Well, last night on new years eve, my family was doing NOTHING. I was home alone. I asked my "best friend" if he was doing anything. He said no. So i sat home alone, doing nothing. About 12:00, one of my friends called me. She said OMG why aren't you at Zachs's house (my "best friend". I was like...Um he's doing nothing.

Then she said: "Omg your stupid there's a massive party at his house with like ALL of our friends!". Turned out me threw a huge party and invited just about all of our friends. I kind of flipped out on him...And now all of me and his friends are mad at me because i flipped out on him.

So...this sucks ass.

I'm in a similar dilemma. My 'friends' always have events without inviting me. So basically they aren't my friends anymore. And if your 'best' friend is mad at you for flipping out on him when he didn't invite you, he had it coming.

You have some dumb friends, Sonny. I cut that sort of people out of my life so can't really give you advice here, except to do the same, which might be the advice you need. Get new friends.

I want to ditch them...but it's hard.

Because you feel like you have no-one else.

Find some new people, or go back to people from your past.