Allright well I know this girl(mari) for almost a year, we met through a friend in common and we started chatting(msn, meeting up,etc..) thing begun to rise and I started to like her,alot.Well long story short we are just friends and I have a girlfriend now, that I like VERY much(I wouldnt call it love just yet) and well, me and mari sms once in a while to see how we are doing, etc..

but the thing is that I still feel for her =/

and I feel like an infidel for having feelings for another girl..

If it matters, Im 18.. Naty(my girl is 22) and mari(my friend) is 21..

*sigh*

Does this happen to alot of you?

gah..

oh and me and naty have been going out for around month..

* gives zuper hug and offers cookie and milk*



everything makes more sense over cookies and milk

quote:Originally posted by BloodyCandy:

* gives zuper hug and offers cookie and milk*



everything makes more sense over cookies and milk



thanks dork

Ima go shower this and clear my head...

quote:Originally posted by BloodyCandy:

* gives zuper hug and offers cookie and milk* everything makes more sense over cookies and milk

Not if your a lactose intolerant diabetic

soy milk and veggie cookies?

You could pull the risky card of saying you need some time to your current woman.

Dont explain things as if you were ending it just say you are trying to find yourself again and want to be alone . And literally do this just cut all ties to both of them for oh say a week or two nothing major just enough to let the dust settle.

Just do what you would normally do exept with friends and by yourself and you will after the time is up decided who it is you really want.

You have to see whether it is a mere infactuation with this new woman .Reminding you of the fun of chasing a woman something that you had perhaps forgotten ? . Whos to say

But i highly recommend you just take some time out and spend some time with your friends and shit maybe in front of your parents if you have a good relationship with them .

I have a great relationship with my dad he always sets me straight over a few beers and a spliff or two tells me who i am again , well just reminds me y'know . Wish he wasn't on the other side of the world now :/

Anyways just let it calm down and post your desicion . Good luck

quote:Originally posted by inverted:

You could pull the risky card of saying you need some time to your current woman.

Dont explain things as if you were ending it just say you are trying to find yourself again and want to be alone . And literally do this just cut all ties to both of them for oh say a week or two nothing major just enough to let the dust settle.

Just do what you would normally do exept with friends and by yourself and you will after the time is up decided who it is you really want.

You have to see whether it is a mere infactuation with this new woman .Reminding you of the fun of chasing a woman something that you had perhaps forgotten ? . Whos to say

But i highly recommend you just take some time out and spend some time with your friends and shit maybe in front of your parents if you have a good relationship with them .

I have a great relationship with my dad he always sets me straight over a few beers and a spliff or two tells me who i am again , well just reminds me y'know . Wish he wasn't on the other side of the world now :/

Anyways just let it calm down and post your desicion . Good luck

Thanks man, but I cant take distance from my girl right now.. shes going through too much shit.And yeah, me and my dad have a great relationship too, and hes also across the world :/

I think Ill just dedicate more time to my girl..

Ill take some time from my friend..

thanks again.

no problem keep me posted on how it goes .

Take things easy stress can kill a man