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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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#1
 2006-12-30, 23:03
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gadzooks 
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The need to hookup with someone at midnight on NYE...
So we all know the whole tradition... Examples from TV shows like that one Friends episode I think it was, or my favorite movie about it; 200 Cigarettes.
I've actually never cared much for traditions/rituals, especially trivial ones such as this, but I am starting to worry about being lonely on this defining moment. Especially since I know that the party I'm going to is going to be mainly couples, including my ex girlfriend and her new boyfriend (Whom I both hate deeply, by the way).
Luckily my friend is bringing his girlfriends' sister and friend, both of whom are moderately attractive. Still though, no guarantees...
Anyone else getting pre-NYE anxiety?
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#2
 2006-12-30, 23:05
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Re: The need to hookup with someone at midnight on NYE...
Well, no actually, I'm not worreid, because I'll be doing absolutely nothing this new years. I have two friends in this town and they're both on holiday, so woot 
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#3
 2006-12-30, 23:05
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Re: The need to hookup with someone at midnight on NYE...
Nope!
It's really just another day to me
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#4
 2006-12-30, 23:07
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Re: The need to hookup with someone at midnight on NYE...
No.
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#5
 2006-12-30, 23:16
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Re: The need to hookup with someone at midnight on NYE...
quote:Originally posted by bushy:
It's really just another day to me
It pretty much is for me too... Or at least always was.
In fact, this will be one of my first new years eve's not spent with family away from my friends.
I think it's more the fact that I will be at a party surrounded by couples, including my ex and her new bf. She thinks I obsess over her and that I can't get over her, and that I've been single since we broke up (a year ago almost to the day)...
Maybe I could just hope for another party to go to with a bunch of single people...
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#6
 2006-12-30, 23:17
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Re: The need to hookup with someone at midnight on NYE...
These are seriously the lamest fucking replies i've ever read.
Now i understand most of totse is drastically underage, but there's no excuse for 16+ going to parties and enjoying the night.
Although then again most of totse are the loser kids of school and don't do the social thing.
So nevermind.
And yeah i'm going to a party new years eve. a uni party an hour away were an old friend goes to. And i'm not really thinking about hooking up with anyone, i came out of a 4 year relationship a few months ago and have been with 2 girls since then neither of which meant much so whatever happens.
Don't go in expecting shit or you'll get disappointed. Just see where it goes and have a great night.
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#7
 2006-12-30, 23:45
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Re: The need to hookup with someone at midnight on NYE...
I have no need to be anxious, I know I won't have anyone to kiss on new years, which is all of thirteen hours away.
I'll be spending tonight alone with a couple of movies and a few drinks.
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#8
 2006-12-31, 00:03
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Re: The need to hookup with someone at midnight on NYE...
quote:Originally posted by bushy:
Nope!
It's really just another day to me
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#9
 2006-12-31, 00:27
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Anserine 
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Re: The need to hookup with someone at midnight on NYE...
im hoping for a little kiss at midnight this year, ive had one every year since 2000, gotta couple girls coming to a party, neither are even scarcley attractive but fuck it, im hoping to be off my box anyway.
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#10
 2006-12-31, 00:50
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Re: The need to hookup with someone at midnight on NYE...
my ex is fucking my best friend... i want nothing to do with women. There's a younger girl (she's still a kid--16) who i know i could get action from, but... she's not my type.
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#11
 2006-12-31, 01:11
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Re: The need to hookup with someone at midnight on NYE...
Quote:
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Originally Posted by Twisted_Ferret
quote:Originally posted by bushy:
Nope!
It's really just another day to me
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#12
 2006-12-31, 01:12
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Re: The need to hookup with someone at midnight on NYE...
Wow, you guys aim too high. Around here we only do the New Year's kiss, and that is just tradition, not sexual. It's just nice to start off your year with a good kiss. If you don't have a girl, doesn't matter, grab one that's near by and kiss her, odds are she wants to kiss at midnight just as bad as you do.
