Well, theres this girl that I used to see. We had an argument and we are no longer friends. Thing is, we were never going out, we were best friends. I don't think we can ever see each other again though(I'll explain if you guys want to hear).

But yeah, right now I miss her so much. And I can't forget about her. How do I stop missing her?



--I can add more detail if someone asks.

Time. youre gonna have to feel like shit for a while. time will heal.

Get a laser sight and a scope.

quote:Originally posted by Mr.Happy:

Get a laser sight and a scope.I was about to tersely respond to the OP with "suicide", but your response is far better.

Time, its the only thing that can do

Its been a bit more than a month since I last saw her. But a week ago since I talked to her on MSN. And I still miss her.

Should I try to get rid of all contact with her or something?

gay

Find another girl. Its eating you up. Get a new girl move on.

MAN HERE IS WHAT I DID TO GET OVER A HOE. FIRST, YES, CUT OFF ALL CONTACT. THIS IS A MUST! SECOND, CHILL WITH OTHER FRIENDS. GO TO THE MALL WITH THEM OR SOMETHING. EVERY DAY. THIRD, MAYBE WRITING SHIT DOWN IN A BOOK WILL HELP YOU. ALL 3 OF THESE THINGS HELPED ME. CAPS FOR EMPHASIS

I'm actually going to respond seriously now, because I know how painful it can be to miss someone. I lost my best friend, although that happened slowly rather than for one big reason, and it's one of the most painful things I've ever been through. It still hurts today, if I think about it, it was on a par with finding out that the girl I loved didn't love me any more.

Post what it was that means you can't see each other any more, if you can. Because unless she doesn't actually like you as a friend anymore, pretty much anything can be worked through. If she wants the same relationship you had, then it can be fixed. And if not... well, it might never stop hurting. You'll find a way to deal with it; you just won't let it get on top of you, unless you want to think about it. Something like this will always be with you, but it's the immediacy that makes it hurt so much. Just give it time, there's not anything else you can do. And don't willingly try to cut off contact with her, the effort will make it a lot more painful than it is. Just let things progress naturally.

Other things might take your mind off it, temporarily, but it's more likely you won't be in the mood for trivial-seeming things. Think about it if you have to, and you'll come to terms with it eventually.

yeah, get another girl. trust me. My girl moved to south africa for 3 months, it's been 2, but i just kind of just started flirting to hell with every girl, not cheating at all, just being flirty with people, and quit missing her so much, but then she told me she didn't want to be with anyone when she got back so yeah, that sucks. but whatever. i'm bummed but can't bitch.

Drink.

quote:Originally posted by Mr.Happy:

I'm actually going to respond seriously now, because I know how painful it can be to miss someone. I lost my best friend, although that happened slowly rather than for one big reason, and it's one of the most painful things I've ever been through. It still hurts today, if I think about it, it was on a par with finding out that the girl I loved didn't love me any more.

Post what it was that means you can't see each other any more, if you can. Because unless she doesn't actually like you as a friend anymore, pretty much anything can be worked through. If she wants the same relationship you had, then it can be fixed. And if not... well, it might never stop hurting. You'll find a way to deal with it; you just won't let it get on top of you, unless you want to think about it. Something like this will always be with you, but it's the immediacy that makes it hurt so much. Just give it time, there's not anything else you can do. And don't willingly try to cut off contact with her, the effort will make it a lot more painful than it is. Just let things progress naturally.

Other things might take your mind off it, temporarily, but it's more likely you won't be in the mood for trivial-seeming things. Think about it if you have to, and you'll come to terms with it eventually.

I can tell you from experience that willingly cutting of contact infact IS the best thing. Girls who i would like, i would get over alot more by blocking and deleting them on msn, which is willing cutting of contact. It heals alot quicker if you don't keep picking at the wound.

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quote:Originally posted by Pilsu:

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Nice tits.

i was in the exact same situation and i feel for you...

kinda made me sad reading this

anyway...as time passes by you'll forget and maybe you can try talking/getting back w/ her

fuckin. as much as you can do.

there's a long answer to your question, but it's pretty useless really. what you need is pussy my friend.

i had the exact same situation. as alot of people do

ok so how i handled...i did it all wrong. i kept trying to revive something that was dead. my advice son. Try once...if it doesn't work..let it go..move on. i stayed around for 7months trying to make it better..and guess where i got? no where. just made me feel worse..dont let it happen to you man

Time. Seriously that's all that really works.

ok. this might help you. if i tell you my story

4 years ago i met this one chick at a cinema. Don't ask me why i talked to her that night. i will never ever know. But we got very close pretty quick. We did everything together, she taught me alot of stuff and was always there for me when i was growing up. so anyway we spent 3 years together. we talked everyday about anything. we never actually ran out of things to talk about.

one day i asked her out to some like concert thing. she had work and said she would meet me there later. you can probably guess what comes next. she didn't show up. i waited for 6 hours in the cold freezing rain, while she stood me up and went and got drunk.

For the next 7 months i went through some pretty painful days/nights. By about 3months suicide was on my mind, (but i was too pussy to do it) but i would of liked to back then. yeah the clouds looked grey, i thought this shit would never end. But just recently i met this new chick who has just swept me away, im getting the same feelings i got with that other chick, but something feels so right about this one.

yeah im scared it could happen man, but I'm never going to know if i don't try =]

and for one word of advice "What doesn't kill you, will only make you stronger"

hope it helps. later