well, my girlfriend and i have been talking about making her cum for a while. i seem to actually know a lot more about it than she does, mostly from hanging around here.

here are my questions-

what is cum? I know for a guy its semen, but what comes from a girl?

is it possible to orgasm without cumming?

she is almost 18. she told me she doesnt even know where the clit or g spot are, and i told her. so this tells me she isnt very sensitive there. is there a way to increase the sensitivity of those spots?

i know that girls have to push it like they a peeing, but does it really feel like they are going to pee?

thanks! and any other tips are helpful!

No. Not all girls will "squirt". Thats just a phenomenon. Don't expect her to. And no, there doesn't always have to be ejaculate during an orgasm. Many younger girls find it hard to even achieve actual orgasms, so be aware of that, too. The G-spot doesn't do it for all girls either-try different angles of penetration, oral, fingering, e.t.c to see just what gets her going.

The "peeing thing" has to do with the kegel muscles. If you or she work those out, you can control orgasming better. Its pretty easy to do, so have her try those. Good luck homes.

CaspeR

ive been with one girl who would NEVER orgasm, It took me being on my knees, her laying on her back and me lifting her bottom end up till we were inline. Also one of her friends told her to keep her socks on and she said that made it 50x times better.

quote:Originally posted by boozehound420:

ive been with one girl who would NEVER orgasm, It took me being on my knees, her laying on her back and me lifting her bottom end up till we were inline. Also one of her friends told her to keep her socks on and she said that made it 50x times better.

Woo! Party Socks!

quote:Originally posted by boozehound420:

ive been with one girl who would NEVER orgasm, It took me being on my knees, her laying on her back and me lifting her bottom end up till we were inline. Also one of her friends told her to keep her socks on and she said that made it 50x times better.

I... Just don't understand, what's it with women and flippin socks?! I mean seriously...

quote:Originally posted by Mabas:

I... Just don't understand, what's it with women and flippin socks?! I mean seriously...

Mega hot.

Why? Probably because, when keeping them on, their focal point is more defined as being toward their intimate regions.

stick your penis in her socks!

Put the sock on your hand, and go at it like that. See what happens

Put the sock on your cock, spin around, then jump into her vagina.