Hey guys, ok... I have a question. Well, perhaps I should set up the scenario first. My girlfriend and I were downstairs, and no one was home. So, we decided to try and have sex. But, I couldn't get it up to full mast. It only went up to about... half mast. I'm just wondering about a way that I could change that. 'Cause, I have a naked girl sitting on my lap, completly ready, but, I wasn't. What am I doing wrong?

not to offend, but are you gay? i had this problem once and it was only bcuz i had a cold, besides that i've been with some really ugly girls and had no problems even then getting erect

youre probably gay

That's happened to me before too. It sucks because the girl starts to think that they aren't sexy enough or something and they get all offended. One time it even went limp right in the middle of me fucking her. I'll be waiting to see what people say about this.

its probably because

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quote:Originally posted by Macdaddy4738:

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Dumbest post I've seen all day.

So how'd you do it, both just took off your clothes and you failed to get excited? Or did you just fail to get erection even with foreplay and anticipation and whatnot being there? Trying to see if you were really aroused but it didn't get up or whether she was just that boring. Yeah, her being naked isn't always enough

maybe your not gay, but you may need more practice, how old are you? by practice i mean practice getting her hot, i am ready after i get her ready, there is nothing else that gets me hotter than to hear her moan during foreplay

We were making out before then, and then, she took off her pants and panties, and then started grinding on me. I slid down my pants and started to finger her. Then, I tried to stick it in... but, to no avail. Well, sorta. I mean, it did go in... just like, I don't know... didn't work. And then we switched from missionary to have her on top. And I just could stay up. AND NO IM NOT GAY. I told her that I was really nervous, and that she was the most beautifal girl I've seen. I'd like only serious answers, 'cause this is bothering me... kinda badly.

EDIT: I'm 17, and I'm really good with my fingers (So says her... and previous girls) So, I dunno...

[This message has been edited by allthegoodnamesweretaken (edited 12-28-2006).]

It's a very open ended question - it depends on all sorts of different things.

I would guess you let the pressure get to you - you felt you had to perform then and there because you were alone. I'd hazzard a guess you boned up at some later stage when you couldn't have sex.

It's just your personality - stop worrying about getting it up, and enjoy the girl sitting on your lap! If you shift your worries to pleasuring her (with your hands, tongue, etc...), and try your hardest to make her cum before sex, you'll find:

1/ You'll find your cock is going to feel beiiger and harder than normal,

2/ You'll be able to last longer when you do fuck,

3/ She'll want more sex, more often,

4/ Once she's cum, she'll cum more freely while you fuck her.

In short, learn your cock is one part of the equation, and don't worry about it.... If she hasn't cum before you actually fuck at least once, she'll move on pretty soon and find a guy that'll do her right....

Cheers,

Chump

It's just one of those things...

Might it be because I have a mild cold??? I'm apparently really good at foreplay, 'cause I can her off like that with no problem. It's just, me who's having the problem.

quote:Originally posted by allthegoodnamesweretaken:

I was really nervous

theres your answer. this is very common. you just have to get yourself to relax and not think about it so much. i know easier said than done, but its the only way youre going to be able to get some so youre going to have to overcome this nervousness. give yourself a good pep talk before you see her next time, psych yourself up and make yourself believe you dont even fuckin care. when the kissing and things start keep your mind off of your dick as much as you can. focus on what youre actually doing, the making out/touching, and dont rush things. just relax, enjoy yourself, and just let it happen, dont force it.

quote:Originally posted by plehem12:

theres your answer. this is very common. you just have to get yourself to relax and not think about it so much. i know easier said than done, but its the only way youre going to be able to get some so youre going to have to overcome this nervousness. give yourself a good pep talk before you see her next time, psych yourself up and make yourself believe you dont even fuckin care. when the kissing and things start keep your mind off of your dick as much as you can. focus on what youre actually doing, the making out/touching, and dont rush things. just relax, enjoy yourself, and just let it happen, dont force it.

Ok, thanks man... I see her tomorrow... and hopefully.... well, yea. I'll make sure to tell everyone how it goes. : P G'night all. And thanks for the actually useful advice.

Everyone in this thread is a retard.

THIS is the reason:

You may have been tired, sick or becoming sick, nervous, experiencing stress lately, or any number of psychological factors. Sometimes it happens, don't read too much into it.

If it starts happening a lot, it may be a physical problem with your penis or possibly you are not attracted to that particular girl.

quote:Originally posted by pyroman5000:

Everyone in this thread is a retard.

THIS is the reason:

You may have been tired, sick or becoming sick, nervous, experiencing stress lately, or any number of psychological factors. Sometimes it happens, don't read too much into it.

If it starts happening a lot, it may be a physical problem with your penis or possibly you are not attracted to that particular girl.

Wow, that sounds nothing like the people in this thread who weren't assholes said