Well it’s been a while since I posted something serious to me on totse, usually am posting bullshit stuff I find on IFIOTW, anyways.



Am 19 years old I lost my virginity a year ago to a 30 year old with two kids. I been going out with this girl for a little over a year, and spend the night over her house almost 5 days out of the week. I really do love this girl because she is not other girls, she doesn’t care if I have money are if am going to be able to take her out, unlike other young girls I been with. She’s been married twice, but she claims she never met a guy like me, She says all of her husbands/boyfriends have had serious jealousy problems and have been very possessive, and that she loves me a lot because am not like that. Her two kids love being with me, the older kid sometimes calls me to see if am going to spend the night over at her house, but sometimes their cock blockers when I wake up with my morning boner. Unfornutanly I still live with my parents and it does not seem to bother her, her family accepts me into her family, which took me a lot of work to do. So anyways let me recap.

• I live with my parents

• I have a shitty job that pays $8.50 an hour

• Both of are parents are understanding about it ( her parents live two houses down)

• I love her a lot

• Her kids love being with me and she says she loves me a lot

• Am not that attractive and really skinny

• She’s been married twice

• We both been tested for STD’s and having unprotected sex(where clean) (Not a Troll)

Old Pictures of me and her from Halloween. http://tinyurl.com/ykvrlg http://tinyurl.com/ydx7o7



So really I just want to know what is your opinion about my situtation.

Update

First kid is 11 the second kid is 7. THINKING about marriage if we make it to Valentines day. Am also in college and fixing to graduate in two semesters.



[This message has been edited by Latin1052 (edited 01-02-2007).]

That's a pretty fucked up situation, but she's hot. Post more pics of her.

quote:Originally posted by Parallax:

That's a pretty fucked up situation, but she's hot. Post more pics of her.

http://tinyurl.com/yxm3z8 http://tinyurl.com/wpum7 http://tinyurl.com/sqknj

quote:Originally posted by Latin1052:

http://tinyurl.com/sqknj

http://tinyurl.com/yhlstk

it's cool that you're getting along with her and the kids.

but if i was in your situation, i'd wouldn't be getting myself as deep as you are in now... however it all comes down to what you hope to get from this relationship.

Is it a real love-thing, or you just in it for the ass, do you want to be a father figure to the kids or you just pity her as a single mom?

I don't know how it goes down between you two, but IMO that's just too much drama.

You got a nice piece of ass there dude.

Just don't marry her and everything will be fine.

Post even more pictures of her. A little bit more nacked if possible.

[This message has been edited by Satanz Handicapped Helper (edited 01-02-2007).]

You probably have a big penis, just incase nobody told you yet.

i stay away from chicks with kids

it always feels like there shopping for a new dad for there kids. And i could never trust her that she actually likes being around me, or is it that she's just desperate to find a father figure to her kids

Yeah i wouldnt try to get in with a chick with kids. Because they'll get attached to you and if/when things do get messy it'll hurt them as much as you/her. (http://www.alexchiu.com/intelliscript/in.cgi?id=1167359334)

Its a hard knock life.

You're pretty damn attractive.

And she's hot. I dont see any reason why you shouldnt be hooking up with her.

quote:Originally posted by THUNDERCOCK:

Just don't marry her and everything will be fine.

quote:Originally posted by voodoonirvana:

You got a nice piece of ass there dude.

Both quoted for truth.

I'd hit it.

taking into account your racial handicap, both hispanic and not taht attractive,id put all your effort into making this work, since you are probably not gonna do anyting much better or important ny time soon.

^cluntoriS^

Well, you need to get a job in order to feed her kids.

Mexican chicks are crazy. In a el loco way.

quote:Originally posted by Forgotten:

I'd hit it.

...Dude did you just say testes ?? lol

Avoid having children, be really careful about that.

other than that? whatever happens you'll learn and grow from it, and if you're happy, go with the happy.. life's too short to worry about things like age differences.. if you're both happy, I don't think she's using you (if she were, she'd be going for someone with more money)

so you've been tested positve? well, thats shitty.

Anyways, it seems like you have found someone that you really care for. As long as she is accepting of the relationship, i would go for it. You should trust your instincts, and do what you feel is right.

However, you may want to hang back and see if it is REALLY what you want. COnsidering that joining a family at that age forfits any chance of persuing higher education and doing 1/2 decent during it, and that might be nice for your job situation. However, if thats not possible finacially or whatever, or just because you didnt graduate high school or something. Also, you are on the young side of marrying. Perhaps just waiting anyways is the best thing for you.

But if she is right, and you KNOW it, go for it. Dont plan on leaving her, or the relationship being temeperary at all. You need to want to spend the rest of your life with this woman. Make the right decision.

my opinion about your situation is your damn lucky. You got a woman who loves you and an enviremont wich accepts it. Why worry? Just keep treatin her good and what can go really wrong?

and bout age and stuff. Females tend to life a whole lot longer anyways

if i was in your situation, i would buy a decent camera and make sure the person taking the pictures knew about lighting.

quote:Originally posted by Wintermute:



Qft and welcome back.

quote:Originally posted by inverted:

...Dude did you just say testes ?? lol

The s is right next to the d fool...

