should be apperent, because you arnt together right now. dont try to reconsile things, that will just make it harder, and bring more hurt.

you have to stay out there, your young, yes?

well then dont get all broken up because your girl left you.

when your sixty, and your wife of 20 years leaves you, then cry, but untill then, you have to accept the fact that this girl doesnt want you anymore.

I hate to be a dick about it, but from reading into her actions, I would say thats the way things are.

take it to heart though, that she is dating over the internet, and those never fucking work.

with the exception of a few totse members, that is.

quote:Originally posted by malaria:

My philosophy has always been that people need their space and privacy, even online. I figured, even if it is a public thing, there is no reason to go looking at it. Well, I just went against that.

Here is the story.

I was feeling particularly lonely. As you all know, my ex just dumped me recently citing 'needing space' as the reason. She said she still wanted to be friends, etc. I tried emailing her, to which she wouldn't really email back.

Anyway.. tonight I was feeling it, and I just wanted to see her. So I checked her myspace. Here's a little back story.. when we were still together, she had recently put it to private and wrote "DJ > You" as her little subtitle. I didn't really think anything of it, because I had no idea who any DJ was. Turns out "DJ" is some kid (20 years old) she met via World of Warcraft. Uh.. yeah. While I was there, apparently they started chatting each other up like dirty freaks. The real reason she left me, in fact, was to be with him.

Why does this bother me so much? Well, other than the fact that I saw the girl I wanted to marry say she wants to be licked all over by some ugly kid and fucked by him.. it was that she lied. She could've just told me "I found someone else." It would've been a lot easier on me. Instead, I've been sitting here for over a month wondering WHY and feeling some hope for the future.

It disgusts me, but what can I do? Nothing, really. Just get over it. Get over her.

I wish I hadn't looked at her myspace, though. Seriously, I did NOT need to see that shit.

Ugh, someone slap me.



MAN THE FUCK UP. I'm not telling you this to be mean, I'm telling you this from experience. Get over it and move on. You'll be glad that you did.

if she comes crawling back, dont even think of taking her back.

quote:Originally posted by malaria:

I don't think it is a rebound, because I remember her playing for HOURS and HOURS like the night before I went home and she wouldn't fucking get off. She just kept chatting to this kid all the time. I thought it was meaningless, but apparently not.

What the fuck. I'd like to punch her, to be honest.

you know, there was a lady in Thailand(sp?) or Korea that killed her husband for spending too much time playing one of the MMO's. this reminded me of that.

Yikes, so many replies!

I'll try to just give a general response.

I'm not sad about not having her anymore, it's just the way that she lied about it. Makes me feel like I don't know people I thought I did. She sent me this really awful email after I said it was a foul thing to lie about saying how I am bad in bed and I am a nag (or something to that effect). It's kind of funny, because she was the one always nagging me about not going out with friends or whatever. Sounds like she made her own bed and now she can lie in it.

As far as the checking of her myspace.. I generally wouldn't do it. And believe me, I never will again. The reason I did it was because I had talked to her brother and he said she was happy but she had been talking to 'some dork' from WoW. Then I checked and it all went downhill from there. On one hand, it burned me that my ex was saying really perverted and fucked up things to some other guy, but on the other hand, I was really disappointed in her. I guess I kind of lost a lot of respect for her, you could say.

So yeah.. this isn't so much about the breakup anymore, it's the devaluation of her character (not her WoW character).

I don't want any revenge or anything like that, I just want it to be overwith. This is a good start to that. Honestly, I had held some hope that we would end up together again, but I don't want that anymore.

As a side note, she tried to trash on me for going 'bar-hopping.' First, I don't drink (she knows this) and second, bar-hopping generally requires going to multiple bars in a single night, no? I go to one bar on one night (not every night, mind you). It's just kind of funny that someone who is now obsessed with WoW is trying to trash on me for going out.

What's funnier is that her and her new e-boyfriend are probably going back and forth:

/lol

/snicker

/giggle

Also, I should get the lamest person of TOTSE award for 2006, considering I got dumped for a cartoon.

quote:Originally posted by malaria:



Also, I should get the lamest person of TOTSE award for 2006, considering I got dumped for a cartoon.

No, everybody gets fucked up like this, just start moving foraward again.

I am. I mean, I am sure these posts come off all whiny and whatever, but I am a logical person and I realize there is no one person for me and this isn't the end of the world. In fact, I have many more opportunities now than I ever did, so I'm excited/intimidated in a way.

I really just need to vent sometimes because most of my friends have moved since I was last living here.

It sucks being dumped like that and then not having your friends around. my last 2 left me for friends so basically I was all alone. shit you should go out and fuck her friends. you'll feel better after that. it worked for me

quote:Originally posted by Gus:

Everygirl tries to have one, so don't let yourself be one.

Um.....no.

Maybe it's time for you to find better girls to hang out with.

People shouldn't be allowed to do this. You have Fascismo's permission to punch this bitch out. Don't forget the orc too.

Girls are genetically unable to give logical reasons for anything. I grudge them not, and try to work around it.

quote:Originally posted by xXBatgirlXx:

She plays Warcraft?

You're better off without her.

More like, where do I find more girls like this?

Useless without pics.

Hey, my girlfriend dumped me to be with her psychic vampire internet boyfriend. Filthy slut.

quote:Originally posted by Hated One:

You had it right when you said that you had to get over her. You could think of it this way, if she's content having some pug faced, WoW cretin inside of her, does she really deserve you?

Of course this will do little to make you feel all warm and fluffy inside again. Be sad, be angry, go to bed, wake up and do it again until the little bastard inside your chest shuts up.

Sounds like something I would say.

