I'm 15 and I'm friends with this girl who is one year older than I and I need some tips. We have chilled one on one several times outside of school but never on a real date and I'm really interested in her but I haven't made and moves for several reasons, one being that I knew for a fact she was hitting on another guy she liked but here's the thing. She mentioned once in the middle of an outing that she would date me if I was older. Just out of the blue we were talking and I was joking around and stuff making her giggle and all so I get the idea that there were at least some feelings. Now I haven't spoken to her in about a month since then and now we're going to see a movie this week (it's our thing to go see movies and then hang out afterwords, maybe to go eat food or for a coffee) and I want to make a move because she's over the guy she was crushing on. She told me before though when we were really close about how much better I was than him. Not all at once but she would drop once in a while a point like that I keep better company than he did and stuff and how I was more gentlemanly. I don't know if she was just being nice or if it's true and call me paranoid but could those things have been hints that she liked me? Here's the thing: I want to make some move this time that we're going out. This isn't a date or anything but I want to try to make something happen so... what do I do? Let's say I wanted to kiss her or tell her how I feel or whatever. How do I set the mood and stuff? What do I say? No I don't want to fuck her, I don't care about that shit. I mean it'd be nice if it happens sometime but it's not my primary goal. For now I just want the comfort of having her as my girl.

Don't sweat it mate.

Be there, have fun with her, smile into her eyes, and seal it with a kiss.

That's all you have to do.

yeah stab's right, if you make it a big deal, then it will become a big deal, and youll probably screw it up. jsut act cool about it, be yourself, and let her know that u like her in that way, but dont force yourself onto her.

or you could rape her, whatever.

Just be confident about it. Try not to stress or think about it too much. Just act how you naturally feel and try to show some emotion. Just subconsciously tell her that your into her ya know.

Fuck it.

EDIT: I tell you, it'd be a nice change if photos didn't always fuck up.



[This message has been edited by Forgotten (edited 01-01-2007).]