So I've had this friend for a few months now that I've kind of always thought of as a bit more than just a friend. That probably sounds weird so let me clear it up. I've known her for about 4 months now and since we've known each other we've always kind of had this physical attraction for each other. I really don't see things with me and her going past just friends with benefits or anything and I'm pretty sure she feels the same way. But she's one of those girls that is bit of a slut (a hot one I might add) and can get most guys in bed with her within a few days of knowing them. But I think with me, since shes known me for a while now and these mutual feelings just recently started surfacing, I think it's a bit of a different situation now. Now, there are these random feelings between us that seem to be just floating out there that neither of us will claim. Almost like we are both subconsciously playing hard-to-get, like two magnets pushing away fronm one another. (Sorry can't think of a better analogy right now.)

So last night I ended up staying the night in a small car with her and two of her friends. Her and I got high while her friends sat back and laughed. But anyways, her and I ended up in the back seat together with one big blanket. After about 20 (not an exaggeration) different attempts at getting comfortable we had finally found it; me on my back with my legs spread, her laying on her back on top of me somehow managing to get her head within 4 inches of me boys, and my hand cupping her left tit. How this happened I have no clue, but I found it quite pleasing.

So I bet you're wondering what the hell happened next huh... nothing. Absolutely fucking nothing. Believe me, I would have liked more than anything for even ANYTHING to have happened, but nope. I think she may have teased me a bit by biting my zipper and playing with it, but as far as that and the C cup tit caressed in my hand, nothing happened.

Oh and one last tiny little side note...she has a boyfriend. She seems a bit careless about it though seeing as he is away at college and she only sees him about 2 maybe 3 times a month.

So totse, my question for you is probably obvious by now. What do I do? I basically just want a good friends with benefits relationship. Obviously I am going to have to deal with the boyfriend situation on my own, but I think S&A can help with the main stuff.

Any help is appreciated.

git r done.

Leave the arrangment as it is mate.

She's got a boyfriend and she's fucking you.

She's a bit of a slut.

These you have said yourself.

Why in the name of Christ would you want to get into a reasonably serious relationship with someone who can and most likely will go and fuck guys behind your back?

Stop being a dope and be happy with what you've got!

quote:Originally posted by psycho_8b:

Leave the arrangment as it is mate.

She's got a boyfriend and she's fucking you.

She's a bit of a slut.

These you have said yourself.

Why in the name of Christ would you want to get into a reasonably serious relationship with someone who can and most likely will go and fuck guys behind your back?

Stop being a dope and be happy with what you've got!

QFTTTT

Why do guys ALWAYS fall for their female friends.....litterally...alllllllll the time.

quote:Originally posted by among_the_living:

QFTTTT

Why do guys ALWAYS fall for their female friends.....litterally...alllllllll the time.

Nah I have more female friends than male. It's really only this one and like I said, it's really only physical I'm not looking for anything serious.

Don't touch her with the 10 foot stick.

Either she's bored with the current relationship or a slut like the above said.

quote:Originally posted by ZeroDyne:

Don't touch her with the 10 foot stick.

Either she's bored with the current relationship or a slut like the above said.

Well yeah well she's actually a bit of both. But why should that keep me away from her?I don't get it. All I want is a physical friends with benefits relationship. (Don't we all )But now that I've found an opportunity at one, I'm just looking for the right way to take it on so I came to totse.

I thought he said he didn't want a serious relationship?

Personally, I don't mess with girls that have boyfriends. They could be big and have anger problems.

Anywho, next time you two are together under a big blanket make sure you let her know what your trying to do, make the first move. Being drunk, and a slut, she shouldn't have much of an objection to it.

Its not hard, just hang out and just start being physcially closer to her and when you sense the opportunity go in for a kiss. Then just kinda see where it goes from there, something tells me shes into it.

Last night was just foreplay. She's building anticipation. This may happen one more time before you two fuck. But I would say hurry and do it or else you two are just going to be friends.

And don't worry about the boyfriend. Fuck as many bitches as possible. Enjoy life because as you get older it turns into shit.

quote:Originally posted by voodoonirvana:

So I've had this friend for a few months now that I've kind of always thought of as a bit more than just a friend. That probably sounds weird so let me clear it up. I've known her for about 4 months now and since we've known each other we've always kind of had this physical attraction for each other. I really don't see things with me and her going past just friends with benefits or anything and I'm pretty sure she feels the same way. But she's one of those girls that is bit of a slut (a hot one I might add) and can get most guys in bed with her within a few days of knowing them. But I think with me, since shes known me for a while now and these mutual feelings just recently started surfacing, I think it's a bit of a different situation now. Now, there are these random feelings between us that seem to be just floating out there that neither of us will claim. Almost like we are both subconsciously playing hard-to-get, like two magnets pushing away fronm one another. (Sorry can't think of a better analogy right now.)



Oh and one last tiny little side note...she has a boyfriend. She seems a bit careless about it though seeing as he is away at college and she only sees him about 2 maybe 3 times a month.

So totse, my question for you is probably obvious by now. What do I do? I basically just want a good friends with benefits relationship. Obviously I am going to have to deal with the boyfriend situation on my own, but I think S&A can help with the main stuff.

Any help is appreciated.

LMFAO ...exact same situation...except the boy friend knows...and iam in trouble lol make sure if u do anythign dont leave you stuff in her house!