Really, people get nervous about going out on New Years because they feel like they need to hook up with someone? You guys need to calm that shit down apparently, just go party and have fun...
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#13
 2006-12-31, 01:20
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dodging the rain and tractors
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Re: The need to hookup with someone at midnight on NYE...
Being a sorta German family we shall sit in front of the TV watching DINNER FOR ONE (http://tinyurl.com/d4sg6) (which no one in the US or UK has ever heard of but is a German tradition since 1963).
Then we shall wait for the pictures of Big Ben striking 12.
At which point we will open a bottle of Champagne(as we can't get decent 'sekt').
We shall toast and wish each other a happy and prosperous New Year.
Then sipping champus watch whatever crap is on TV.
=start the year as we mean to go on.
NO kissing involved.
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#14
 2006-12-31, 01:23
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Re: The need to hookup with someone at midnight on NYE...
Fairly sure if you think of hooking up as a responsibility, it would take all the fun out of it.
Just do whatever the fuck you want. If the parties not gonna be fun, dont even go.
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#15
 2006-12-31, 01:32
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Re: The need to hookup with someone at midnight on NYE...
I was just informed that I would be hosting a fondue party for New Years. So I'm more concerned about getting food than hooking up. I guess because I have a boyfriend, so there's no pressure...So...uh...+1 for my post count!
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#16
 2006-12-31, 01:36
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Re: The need to hookup with someone at midnight on NYE...
We'll see if I can't rape a virgin.
I'm half serious too.
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#17
 2006-12-31, 01:41
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dodging the rain and tractors
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Re: The need to hookup with someone at midnight on NYE...
quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:
I was just informed that I would be hosting a fondue party for New Years. So I'm more concerned about getting food than hooking up. I guess because I have a boyfriend, so there's no pressure...So...uh...+1 for my post count!
No orgy is complete without fondue!
(try one third Gruyère, one third Emmentaler and third Appenzeller. Use a GOOD white wine and I'm told a few spoons of kirsch help. Day old bread.)
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#18
 2006-12-31, 02:00
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Re: The need to hookup with someone at midnight on NYE...
quote:Originally posted by jackketch:
Being a sorta German family we shall sit in front of the TV watching DINNER FOR ONE (http://tinyurl.com/d4sg6) (which no one in the US or UK has ever heard of but is a German tradition since 1963).
I watched that every new year's for the 3 years I spent in Germany. Fucking hilarious.
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#19
 2006-12-31, 02:36
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Re: The need to hookup with someone at midnight on NYE...
I guess I have to post here just because I'm bored...
This Newyears is actually the first new years eve that I am actually with somebody, I've been with my girlfriend a year and prolly wont get to see her on new years eve, Because She has some very over protective Aunts and uncle.
**She's 17 by the way...
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#20
 2006-12-31, 03:34
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Re: The need to hookup with someone at midnight on NYE...
I have a couple of friends that are having parties. My goal for the night is to get wasted, and forget the entire night. Some drunk sex would be a plus, but it probably wont happen.
I am buying a couple of bottles of wine(red) a bottle of vodca, and a bottle of aftershock.
The shit thing is my parents have just given me a cold and i am all blocked up, not the most attractive thing...
sorry i have started ranting a bit...
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#21
 2006-12-31, 04:08
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Self control is for pussies
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Re: The need to hookup with someone at midnight on NYE...
My sorta-girlfriendish-special-lady-friend is out of town  . So yeah, I feel ya OP.
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#22
 2006-12-31, 04:28
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Re: The need to hookup with someone at midnight on NYE...
quote:Originally posted by Cozy Amnesia:
My sorta-girlfriendish-special-lady-friend is out of town  . So yeah, I feel ya OP.
Same
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#23
 2006-12-31, 05:21
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Re: The need to hookup with someone at midnight on NYE...
