So me and my girl have been going out for 3 months now, and last week I spent the evening at her house and she gave me a handjob while I fingered her. That happened 3 times over the course of the night.

However, yesterday when I went to go down into her pants (with my hand) she stopped me and said, "Don't." Later I started kinda moving in a way that she would normally respond to by grabbing my dick through my jeans, but nothing happened.

I just don't get it. Why would she go that far 3 times in one evening yet not want to go even close to it a week later?

EDIT: we are both 15.

[This message has been edited by pepper23 (edited 12-30-2006).]

Girlfriend brought up a valid point: Is she bleeding out of her uterus (You know, her monthly visitor. Her endometrium shedding?)? Because that tends to do it...

But what about her not feeling me?

Maybe she didn't want me to get the idea that since she was feeling me then it would be ok for me to feel her?

Girlfriend says: Now you're getting it. I've been too busy being... Occupied... She says you're getting it though. Maybe she just doesn't want her to 'owe' you one, like I feel towards my ladyfriend? *Shrugs* Or maybe she's too lazy to try not to laugh at your tiny wang?

i vote period.

if she still is like this in a week, have a chat with her about what is going on.

i know you're somewhat young, but you need to get used to talking about these things with your girfriend, so just ask her why this occured, if she beats around the bush then she may be on her period bcuz women are very delicate about this issue

quote:Originally posted by oral fixation:

i vote period.

if she still is like this in a week, have a chat with her about what is going on.

+1 same experince...dumped the girl becuase she "was busy" for a month after that...suddenly the period turns into a month long thing with another guy

Period.

quote:Originally posted by ram_from_meche:

i know you're somewhat young, but you need to get used to talking about these things with your girfriend, so just ask her why this occured, if she beats around the bush then she may be on her period bcuz women are very delicate about this issue

As badly spelt as this is, it's the best fucking advice in this thread.

she's not turned on? she wants to slow things down due to catholic guilt? you're too rough? you need to cut your fingernails?

quote:Originally posted by ram_from_meche:

i know you're somewhat young, but you need to get used to talking about these things with your girfriend, so just ask her why this occured, if she beats around the bush then she may be on her period bcuz women are very delicate about this issue

I was planning on asking her about it next time I saw her in person.

there are many possible solutions to this.

she was on her period.

she wasn't in the mood to go that far.

she wasn't wet enough yet to go that far.

either her or your parents were in the next room and she didn't to get caught or thought she'd make too much noise.

fingering is new to her and she's not ready to make it a regular event everytime you two mess around.

you left her very sore the last time and she was not looking forward to that feeling again.

you were bad at it.

personally, i wouldn't ask outright just yet, especially not just out of the blue as regular conversation. give it a few days, next time you're together and you're sure she's wet, try it and if she denies you there, then that is where you simply say "why?"

I was planning on trying it again this friday, taking things a little slower and then if she still said no then I'd hafta ask why.

Not that it bothers me if we don't, I just would like to know what her reasons are.