Okay so I've had this thing with this girl for about a month now and I'm not officially dating her yet but close. Well about two weeks ago I told her that I had done drugs before but have been clean for a few months now and intend to stay that way. Well that was kind of a half truth because I had actually bought a bag of weed that day but I intended for it to be my last bag for a while...

So over this Christmas break I smoked quite a bit of it with some friends who also know her. Well about 10 minutes ago I get a call from my best friend who is also friends with her saying that she doesn't want to have anything to do with me anymore and that I lied to her and all the usual shit like that.

I just tried calling her but she didn't answer her phone so I'm assuming she's either not there or she's too pissed to talk to me.

What do i do? Tell her the truth? Would that make her even more pissed? I fucking hate this shit.

lol who gives a shit

Just over weed!?

Wtf? I don't even smoke weed, and I wouldn't give a fuck. In fact I don't really like weed at all anymore.

This chick sounds way too straight-edge and close-minded...

Kinda like Mary Jane from the movie Half Baked.

Lol, is your name Thurgood Jenkins and are you a black janitor?

quote:Originally posted by SlapinFoFun:

lol who gives a shit

Apparently you do enough to respond.

Yeah, I think bitch is the word.

Smoke her down, she'll get over it.

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

Just over weed!?

Wtf? I don't even smoke weed, and I wouldn't give a fuck. In fact I don't really like weed at all anymore.

This chick sounds way too straight-edge and close-minded...

Kinda like Mary Jane from the movie Half Baked.

Lol, is your name Thurgood Jenkins and are you a black janitor?

Haha I love that movie. But no the girl is only close-minded about drugs and shit like that. She's actually very open minded towards just about everything else and that's one of the reasons I'm in to her.

sounds pretty common. chick went on a CSI mission to find out if you were lieing, wich you were.

just call her up and say you thought she was a bible thumper or something so you thought it was the best thing to do, lie. Then give her some sob story how you base a relationship on trust and all that bullshit, because she obviosly thinks strongly about trusting eachother

Do what I do. Fill the emptiness inside you with cocaine in large quantities. Seriously, I DEFY you to stay unhappy after doing mad coke. Well, ok afterwards it'll suck but while you're goin' at it...

Personally I want a girl that I can trip and roll with. If she ain't down with that and I know she never will be it's just a deal-breaker for some reason now.

Maybe I'm too into drugs.

quote:Originally posted by Cloaked Dagger:

Personally I want a girl that I can trip and roll with. If she ain't down with that and I know she never will be it's just a deal-breaker for some reason now.

Maybe I'm too into drugs.

Hahaha, same exact thing here. Though she doesn't have to use, just not have a problem with me doing whatever.

quote:Originally posted by senorfrog:

Hahaha, same exact thing here. Though she doesn't have to use, just not have a problem with me doing whatever.

Yeah that's what I've always wanted but still have yet to come across a girl like that. Oh well, maybe I can use this as an escape route ya know. I've been trying to get out of drugs for quite some time now and have been through rehab and don't want to go back. Maybe she is my chance to get out of that shit.

Or maybe I'll just drop some acid and smoke some more meth and call it good.

quote:Originally posted by voodoonirvana:

Or maybe I'll just drop some acid and smoke some more meth and call it good.

Mmmmmm acid, I could definitely go for some of that myself. I've got too much shit on my mind to trip right now though.

quote:Originally posted by Cloaked Dagger:

Personally I want a girl that I can trip and roll with. If she ain't down with that and I know she never will be it's just a deal-breaker for some reason now.

Maybe I'm too into drugs.

Quoted For Motherfucking Truth!! Too into drugs? If you are I guess I am as well. To OP, if your girl is so closed minded that she cant even accept the fact that you smoke weed, i'd have dropped her in a second. Accept me for who I am, or GTFO.

Peace

It isn't about the drugs, she broke up with you because you lied to her. Tell her the truth? Apologize?