I'll be at a lame party, not drunk, with my boyfriend who I'm unable to hook up with at the moment. Why, you ask? Because I managed to catch some obscure virus that is highly infectious, so no kissy til I'm better. Not even hand-holding, for fuck sakes. I've been wearing gloves 24/7. And I can't drink because my idiot doctor thought I had strep and gave me antibiotics, and now I have to finish them. Motherfucker. I WISH I was alone for new years. Then I could sit at home and get drunk and then horribly horribly ill. Now I have to be social and crap... gah.
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#24
 2006-12-31, 05:41
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Re: The need to hookup with someone at midnight on NYE...
quote:Originally posted by Demoiselle:
I'll be at a lame party, not drunk, with my boyfriend who I'm unable to hook up with at the moment. Why, you ask? Because I managed to catch some obscure virus that is highly infectious, so no kissy til I'm better. Not even hand-holding, for fuck sakes. I've been wearing gloves 24/7. And I can't drink because my idiot doctor thought I had strep and gave me antibiotics, and now I have to finish them. Motherfucker. I WISH I was alone for new years. Then I could sit at home and get drunk and then horribly horribly ill. Now I have to be social and crap... gah.
AHH SHES GOT THE NORWOK!
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#25
 2006-12-31, 06:31
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Re: The need to hookup with someone at midnight on NYE...
I'm heading out with a bunch of my mates, and i'm hopeful 
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#26
 2006-12-31, 06:48
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Re: The need to hookup with someone at midnight on NYE...
Hopefully i'll have someone to kiss at midnight...
Otherwise i'll cry myself to sleep. 
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#27
 2006-12-31, 06:52
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Re: The need to hookup with someone at midnight on NYE...
Ill be kissing my girlfriend in NYE =)
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#28
 2006-12-31, 08:09
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Australia, Victoria.
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Re: The need to hookup with someone at midnight on NYE...
The way its looking for me Im going to go down to the bottleshop, buy a bottle of tequila, completely fuck myself up on it then go for a walk and pass out somewhere.
On this night I expect to set a precedent. Fighting depression and bitterness with cheap alcohol.
See you at the other side.
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#29
 2006-12-31, 10:05
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Re: The need to hookup with someone at midnight on NYE...
Not really, I always end up with someone on nye...
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#30
 2006-12-31, 10:11
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Re: The need to hookup with someone at midnight on NYE...
I guess I'm hoping for it, but the night won't be wasted without a kiss.
However, my current interest said he'd be there. So who knows.
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#31
 2007-01-01, 04:54
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Re: The need to hookup with someone at midnight on NYE...
quote:Originally posted by Forgotten:
On this night I expect to set a precedent. Fighting depression and bitterness with cheap alcohol.
See you at the other side.
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#32
 2007-01-01, 04:59
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Re: The need to hookup with someone at midnight on NYE...
I lead a sad and lonely life...so no. All I do is work.
"overworked and underfucked"
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#33
 2007-01-01, 14:02
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Re: The need to hookup with someone at midnight on NYE...
I got a few kisses and the gay guy tried it on 
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#34
 2007-01-01, 14:32
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Re: The need to hookup with someone at midnight on NYE...
quote:Originally posted by jackketch:
Being a sorta German family we shall sit in front of the TV watching DINNER FOR ONE (http://tinyurl.com/d4sg6)
I remember talk of this obscure feature. My mother came across it while living in Sweden 
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#35
 2007-01-01, 19:06
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Re: The need to hookup with someone at midnight on NYE...
Holy shit I actually made out with someone right at midnight...
I hit it off with this European chick (Canadian, but born in some European country.. can't remember which...)
We exchanged numbers too and she was supposed to even sleep over at my house... but my roommate fucked up by flipping out on his girlfriend for hitting on other guys (she even told me she had a secret thing for me... WTF?)
So I guess I don't blame him for how he reacted...
Either way, it creeped her out because he reacted so violently, which obviously fucked up my chances with her friend (the chick I made out with...)
FUCK 
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#36
 2007-01-01, 19:37
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Re: The need to hookup with someone at midnight on NYE...
i was going to go to a fairly promising party type thing...like a block party but it all fell through and i spent new years alone. i dont mind except that i havn't even kissed anyone for a long time now.
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