My friend is currently going out with this amazingly hot girl. We used to be friends, but I'm not really fond on how she's treating him. He went out to Arizona to see his dad, and she went to Dallas. Her (ex, she says ex I think she's lying)lives in Dallas, and she said she wasn't going to see him,but did. And didn't tell him. When he called her, she was with said ex, and he was sucking her finger, which turns her on. Then she brings him back to Austin, still doesn't tell my friend and then gets stoned. He doesn't like his girlfriend stoned without him, cause, yeah. Then she told me that she couldn't hang with us for New year's cause her parent's anniversary, and her granpa's funeral. She told my friend she got in trouble, and couldn't see him.

What does it mean? I think the bitch is cheating, and my friend's a fellow Totsean, and he trusts your judgement. So what do you all think?

the bitch is a whore.

needs to be dumped.

She is playing games.

Its plain and simple

I dunno if it's cheating but it's certainly grounds for dumping her.

quote:Originally posted by Zonko:

I dunno if it's cheating but it's certainly grounds for dumping her.

It is a slip up. Both parties should talk about it and figure out what's going on.

Communication is key.

When people lack communication in a relationship, something is bound not to work, such as this.

It's covering up shit that should said.

quote:Originally posted by Zonko:

I dunno if it's cheating but it's certainly grounds for dumping her.

ABS, i have two questions for you

1:are you affiliated with the website in any way?

2:are you bi/gay?

i agree with zonko, both parties should talk about it, but one can't just go jumping to conclusions

You, you can't jump to conclusions, but it really does sound like she doesn't respect him all that much, or at the very least herself.

Dump the whore...But give her some pain first.

Try to get some thrush yeast on a cotton swab and wipe it around her sensitive region...That'll show her...And him!

quote:Originally posted by Pseud0nym:

ABS, i have two questions for you

1:are you affiliated with the website in any way?

2:are you bi/gay?

i agree with zonko, both parties should talk about it, but one can't just go jumping to conclusions

I am gay, and am female. And yes.

quote:Originally posted by Grab:

It is a slip up. Both parties should talk about it and figure out what's going on.

Communication is key.

When people lack communication in a relationship, something is bound not to work, such as this.

It's covering up shit that should said.

It's impossible to talk to her, which is the biggest problem. She won't answer his phone calls, but when anyone else calls, she answers. She won't respond to his emails, and she never calls him back when he leaves messages. And he's away. So there isn't really anything he can do.

Still need more advice on this topic.

That bitch needs serious dumpage.

If she is gunna whore herself out behind your friends back, hes a lot, lot better off without her.

problem=sorted

quote:Originally posted by SSY:

That bitch needs serious dumpage.

If she is gunna whore herself out behind your friends back, hes a lot, lot better off without her.

problem=sorted

Thank you sir/ma'am. That's what I've been saying. But my friend will not dump her without proof that she is cheating... I call those things proof, but he's kind of a dumbass, so the lying to him: is that enough basis to dump the bitch?

if you have to ask if its cheating....then its cheating

i fully agree with the poster above me

He mustn't forget that cheating isn't the only grounds for 'dumping'.

supprise buttsecks her and then dump that bitch.

I support giving her thrush.

Perhaps spell out to him exactly what she has done, I know when one is a loved up haze they often only listen to what they want to hear.

Sit down with him, go through each thing, point by point, and explain why its bad ( "how would she feel if girls sucked your fingers?" )

Hopefully, after this, he may get the message.

Note, you may drive him the other way so he just buries his head in the sand about her, but its worth the risk, as thats pretty much what hes doing now.

quote:Originally posted by SSY:

Perhaps spell out to him exactly what she has done, I know when one is a loved up haze they often only listen to what they want to hear.

Sit down with him, go through each thing, point by point, and explain why its bad ( "how would she feel if girls sucked your fingers?" )

Hopefully, after this, he may get the message.

Note, you may drive him the other way so he just buries his head in the sand about her, but its worth the risk, as thats pretty much what hes doing now.

This is the best advice I have gotten so far. I did it, and I think he got the message. Thanks buddy.

quote:Originally posted by alshotsexysilly16:

the bitch is a whore.

needs to be dumped.

She is playing games.

Its plain and simple

QFT

Seconded.

I fucking HATE cheaters. Anyone who could hurt someone that deeply should be shot.

Have your friend whip the Scrabble box at her face and tell her to find someone else to play games with.

quote:Originally posted by 33% God:

Have your friend whip the Scrabble box at her face and tell her to find someone else to play games with.

Thank you. That's absolutely fucking true. I wish he would listen to that.

UPDATE: we're going to see this girl today, and he has no clue what he's going to do. I really think he's going to stay with her. I'm really kind of upset since I don't like to see my friends used like this. I guess he just doesn't care...