Fap! FAP!! Fuckety FAP!!!

Milf alert

*calms himself down, checks to see if anyone noticed him screaming milf during school lesson*

I think you both are motherfucking dirty ass spicks and need to die.

i see no problem with your situation. k, so there's an age difference. big deal. she had kids young. ok. again, no problem. just don't start supporting her. that's not your job. (only start thinking about that stuff if you get married and move out of your parent's house.) right now you're just her young lover.

How old are the kids?

bump

For someone in College, you have terrible grammar, and spelling.

quote:Originally posted by mayor of monkey town:

Yeah i wouldnt try to get in with a chick with kids. Because they'll get attached to you and if/when things do get messy it'll hurt them as much as you/her. (http://www.alexchiu.com/intelliscript/in.cgi?id=1167359334)

Its a hard knock life.

That website is a laugh. Gorgeouspil is the only savior of Earth. I lol'd

FUCK THAT! I am sorry, but I am probably the only one here that can truely comment on your situation. You look hispanic, and I am guessing you are since your name is Latin and that girl looks like a fucking chola.

I have a friend just like you. Except he is 21, and the girl he is with is 31. She has 3 kids, and has been married once. I am sorry man, but you can't turn a whore into a house wife. This is what I tell my friend. She is 10 years older than you, has had way more life experiences than you, and is basically just using you as a person to go out with since no men her age would put up with that bullshit.

Fuck her for a while, go out with her for a while, have fun, but do not feel the need to buy her kids shit. Do not buy her shit, and please do not marry this girl. It isn't love man, it may feel like it probably because it's the first girl that you've fucked. However, it isn't love. You are young, and you should start a family with a girl who wants to start a family with you.

Not pick up somebody else's mess and try and claim it as your own. She needs a man that can actually support her ass, someone with a real job and someone that can pay bills. You need a girl that is young and can relate to you. So that is my two cents man, don't do it. Hopefully you aren't as hard headed as my friend who is trying to do the same shit you are. In the same situation you are.

U got one thing right ur not good looking,jk, I think u should finish school and then think about marriage. AGe shouldn't be a factor in whether u decide to wed. Good Luck

I wouldn't recommend marrying her

She's not a girl. She's a women.

I would have fucked her too...



Nothing wrong with it if you love her...

I'm 18 and I am engaged to a 21 year old...

Her younger brother is 19 almost 20..

I get shit talked every time I go over there...

quote:Originally posted by THUNDERCOCK:

Just don't marry her and everything will be fine.

He's right you're too young to be father to a 11 and 7 year old, don't marry or knock her up, simply have fun and enjoy things, it's only been a year man...if you feel this way 2 years from now maybe then but for now chill out.

You are fucking stupid. She's got a permanent booty-call.

quote:Originally posted by boozehound420:

i stay away from chicks with kids

it always feels like there shopping for a new dad for there kids. And i could never trust her that she actually likes being around me, or is it that she's just desperate to find a father figure to her kids

I had a chick do this shit to me. Made me feel like shit. It took me awhile to realize all she wanted was "daddy", but I wasnt ready for that. So, she became super-duper bitch and I finally left.

Think about this:

She'll be 50 when you're 40.

If that doesn't stop you, go for it.

quote:Originally posted by kAtE-:

She's not a girl. She's a women.

She's multiple women? :P

She looks like a sexy ass bitch. Go for it. You can always divorce in the long run.

FUCK MAN!!! can't believe there's someone in a similar situation as me.

I'm 18 and i'm with a 28 year-old mother of two kids as well... fuck still can't believe it. We met at college and we are both studying arquitecture, we are starting to love each other and I like her very much.

But sometimes I think there are too many differences between us. We argue very often about any stupid thing and sometimes I even feel like an innocent child when im with her. I think she's expecting more of me as a man and as a boyfriend but fuck I will try harder because I really care about her....

^Fuck that dude, break up with that bitch. You don't need that shit. There are millions of women in the world, and you should not settle for a used up bitch who couldn't keep her legs closed when she was younger.

They fucked up their lives, don't fuck up yours. Get with a girl who wants to start a family. Something you can both be equally invested in and not have to worry about other bullshit. Fuck them, go out, party, do whatever. Just don't fucking marry them, and don't get them pregnant.

Congrats, you have captured the elusive creature cslled a MILF. You sir are a lucky bastard.

Those tits real?

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

^Fuck that dude, break up with that bitch. You don't need that shit. There are millions of women in the world, and you should not settle for a used up bitch who couldn't keep her legs closed when she was younger.

They fucked up their lives, don't fuck up yours. Get with a girl who wants to start a family. Something you can both be equally invested in and not have to worry about other bullshit. Fuck them, go out, party, do whatever. Just don't fucking marry them, and don't get them pregnant.

Well my friend if that advice was for me, you don't have to worry at all I'M NOT GONNA MARRY HER!!!!! I swear. This is just one of many relationships I'd like to have before finding the right woman and actually marry her. I'm just 18 years old and my plan is to graduate then get a good job save enough money and start my own business. I will get married and have my first child when I'm 30 I promise!!!!