Last night me and my girlfriend were having anal. And everything was fine for the first 15 or so minutes(we used lube) but she said she was cumming and thought she did. But then she said she had a sharp pain in her back and we think her back had a muscle spasm. It really hurt her, I think we hit a nerve or somthing, im not sure. I dont know if I went too deep or what. Does anyone have any suggestions as to avoid this agian next time if we do have anal sex agian?

shitloads of foreplay, and shitloads of lube. You can buy creams and such at a lot of stores that calms hur bu'hole also.. might help her to losen up before the act.

Did you guys try it before btw?

yeah we tried it before, and we used plenty of KY gelly this time. She thinks it might have been a freak muscle spasm but im still scared. I thought I was going to have to take her to the hospital and that would be a bitch to explain.

quote:Originally posted by Obiwanshinobi000:

yeah we tried it before, and we used plenty of KY gelly this time. She thinks it might have been a freak muscle spasm but im still scared. I thought I was going to have to take her to the hospital and that would be a bitch to explain.

Maybe have her do some stretching exercises before? Give her a full body massage... etc etc. That way her ENTIRE BODY is loose as can be.

Just because her ass is dripping with lube doesn't mean her body is relaxed!

quote:Originally posted by RogueWarheart:

Just because her ass is dripping with lube doesn't mean her body is relaxed!

Just felt the need to point out that a full body massage won't loosen her sphincter, which is a stand alone muscle...

If it's realy full body then you would rub her brown eye too.

quote:Originally posted by NewRage:

Just felt the need to point out that a full body massage won't loosen her sphincter, which is a stand alone muscle...

if her whole body and her mind are relaxed, so will her ass, moron.

next time to warm up that ass stick a few fingers in em, and then put it in her mouth!!!!