So a while ago (Almost a year actually...) I was talking to this girl. We were pretty much together all the time, made out a few times, did the holding hands thing, blah blah blah.

So then suddenly she gets some boyfriend, and doesnt talk to me anymore? I never understood what the hell happened, or why she just stopped talking to me.

Fast forward a few days/week or two ago. She suddenly starts talking to me again, facebook comments, talking to me on aim, sending me text messages wanting to hang out again? Wtf is up?! The boyfriend is gone now (they arent dating anymore) and im wondering if shes looking for a hookup while shes at home (i wouldnt mind one bit, but im pretty sure shes not like that..)

so what should I do here? Hang out with her? Or ditch her like she ditched me?

i say GET SOME ACTION

Take what you can get. She's obviously looking for either on the rebound or something.

If you go back to her you prove that she can pick you up and throw you away any time she pleases.

I'm the ex-boyfriend, she wants to hook up.

quote:Originally posted by arquin:

If you go back to her you prove that she can pick you up and throw you away any time she pleases.

Great wisdom, this one has!

[This message has been edited by Forgotten (edited 12-30-2006).]

If she wants a hook up and thinks she can pick you up and drop you at will, then you get sex when she wants it and you don't have to deal with her as a girlfriend. If the sex is good then do play her game. Remember its alright to fall in love, just get up and leave the next morning.

she liked you, she wanted you, you didn't grab your chance when you had it, someone else got her. that's why she stopped flirting with you -- she didn't want to be duplicitous. if you're immature enough to think that's "ditching you" then whatever.

she's probably broken up with the other guy or about to. if you like her take your chance and snatch her snatch.

quote:Originally posted by scjones:

Remember its alright to fall in love, then get up and leave the next morning.

hahaha

Go for it, but i'd advise you have a litle chat with her first about why she stopped being friendly in the first place. Chances are Lauren is right. Girls usually are, its a bad habit they have :P

fuck that manipulative bitch, shes trying to fuck with your head, you should fuck her and then be all likes "yo beesh, I gots me a mad fine girlfriend I can't talks to you no more" then she'll cry and you can laugh....

don't forget to take pictures though...as proof

quote:Originally posted by lauren7249:

[B]she liked you, she wanted you, you didn't grab your chance when you had it, someone else got her. that's why she stopped flirting with you -- she didn't want to be duplicitous. if you're immature enough to think that's "ditching you" then whatever.

/B]

Nope, your totally wrong here.

I DID go for my chance, I tried hard...maybe too hard.

I think it had alot to do with my college choice, she could see I wasnt budging on where I was going, but with the ex boyfriend, he didnt care where he went, so where ever she decided, hed follow..

that guy is totally lame, thats prolly why she left him he sounds like a pansy

Talk to her. She is a person.

Get it on with her, get a girlfriend and stop talking to her.

Simplicity is the key.

quote:Originally posted by lauren7249:

she liked you, she wanted you, you didn't grab your chance when you had it, someone else got her. that's why she stopped flirting with you -- she didn't want to be duplicitous. if you're immature enough to think that's "ditching you" then whatever.

she's probably broken up with the other guy or about to. if you like her take your chance and snatch her snatch.

But does that give her the right to just act like this guy doesnt exist anymore, and then conveniently go back the way things were when she's done?