I'm in a similar situation. Me and mine have been going out for 10 months. At first, she was fine with it, and now, she's completely against. My whole family smokes weed, and now I'm stuck in the middle. I love her a lot and I'm giving it up for her, but sometimes, man....

quote:Originally posted by RedWasp:

It isn't about the drugs, she broke up with you because you lied to her. Tell her the truth? Apologize?

Exactly.

Jx

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

are you a black janitor?

You were a dick about it.

You already lied to her about it. If you care, come clean. If not, which seems more likely, then just let things fall by the wayside.

You may have heard this saying before: Honesty is the best policy.

MY, MY, MY. I remember when I used to believe in that "I love you" & "Why are you mad at me" shit. Ohh the memories the painfull.... sorry had to hug myself. I'm guessing you are young and that is your first(kinda)girlfriend. Trust me don't get hung up over a female. Relationships are 5% love 10% trust and 85% bullshit. What I mean by that is when you meet a girl you are never yourself at first and neither is she. You both are being the type of person you expect the other to accept more. You say and do what the other person likes instead of what you would like to do. I could go on to the trust and love but you're still in the bullshit.

The best way to get back in is with more bullshit and a little trust. Tell her that you are not sorry for what you done, and that you simply told her that to make her feel better about you. Tell her that she is the best thing to happen to you ever since... and at that moment look away pause and say "I love you grandma". Then look sad and wait for her to talk. No matter what she says cut her off and change the subject. Tell her that you are serious about getting with her but you want all the lies and bullshit to stop you're tired of it and can't take it anymore. Tell her that all the things your friends said you didn't dwell on them(DON'T MAKE A COMMENT ON IT). Then say I'm coming as real as I can. Trust me I don't want to end a good thing, so let the best thing to ever happen to you happen right now, be my girlfriend. then give her a single rose and a kiss.

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Why did you make such a promise? Was she against you doing them?

THe fact that you lied to her, is what would piss me off in this situation but I think thats rather over the top.. espeically if she has to get your best mate to 'dump' you.

I'm guessing you're 16 is so, right?

shit happens mang i got the same thing but people thought i smoked before i even did so i got fucked over by a false reputation ohwell druggie chicks are more fun anyway

your first mistake was lying to her.

your second mistake was not realizing what your first mistake was.

if she has a problem with you doing drugs, nothing and nobody is going to change that, especially not you being ignorant.

you can apologize and mean it, and be honest about how things are going to pan out in the future...but there's no guarantees.

lol, where I live girls won't go near me because they think I'm a heroin addict. Basically, I found out this group of chavs two streets above mine smoke weed, so I asked them if they could hook me up with their dealer and they said "yeah". All I asked was whether or not she had anything a little stronger, and next thing I know, this rumor starts going around that I'm a junky, and it's a rumor which is rather hard for me to deny since I actually look like one and move rather slowly because of my depression. So yeah, now all the girls in town think I'm always out of it and just give me funny looks when I seldom leave the house.

But basically, you're screwed. If you really liked her, you should have told her the truth, because now there's no way in hell she's going to trust you and you can't have a decent relationship if it's not built on trust.

quote:Originally posted by Hare_Geist:

lol, where I live girls won't go near me because they think I'm a heroin addict. Basically, I found out this group of chavs two streets above mine smoke weed, so I asked them if they could hook me up with their dealer and they said "yeah". All I asked was whether or not she had anything a little stronger, and next thing I know, this rumor starts going around that I'm a junky, and it's a rumor which is rather hard for me to deny since I actually look like one and move rather slowly because of my depression. So yeah, now all the girls in town think I'm always out of it and just give me funny looks when I seldom leave the house.

But basically, you're screwed. If you really liked her, you should have told her the truth, because now there's no way in hell she's going to trust you and you can't have a decent relationship if it's not built on trust.

Man, everyone thinks I'm addicted to every drug there is, I'm insane as fuck, and I beat women.

I'm thinking of making a documentary on myself:

Rizzo: The man behind the legend.

quote:Originally posted by prettypoems:

Smoke her down, she'll get over it.



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