Alright, so, I have decided that if I want a real relationship I'm not going to find it at the highschool level. I know what I want, and I just don't see it. (fyi, I'm a junior in highschool, 17 y/o)

I have a lesbian manager where I work, who agrees with me that (I'm not trying to be egotistic) I'm not going to find anyone at my maturity level in highschool, and has agreed to give me a somewhat of a make over to carry the look with my "maturity". I usualy just wear cargo pants and a band T-shirt (I'm lazy, so.. I kept it simple).

My manager, on the other hand is giving me the ole queer eye for the straight guy routine and has so far introduced me to more "college looking cloths"... I can't complain because I do enjoy the new look, I just didn't have the effort into finding it, so she did the work.

Now, the hard part is after I have the look, I believe I have the charisma, and intelegence, but... where to start. Where to start looking for that "older women"... The life long task every man pretty much wants accomplished at this age.

And, after I find that girl, do I lie to her and tell her I'm of an older age? I can bend the truth alittle, but to what extent?

...What to do..?

(Also, I've already tried to have sex/3-way with her and her girlfriend... she's not budging... so, sadly, don't mention those as an option.)

Depends, are you looking for older woman to just get with, or are you actually looking for a relationship?



If you are just looking for some ass, then lie. If you are looking for a relationship, then don't lie.(A lot harder to get woman the second way).

Well, I'm alittle of a romantic, so I would prefer (that being the key word, "prefer") a relationship.

I kind of thought I'd bend the truth until:

A) We've connecred enough to where it won't matter.

B) She tried to take me to a bar/club.

Keep in mind though, I'm aiming at like 18-19 y/o's... So, It shouldn't be that large of a shock, ya'know?

if you're that mature, 18-19 is a perfectly acceptable range to shoot for. Don't even tell them how old you are until they ask...that's what I do. And try to hold on until you are 18, it makes things much easier, because then whatever you may get into with them is legal. Try to go to a big college if you can, that's the easiest way to do it IMO. I was in a similar situation when I was in high school, and now I go to the University of Wisconsin with over 41,000 students. You'll meet SOMEONE you like there that likes you back, and age really isn't an issue there. In fact, I've never been asked, and I have never asked someone their age in my time there. Everybody's just looking to get drunk and maybe have a little meaningless sex there, and a lot of times if you are an upstanding guy, you can land a true girlfriend from the gigantic pool of girls that are around.

Speaking from personal experience.

it's acceptable. go to college parties or flirt with girls who come to your workplace. don't lie about your age. tell them how mature you are....haha....no don't. seriously, i know a lot of girls in college (up to juniors, even) who have bfs in high school. a little scary, but apparently girls are willing to do it. make friends with people in college and go to their social events. don't emphasize your age, just be honest.

you say you want a real relationship but real relationships are built from honosty and being able to trust your partner. so lying about your age is the wrong approach.

and stop thinking you are mature, if you really were mature you wouldn't have to lie about your age or who you are. bitch.

I've seen a lot of 18-19 year olds that are just as immature as 16's it's not cool. Though, I have found at places like Clarins, Boots and whatever Ladies makeup places have a lot of young cute women. Plus it's their job to be friendly, so talk to then ask advice about whatever. They tend to be a lot more mature.

quote:Originally posted by inspiron42000:

you say you want a real relationship but real relationships are built from honosty and being able to trust your partner. so lying about your age is the wrong approach.

and stop thinking you are mature, if you really were mature you wouldn't have to lie about your age or who you are. bitch.

You're missing my intentions. I'm not asking for a wife here. I'm simply seeking that group of girls who doesn't have a fucking giggle fit when I tell one of them they're hot.

Oh I get it. You're too fucking retarded to actually go to college. Fucking dyke.

Hate to break it to ya, but no matter how mature a woman is, if in a group and someone says theyre hot, tit wil result in some form of smiling/giggling

quote:Originally posted by MexWanker:

Oh I get it. You're too fucking retarded to actually go to college. Fucking dyke.

That was unnessasary. She's 17, why would she be in college already?

Not all 16-17 year old girls are immature, but yes, you are right for the most part. Either one of two things, you postpone dating until you get older, or you hang out where the older women are. Don't go up to a girl and tell them "you're hot." That's fucking immature, and not all girls appreciate it. If you want to charm and older one with your maturity, say something mature and sexy. Use charisma. Girls love that stuff.

I do believe that you're a dude, correct?(queer eye for the straight guy)If that's the case, same rules apply, if not more so.

[This message has been edited by albinoblacksheep (edited 12-30-2006).]

quote:Originally posted by mongolia_d:

Hate to break it to ya, but no matter how mature a woman is, if in a group and someone says theyre hot, tit wil result in some form of smiling/giggling

It's true.

Jx