OK, so im meeting with the girl I like on monday afternoon, and I know she likes me back. What do I do??? I dont know where to start with dates or relationships.

Thanks in advance for all useful posts!

When you greet her, just say "Hi" or something, and then just continue on the conversation, and just sorta flirt with her.

Since it's a first date, do something laid back and easy. Try not to put too much pressure on yourself or her. Let things happen naturally over time. I always suggest something active like bowling or an arcade so the focus isn't always on trying to converse. But those are just my two cents.

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<LI>Eye contact

<LI>Call them by name a lot

<LI>Come on with confident and relaxed body language (i.e. good posture, chin up, etc)

Now for conversation:

<LI>Do talk about things you have in common.

<LI>Do not be dorky and talk about school or your fucking teachers.

<LI>Do make her giggle and flirt with her.

<LI>Do not be goofy, we want to veer from the friend vibes as much as possible (you don't want to be her funny friend that gets no play, right?)

<LI>Do compliment her, tell her she smells nice, but be honest (if she smells bad , pick another thing to compliment)

<LI>Do not flatter her, treat her as an equal while still making her feel good.

<LI>You can ask her how far she's gone, if she liked it, if she'd do it again.

<LI>Do not bring up ex's (yours or hers).

Finally:

<LI>Find out what she wants (relationship, hookup, whatev) basically where she's at, where she wants to go.

<LI>Decide if you want to make a move even a back rub, hair stroke, intimate hug, kiss on the cheek is good progress. Again, you're leaving the friend vibe behind and showing her what you can give her.

<LI>Additional note: Setting of this conversation is important, you want to be uninterrupted and relaxed. I've found bedrooms (good place to use music), parks (relaxed outdoor setting), a comfy couch (easy to change positions/move closer), a quiet table somewhere (food provides a nice way to take a break and plan out your next move), etc are good places. Try to get her alone where you are all she can think about, no distractions. Do not let her friends come, they'll hog her and you'll be the third wheel (not okay).

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Ok my friend best of luck to you even though you have the ballin skills. Keep confident. Fill me in afterwards feel free to email me, I'm nice, I like helping you tell me if you have more questions also: thereisonlyoneway@comcast.net

[This message has been edited by kmartcop88 (edited 12-31-2006).]

quote:Originally posted by kmartcop88:

<UL TYPE=SQUARE>

<LI>Eye contact

<LI>Call them by name a lot

<LI>Come on with confident and relaxed body language (i.e. good posture, chin up, etc)

Now for conversation:

<LI>Do talk about things you have in common.

<LI>Do not be dorky and talk about school or your fucking teachers.

<LI>Do make her giggle and flirt with her.

<LI>Do not be goofy, we want to veer from the friend vibs as much as possible (you don't want to be her funny friend that gets no play, right?)

<LI>Do compliment her, tell her she smells nice, but be honest (if she smells bad , pick another thing to compliment)

<LI>Do not flatter her, treat her as an equal while still making her feel good.

<LI>You can ask her how far she's gone, if she liked it, if she'd do it again.

<LI>Do not bring up ex's (yours or hers).

Finally:

<LI>She what she wants (relationship, hookup, whatev) basically where she's at, where she wants to go.

<LI>Decide if you want to make a move even a back rub, hair stroke, intimate hug, kiss on the cheek is good progress. Again, you're leaving the friend vibe behind and showing her what you can give her.

<LI>Additional note: Setting of this conversation is important, you want to be uninterrupted and relaxed. I've found bedrooms, parks (weather permitting), a comfy couch, a quiet table somewhere, etc are good places. Try to get her alone where you are all she can think about, no distractions.

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Ok my friend best of luck to you even though you have the ballin skills. Keep confident. Fill me in afterwards feel free to email me, I'm nice, I like helping you: thereisonlyoneway@comcast.net

Dude, thanks a bunch. You rule

Glad I could help.

We're both meeting because shes going to her friends house and im going to my friends house and they both happen to be in the same neighborhood. Im not sure what we're going to do though, my friend drives and we're always out doing something fun or eventful. So maybe we'll go to the movies or something? I guess if we did it could be like a double date sort of thing. Her friend could hook up with my friend possibly (if they like eachother) She knows my friend so I dont have to really worry that much about her having a bad time. He's also a pretty quiet person.

[This message has been edited by Senior Pepe (edited 12-31-2006).]

I specialize in quiet girls, trust me, if she likes you she'll talk to you. I would let her friend sit shotgun and the two of you have the back to yourselves. Have music playing, but don't let it get too loud so that you can still talk to her. You got this, I have confidence in you.

wow what i got to say doesnt even match up to kmartcop88's but you just got to wait for the perfect opertunity (sp) just be patient everytime your with a girl the perfect oppertunity will always come up to "cuddle" or hug up with them in a way that it looks natural but since you know she already likes you dont be afraid to just take the chance to hold her or kiss her just do it

I'm bumping this because, Senor Pepe, I want you to tell me how this went today. Hope you see this even though you have like 5 posts...

