Ive been seeing/dating this girl for a few weeks.

Last night i just done a 12hour shift at work really needed sleep but went over and seen her.

So we're sitting there and talking about stuff and it went serious so we talked.

Later on we walked to the town and she was embarassed to ask me something but she asked. She asked if i would like be with her for the new year.

And i said " Yeah sure " and we kissed etc.

So earlier on she phones we talk as ye do.

After that she messages me saying shes confused at if we are going out or not.

So she asked me to be with her for the new year... i said yes.

Should i like pretty much just Ask her out to clear things up ?

Cheers

Yes. Ask her out officially, plain and simple.

Have a good day.

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you know she wants you if she has already asked if you were officially together..

let her set in suspense.

I've always felt that asking a woman out "officially" is like being five years old and asking a girl in class "Do you wanna be my girlfriend?"

Just tell her nice and simple "We're seeing each other right? And I'm not seeing anybody other than you right? I'm spending new year's with you right? Then baby we're a couple as far as I'm concerned!"

Easy.