Cry, hit yourself in the head with a 500 page chemistry book, drive backroads for hours listening to Pink FLoyd. It carried me along in limbo for a year and out since last summer.

Add a pinch of time in with the mix and it will all be over. Get yourself a hobby to carry away your mind. Car are great.

Nice to see you're still around, Hated One.

dude u think u got it bad,theres this girl i was dating lastyear,well i talked to her and shit and started dating her,well she lived near my friend and i didnt think anything of it till she started like huggin him and shit,then i found out she gave this guy i know a blowjob like the day before we went out.then she starts like jumping on my friend and shit and hanging out and sneaking out at night and fucking him,well one night she snuck out got caught and got sent to a crazy hospital for four months.now shes back and says he might have got her pregnet and wants me to kick his ass, and she wants me to take her back.what a stupid fucking cunt dude after all that shit she put me through, i mean goddamn,she didnt even have the fucking decensy to tell me this shit when we broke up, as im writing this i want to punch her in the fucking throat!!

quote:Originally posted by Incompetent Noob:

More like, where do I find more girls like this?

No, not really.

I'm sorry, but that game is BAD NEWS. It's about the equivilant of being on cocaine.

Playing games for a hobby is fun. Willingly spending $40 a month on a fee to play a PC game you already BOUGHT, rescheduling work for "raids", and blowing off your freinds to play with WoW freinds is just stupid.

quote:Originally posted by Russ:

Hey, my girlfriend dumped me to be with her psychic vampire internet boyfriend. Filthy slut.

I can't even begin to comprehend what a psychic vampire internet boyfriend entails as a personality. :/

Dunno, maybe your girlfriend was after someone with a hectic night life? :\

To OP: Meh, I wouldn't get vengeful over the whole thing, it just goes to show what we can all be like sometimes - insane. My advice would be the archetypal 'do something else until you're over it'...boning her friends sounds like a great start though...off you go!

[This message has been edited by Solidus (edited 01-07-2007).]

Find out which server theyre on and cast some lvl 8 fireballs at both of them as they /kiss, /flirt, /clevland steamer at each other.

I'm glad to hear you're not going to wollow in self pity but see it as something positive to look foreward to

quote:Originally posted by ComradeAsh:

Isnt it obvious what you must do?

Create a WoW account (I like paladins), level that suckekr to 60, get your gear and pwn her boyfriend at WoW, she will think you are the video pimp and come crawling back.

LAWLSEALOFCOMMANDCRITS aren't going to impress anybody. Roll a hunter or lock for pvp easy-mode.

quote:Originally posted by Fascismo:

People shouldn't be allowed to do this. You have Fascismo's permission to punch this bitch out. Don't forget the orc too.

Oh, I see. Punching bitches is far better than requiring a guy to have clean hands before he touches me.

You fail at life.

malaria, I hope your heartache ends soon, and that you realize you're better off without her. I loathe liars and cowards.

The truth hurts, but lies hurt ever so much more, because trust is involved.

quote:Originally posted by OpiateSeclorum868:

Yet another life ruined by World of Warcraft.

quote:Originally posted by AEnemia:

$40 a month on a fee to play a PC game you already BOUGHT

Ummm, last I checked WoW was between $12-15 bucks a month, and those costs are used to maintain servers, content updates, bug fixes, etc. The $50 for the actual game is just for the core programming.

I don't play WoW and never have, but I just don't like people bad mouthing MMOs in general.

Stuff like the OP's story are how I acquired my hatred of LiveJournal. Even after I gave up on it (yes, I did once have one) because it was just crap, I'd go back and see some horrible, horrible insight that I wished I'd never read, and that somehow made my life more miserable.

Fuck social networking. Fuck them all.

In true WoW style:

0wNeD!

I guess you have to ask yourself, would you rather have had it end this way? Through flirting on World of Warcraft. Or would you rather have been married to her, came home one night and found her in bed with the neighbor.

But work through it, btw read/thinking about the 5 stages of grief always got me through shit.

http://mt.essortment.com/stagesofgri_rvkg.htm

Good luck to you

post her myspace!

quote:Originally posted by Hated One:

You had it right when you said that you had to get over her. You could think of it this way, if she's content having some pug faced, WoW cretin inside of her, does she really deserve you?

Of course this will do little to make you feel all warm and fluffy inside again. Be sad, be angry, go to bed, wake up and do it again until the little bastard inside your chest shuts up.

I didn't read any more posts when I saw your name...I haven't seen you post in awhile dude, where were you?

/topic hijack

What happened to all those totseans who used to phish peoples MySpace p/w 's? They should make an official MySpace revenge service. It must be great therapy, just completely annihilating a hated one's beloved MySpace.

Nope, it's done. Not going to tell her myspace or anything. It's a shitty deal, but it's overwith now.

Thanks for the offers, though.

quote:Originally posted by Twisted_Ferret:

Jesus fucking Christ.

Seven fucking years and she's seduced over fucking WORLD OF WARCRAFT? I can't even begin to describe my confusion... and I don't even know either one of you. It must be ten thousand times worse for you. Seven years and WoW. Fuck, that's made me as paranoid as shit. If someone - someone who's been yours for SEVEN YEARS - can be stolen away through chatting on an MMORPG... Jesus. It's not comprehensible.

...this probably isn't helping you. Sorry. I just can't get over it. Well, at least you're not wasting any more time with her. You're nice, funny, good-looking... there are lots of fish in the sea.

Just because it lasted seven years doesn't mean it didn't go to shit at the end of those 7 years.

This had nothing to do with WoW. You weren't satisfying her and she found someone who could. It's that simple. It could've been AIM, it could've been some guy on the street. She wasn't attracted to you anymore, so she cheated.