so yeah, a while ago, got my heart broke, by a gril id been with for the better part of a year, i cried, must've been like twice, now , i dont usually cry, and i know i cried because of the emotion i held up at the beginning of the break up, but i got over her pretty quick, i was wondering how other guys have dealt with heatbreaks, losing the gal or even guy you loved.

I can't really cry even when I want to but the pain took a few months to fade for me. Guess I'm a bit more realistic as a result

Everything falls apart and you feel helpless.

The experience toughens you up for the next breakup, which is the same but diluted.

Eventually I'm supposing you become rather tough. Jack could tell us.

Get drunk and watch the movies swingers. It helps. Seriously. Thats what i did.

Go to war.

over a year ago, my ex broke my heart. I went into a state of isolation, being counseled by close female friends. In January, I said fuck life, joined the Navy.

Although I have yet to date again and am now afraid of falling in love again, I'm livin the dream.

Express your crippled feelings through artwork.

If I ever had a bad relationship (not saying I haven't had one, I just haven't actually HAD a relationship, yet), I'd just make another one of these http://tinyurl.com/wfel2

Alcohol.Lots and lots of alcohol. + alot of sulking, moping and laying on my bed, looking at the plain white drywall that is my ceiling.

Pft.

You have a bit of a cry and you suck it up and get on with your life. I had most of my emotional problems before I started dating, so I think I've got a bit more of a solid reason than 'wah wah wah, this girl broke my heart, I hate all women'.

You grow up, you make mistakes, you lose and you learn.

i turned to booze and lots of xanax, i think next time i'll just go out "sarging" with my friend who has mastered the art of being a pick-up artist.

for me, it was hard to cry, i almost tried forcing it out, but it didnt come.

i went thru a lot of emotions, first i was sad she left, then angry at her for doing it, after a while i felt as if she didnt even deserve me.

quote:Originally posted by DesertRebel:

Go to war.

over a year ago, my ex broke my heart. I went into a state of isolation, being counseled by close female friends. In January, I said fuck life, joined the Navy.

Although I have yet to date again and am now afraid of falling in love again, I'm livin the dream.

Wewt! Another shipmate! What's your command? Wouldn't happen to be Japan, would it? Because you'd know just as well as I do that hooking up with women in Japan is cake.

To be honest, your story is in parallel with one of the circumstances for me joining. But I had more reasons than just a girl.

quote:Originally posted by DesertRebel:



Although I have yet to date again and am now afraid of falling in love again, I'm livin the dream.

Its better to have love and lost, then to have never loved at all

quote:Originally posted by lupus umbre:

so yeah, a while ago, got my heart broke, by a gril id been with for the better part of a year, i cried, must've been like twice, now , i dont usually cry, and i know i cried because of the emotion i held up at the beginning of the break up, but i got over her pretty quick, i was wondering how other guys have dealt with heatbreaks, losing the gal or even guy you loved.

go mess around with a few other girls. while of course hummin foxey lady.

Massive amounts of alcohol of course.

Fight someone. Thats probably bad advice, because if you lose you will feel even worse. Oh well.

Guys get over it. Girls inhale chocolate for a few weeks, then turn anorexic until they loose the fat. That's the difference.

quote:Originally posted by Trueborn Vorpal:

Wewt! Another shipmate! What's your command? Wouldn't happen to be Japan, would it? Because you'd know just as well as I do that hooking up with women in Japan is cake.

To be honest, your story is in parallel with one of the circumstances for me joining. But I had more reasons than just a girl.

I'm presently stationed in Dam Neck VI, under NMITC. But in English, Intelligence Specialist "A" School, I'm here for another 6 - 16 weeks for C School.

As for me joining, there were other reasons for joining as well. Main one being it was something I always wanted to do. I'll give you a heads up if I'm heading towards Japan.

I cry. and Eat. Then i smoke, and eat some more. I hate it because I get fat. But then after a few days(maybe a week) of that I'll start drinking a lot so I lose the weight plus more and I'm sexy and happy again.

I adovcate you start wearing tight pants and slitting your wrists. girls dig that shit ...Failing that become a jock. Girls love nasty men...

When i found out my g/f broke up with me, I did alot of vicodin and drank a shitload. I then stopped smoking weed and became a alcoholic.

I don't know how you guys eat in times like these. I get so depressed that staring at food makes me sick.

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One word: REBOUND.

Learn to play music ,

If you already play music then you have gold my friend ,

If you are an artist whether it be painter sculptor musician what you are working with now is sheer anguish and pain. Such a powerful emotion with so much to create from .

Build something. It will definitly help people may think you are insane for a while as for my last ex i locked myself off from the world told work i was ill and made a paper mache head covered it in glue then got a tray of shattered glass and rolled it about in it. I also drank a shit load and did a lot of charcoal drawing.

i have such a collection of work from that. I just felt so drained like i had used every ounce of suffering for myself.