I just came home and my fingers smell like pussy. I don't want her, but she wants me so fucking badly that I just can't say no to her. She's not unattractive, but I'm just not into her that way. And every time we hang out something ends up happening. I don't regret it but I could have lived without it happening. I don't know how else to describe it.

She's a good girl. I don't know what it is though, maybe it's just that she's so easy to get I don't want it.. and I'm so hard for her to get that she wants me. But honestly, all I can do to keep her at bay is just ignore her phone calls all the time. She tells me she can't stand me to my face constantly yet when we're alone somewhere dark she can't keep her clothes on no matter what.

On the right. (http://i17.tinypic.com/2iuozn4.jpg)

Anyone want to share similar experiences / situations?

lol, i think a lot of guys on totse are going to be very jealous of your situation. it's not bad at all for you. if you wanted to say no, you would. you're being a bit passive, i guess. but you must be getting something out of it if you're allowing it to happen, even if it's only an ego boost and a busted nut.

edit - this illustrates how aloofness and a bit of impishness (i'm assuming this, since you said that she says she can't stand you) can be a turn on for some girls.

[This message has been edited by lauren7249 (edited 01-03-2007).]

Yeah. We're all fucking crying for you.

quote:Originally posted by Forgotten:

Yeah. We're all fucking crying for you.

quote:Originally posted by jojabr:

I just came home and my fingers smell like pussy. I don't want her, but she wants me so fucking badly that I just can't say no to her. She's not unattractive, but I'm just not into her that way. And every time we hang out something ends up happening. I don't regret it but I could have lived without it happening. I don't know how else to describe it.

She's a good girl. I don't know what it is though, maybe it's just that she's so easy to get I don't want it.. and I'm so hard for her to get that she wants me. But honestly, all I can do to keep her at bay is just ignore her phone calls all the time. She tells me she can't stand me to my face constantly yet when we're alone somewhere dark she can't keep her clothes on no matter what.

On the right. (http://i17.tinypic.com/2iuozn4.jpg)

Anyone want to share similar experiences / situations?

Accept it for what it thizz, a fuck buddy. But treat her the same, so she doesn't think something's up.

Worked for me.

quote:Originally posted by lauren7249:

even if it's only an ego boost and a busted nut.

That sounds about right. We discussed her similarities with Marla Singer from Fight Club. Scary how many there were. Fuck, I wish my sex drive were stronger.. this is very aggravating.

That sounds exactly like the bullshit one of my friends used to spew. He loved every second of it and so do you.

quote:Originally posted by jojabr:

Fuck, I wish my sex drive were stronger.. this is very aggravating.

VIAGRA!

I'd get tired of that chick, too.

quote:Originally posted by Forgotten:

Yeah. We're all fucking crying for you.

quote:Originally posted by Rizzo in a box:

I'd get tired of that chick, too.

AHHHHH!!!

EXTREME LIVEJOURNAL ANGLE!!

quote:Originally posted by jojabr:

That sounds about right. We discussed her similarities with Marla Singer from Fight Club. Scary how many there were. Fuck, I wish my sex drive were stronger.. this is very aggravating. There aren't many genuine Marla Singers in this world. Don't let this chance pass you by.

quote:Originally posted by the phantom stranger:

There aren't many genuine Marla Singers in this world. Don't let this chance pass you by.

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How can he tell this one is genuine?

How can he tell that this one isnt yet another sad person trying to immitate something cool they've seen at the cinema?

Go for it, do it for &totse.

and take pix

quote:Originally posted by yoyobek:

How can he tell this one is genuine?

How can he tell that this one isnt yet another sad person trying to immitate something cool they've seen at the cinema?Very true yoyo. We must devise a Marla Singer test.

this used to be an issue for me.

This girl used to live in my town, and dont get me wrong, I loved the sex, and the girl was cool, but I never wanted to have sex wiht her, because back then, sex meant a relationship, and I didnt need that.

now, I realise that it is perfectly ok to have sex, and not date the person, so all my problems are solved.

Your faggin out.

quote:Originally posted by Forgotten:

Yeah. We're all fucking crying for you.

Jesus... I'm in the exact same situation right now. I'm at a loss with what to do too. I just try not to think about it and try enjoy it.

quote:Originally posted by jojabr:

I just came home and my fingers smell like pussy. I don't want her, but she wants me so fucking badly that I just can't say no to her. She's not unattractive, but I'm just not into her that way. And every time we hang out something ends up happening. I don't regret it but I could have lived without it happening. I don't know how else to describe it.

She's a good girl. I don't know what it is though, maybe it's just that she's so easy to get I don't want it.. and I'm so hard for her to get that she wants me. But honestly, all I can do to keep her at bay is just ignore her phone calls all the time. She tells me she can't stand me to my face constantly yet when we're alone somewhere dark she can't keep her clothes on no matter what.

On the right. (http://i17.tinypic.com/2iuozn4.jpg)

Anyone want to share similar experiences / situations?

Grow some balls, and walk a way forever. Difficult thing to do I know, but if you dont want her, for the love of God, break up and run while you still can!

I have this going on now too. This girl is everything I hate in a person, but she will just show up in my house and take off her shirt and blow me. I know it sounds like fun, but after I nut on her face she sticks around and I just feel bad because she probably wants me and I'm only with her because she sucks dick. Oh well...As Robin Williams once said, "You only have enough blood to run your brain or your penis, not both at the same time."

or something like that.

[This message has been edited by Newspaper Bandit (edited 01-05-2007).]

Funny how these guys think it's the dream scenario, but it kind of sucks to be in. Now I know how chicks feel when they get some clingy guy hanging off them.

quote:Originally posted by Shayde:

Funny how these guys think it's the dream scenario, but it kind of sucks to be in. Now I know how chicks feel when they get some clingy guy hanging off them.

Exactly. I'm glad at least some of you know what the hell I'm talking about here.