The fact that you and your friends do fun things is all you need to get a girl. I'm guessing your in highschool? Well most kids in school do fuck all. SChool,homework,sleep

Girls like to have fun, and its the guys job to think of the fun things to do. The girls come along for the ride.

Just be like yourself and have fun. People always say dont get in the friends zone. Well almost all girls are ALWAYS thinking about a boyfriend and sex. Its the one advantage of having all this soap oprah shit on TV. The disadvantage is its makes chicks INSANE!

Treat her like a good friend, have fun. Then to stay away from the friends zone shit just get touchy with her, compliment her once and a while, spend alone time with her shit like that

good luck

quote:Originally posted by CaptainFantasy:

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stfu/gtfo, troll.

Make her love you then force her to weave you coats in your infernal tower for all enternity.

She of course will try to escape as i am sure you would put in this situation the answer is simply this . Violence . Women fear violence as their bones are made of porcelian a little known fact that sucessful men have learned early on in life. Just look at any man who has been accused of beating his wife they never have just bruises it is always a broken this or shattered that. Coincidence ? , i think not

Now the moat around the tower is quite possibly the most difficult aspect of your plan but assuming you have the right tools it will be far easier than you imagined. Dig an appropriate moat around the tower say two to three metres deep. It doesnt have to be too deep in some cases it has been known to be only one metre !. And to stop the water draining get some bin liners and line them into the hole tape them together with electrical tape . The tiniest seam could spell failure for this mission . This will be somewhat time consuming but stick with it pesevere and the results will be breathtaking .Use rocks to hold the bin liners in place up the top. Be sure that you stay safe and do not venture too close to the edge when filled with water.

You could always enchant the tower with somesort of holding spell but most modern practitioners of wizzardry think this to be a little childish and immature like holding a midget at arms legnth and kicking him repetedly in the groin. So We move on to the final part of this . The Dragon .

Now you and i both know that the difficulty of getting a dragon to do your bidding is impossible . Very tempremental creatures with a mouth most suited for feasting on the flesh of humans. This problem can be overcome with ease. Simply go down to your local animal shelter and take ownership of a dog , the larger the better. Treat him well ofer him numerous sweeties and let him sit on the sofa when he feels like it. This will appease the dog . Wait untill he sleeps then with Sticky tape and some premade cardboard horns fasten his dragon costume to him. Be sure to hide all mirrors from him on the morning . If he asks deny all knowledge of his new found resemblance to a cardboard explosion. He will soon become irate with your denial . And here is the clever part . Once he is in heated debate with you make very clear references that he should never go near this infernal tower.

A good example of this would be "How dare you speak to your mother like that , well at least you never went near that tower"

or "Sometimes i think you are trying to get into that tower !!"

And he will soon enough venture into this tower and the one way door will trap him inside. As the years pass it is entirely probable and almost expected that his mind will snap and he will begin to think himself to be a dragon . Thus solving the problem .

Women are idiots having never seen a dragon they wont be able to tell the difference between a cardboard dog and a fire breathing beast.

And there you have it ...

Or alternately you could do what the rest of us do , Laugh inappropriately loudly try to have sex with them then come home alone to moan about it on totse...

quote:Originally posted by inverted:

You could always enchant the tower with somesort of holding spell but most modern practitioners of wizzardry think this to be a little childish and immature like holding a midget at arms legnth and kicking him repetedly in the groin.





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quote:Originally posted by Senior Pepe:

We're both meeting because shes going to her friends house and im going to my friends house and they both happen to be in the same neighborhood. Im not sure what we're going to do though, my friend drives and we're always out doing something fun or eventful. So maybe we'll go to the movies or something? I guess if we did it could be like a double date sort of thing. Her friend could hook up with my friend possibly (if they like eachother) She knows my friend so I dont have to really worry that much about her having a bad time. He's also a pretty quiet person.



Ultimatley, to make what you want to happen and faster, you have to state it.

Also, have you figured out what you want from this girl? Relationship, dates, sex. Tbh no one says 'Damn that girl is hot i'd like to take her out for coffee'

This is just a social standards.

If you tell me what you want out of the situation I can help out more, but if you don't know. You're unprepeared... Not a good thing.

Id definitely like a relationship

quote:Originally posted by Senior Pepe:

Id definitely like a relationship

So, tell us how it went? Might be ill learn something from you, could use some advice and shit like that.

For a relationship, if you'd like to make it happen quicker, go out say 2-3 times a week. This is kind of relationship mode (The more you go out the faster) and say after 2 months you say 'I think you're really cool, i'd like to see if we could build something' Or whatever you want to say.

Well, the thing is. I told her I had feelings for her quite a while ago and she told me she liked me too. But, she had a BF at the time. They broke up so I asked her out. She said yes, but to give hr some time. Which is fine with me. I didnt get to see her Monday as planned, but we're going to the movies tomarrow night. She wants to see "The Holiday".

Seems like an appropriate movie. You thinking about making any moves in the Cinema? Pinch her just above her knee and she'll cry out lol! Then afterwards you can laugh about it. Classic times.