What do you look for in a girl? I'm 15, fairly attractive, but never had a boyfriend. I want to see if I'm doing something wrong.

How big are your tits? Pictures might help, too, in deciding.

Just look at the pictures in the friends hottness? one

Meh, can't see any tits, but whatever. Most likely you just need to make sure you've got your flirting down pat.

If you want a boyfriend, go out, find a cute guy, catch his eyes, suck your finger and keep staring at him. If he doesn't come over and talk to you, he's not worth it. Go find another actual MAN and he'll come over and slap your arse and throw you on your knees.

Want to be my E-Girlfriend?

But seriously, just go, and talk to guys. Just flirt, like Gus said. Cater to the guys ego too, that seems to work with a lot of guys.

well, your first mistake is posting here. no one on totse can really help you, and will only ask for NOODIE PIXORRS LOLZZZOMFGROTEHFLLL!!!!111!!!1!!!

so, in response, be yourself, go out with your friends, meet some people who you actually get along with, and things will fall into place. i dont mean you can sit back and rake in the BF's, if theres someone who catches your interest, GO FOR THEM! confidence is key, and is also one of the hardest things to do. happy hunting

Talk to them. As mentioned, more importantly, let them talk about themselves. Drink if you're shy. Spend awhile lurking this board and realize that men are mostly pathetic fucks with their cocks in their hands that know nothing about sex and less about women.

Then go out there and assail the fortress of sex with all you got.

(Worked for me)

Also, you're only fifteen. It's not time to worry yet.

This thread is useless without pics.

Don't listen to these kids. Pictures will not help. You haven't said much about yourself, so let me assume a few things. You're 15. You're probably much more attractive than you think you are. If you dislike certain things about your body, it will change, trust me. You haven't had a boyfriend yet, but thats okay. The right guy will come along eventually, and I guarantee that either one of the guys who like you will eventually get up the nerve to say something, or someone will come along.

When I was 15, I wanted to be with a girl who was fun, affectionate, and laid back (wow, not much has changed). I would suggest that, since you have so much ahead of you, you just focus on yourself. Focus on being happy, looking and feeling your best, and doing what is right for you. I'm sure you'll be a little heartbreaker in no time.

Pictures always help you blasphemous fool.

i met my first "bf" when i was a freshman in high school. i was at a dance at another school with a friend and i asked this boy if he wanted to dance with me. we exchanged numbers, and that was that. what guys that age are looking for is a girl who is good-looking and has some status in school. beyond that, they don't want someone stuck up. they're still a bit intimidated by girls and prefer someone who they think will accept them and let them into her pants. simple as that, really.

quote:Originally posted by lauren7249:

they're still a bit intimidated by girls and prefer someone who they think will accept them and let them into her pants. simple as that, really.

This really described me at 15.

quote:Originally posted by lauren7249:

they're still a bit intimidated by girls and prefer someone who they think will accept them

Thats all I want/wanted was somone who accepted me. Find somone who is moderatly atractive, friendly, and smart and open up to them, if they are worth anything they will respond, and go from there.

You're 15.

Worry if you haven't had a relationship by 40. And even then, who cares. Some people just don't like 'em.

Edit: I look for kindness, intelligence, and no major deformities.

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quote:Originally posted by just a name:

I'm sure you'll be a little heartbreaker in no time.

You only said that to make this cynical old man even more bitter and paranoid, didn't you?

quote:Originally posted by Byss:

You only said that to make this cynical old man even more bitter and paranoid, didn't you?

'Twas my sole objective.

I look for someone who knows how to rock the fuck out.

I look for attractive fifteen year olds... but thats why they have that fuckin' file on me.

quote:Originally posted by Docta?:

I look for attractive fifteen year olds... but thats why they have that fuckin' file on me.



I share your pain, brother.

You're the one in that thread?

Oh god. Hey, you're only fifteen, not to sound condescending. And in my opinion, you're fucking smoking hot.

So chill, and wait for a man with the balls to take you on.

Lord knows I would.

Also, DO NOT DATE 15 YEAR OLD GUYS.

In fact, never date guys who aren't older than you.

No matter what, compliments always disarm guys. All you do really is throw one out there, and if he thinks your fit then well... ;)

i look for someone who doesn't come to an online community all worried about how to get guys to like her.

it doesn't much matter what you are or are not doing. someone (whether he be sane or not) will end up liking you as is.

quote:Originally posted by killerkellie:

What do you look for in a girl? I'm 15, fairly attractive, but never had a boyfriend. I want to see if I'm doing something wrong.

kellie,tsk tsk tsk

how did i know you'd write somthing like this, i know you,pretty well

THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU

quote:Originally posted by RiskOfFire:

Also, DO NOT DATE 15 YEAR OLD GUYS.

In fact, never date guys who aren't older than you.

Aww, why not?

quote:Originally posted by Khepri:

Aww, why not?

...Because younger men usually act like little puppy dogs (the same thing with women, too though).

And then, you have to train it, and feed it, and make sure it doesn't get too lonely or it'll bark all night and all day until you come to play with it again. :\

'Cuz most well adjusted older guys are sick of younger girl's bullshit by this point and the guys who aren't are immature and annoying.

quote:Originally posted by Gus:

How big are your tits? Pictures might help, too, in deciding.

Gus, are you trying to get arrested??

Do you go to a big high school?

If yes, trust me, relax. SOME guy will end up digging you for some god awful reason.

If no, well, intelligence, looks, maturity. Breasts help, nothing too big, nothing to flat. And in shape/skinny.

If your are too flat, relax, theyre probably get bigger.

quote:Originally posted by DesertRebel:

Do you go to a big high school?

If yes, trust me, relax. SOME guy will end up digging you for some god awful reason.

If no, well, intelligence, looks, maturity. Breasts help, nothing too big, nothing to flat. And in shape/skinny.

If your are too flat, relax, theyre probably get bigger.

Yeah, that works. I don't like huge, hangy boobs. Flat is even alright, so long as she's got HIPS. It's ALL about the hips.

Dear god, too much makeup, not enough confidence.

quote:Originally posted by Khepri:

Aww, why not?

It's probably not for everyone, but men I find myself with average between two to eight years older than me.

I think because, sexually, someone whose body seems to fit the word 'man' is attractive to me. Wheras someone who looks like their balls haven't dropped yet . . . just isn't.

Also, it likely has something to do with having different circumstances than most people my age . . . I support myself wheras most guys my age are fresh out of high school.

This doesn't really answer the question though.

You shouldn't date 15 year old guys, in fact, people should refrain from serious relationships while they're 15, because almost all of them have too much still to figure out, about themselves and other people, to have a sane relationship.