Most of the girls I have dated. A modest amount, the main thoughts with them were about sex etc, when I wasn't with them. I just thought about being sexual with them, nothing like missing them or wanting to be with them.

So now, I am dating a girl who I am having huge feelings for. When I am not with her, all I think about is her and not in a sexual way whatsoever. Now when we finally get together, there is a bunch of cuddling and just the usual lovey dovey stuff. But it always seems to turn sexual. Like neither of us can control it.

Basically to sum it up for those who are too lazy to read that:

When I am not with her, I think about being with her in a romantic non sexual way.

But when I am with her, it always turns sexual.

What the hell is this?

quote:Originally posted by Psychonautical:

What the hell is this?

It's called being human. Love it, because I'm sure she does. Not much can make a girl happy the same way as making her toes curl backwards and go numb.

quote:Originally posted by Gus:

It's called being human. Love it, because I'm sure she does. Not much can make a girl happy the same way as making her toes curl backwards and go numb.

What's with toes tonight...

quote:Originally posted by Psychonautical:

What's with toes tonight...

Just something an ex of mine used to do. Something that always made me smile... Hehe...

Really now, man, this is just how it goes. Live it up, and wait for it to die down. Then you can be really lovey-dovey and shit.

quote:Originally posted by Psychonautical:

Most of the girls I have dated. A modest amount, the main thoughts with them were about sex etc, when I wasn't with them. I just thought about being sexual with them, nothing like missing them or wanting to be with them.

So now, I am dating a girl who I am having huge feelings for. When I am not with her, all I think about is her and not in a sexual way whatsoever. Now when we finally get together, there is a bunch of cuddling and just the usual lovey dovey stuff. But it always seems to turn sexual. Like neither of us can control it.

Basically to sum it up for those who are too lazy to read that:

When I am not with her, I think about being with her in a romantic non sexual way.

But when I am with her, it always turns sexual.

What the hell is this?



SOUNDS A LOT LIKE MY PAST RELATIONSHIP. WE TRULY FELT FOR EACHOTHER BUT WE WERE 2 BIG HORNDOGS. WHEN I WASNT WITH HER I THOUGHT OF HOW NICE IT WAS TO HOLD HER TIGHT AND GO OUT WITH HER AND WHEN I WAS WITH HER ALL I WANTED WAS SOME ASS. ITS NORMAL. AS LONG AS YOU MAINTAIN FEELINGS AND IT JUST DOESNT BECOME A FUCK PARTNER.

quote:Originally posted by 33392nfke:



SOUNDS A LOT LIKE MY PAST RELATIONSHIP. WE TRULY FELT FOR EACHOTHER BUT WE WERE 2 BIG HORNDOGS. WHEN I WASNT WITH HER I THOUGHT OF HOW NICE IT WAS TO HOLD HER TIGHT AND GO OUT WITH HER AND WHEN I WAS WITH HER ALL I WANTED WAS SOME ASS. ITS NORMAL. AS LONG AS YOU MAINTAIN FEELINGS AND IT JUST DOESNT BECOME A FUCK PARTNER.

Jesus fucking Christ. You just raped my eyes and my psyche.

quote:Originally posted by Psychonautical:

Jesus fucking Christ. You just raped my eyes and my psyche.

i raped my eyes when i was typing that, too. unbelievable. i was too damn lazy to hit the caps key even as i was typing. lazy. but wtf, you asked what the hell it was and i gave my insight

Aren't you supposed to want to have sex with your girlfriend? Am I missing something here?

quote:Originally posted by Gus:

Just something an ex of mine used to do. Something that always made me smile... Hehe...

Dude my ex used to that! How cute is it? "I can't feel my toes!". And the shudders. And the toe cramps. All a sign of a good job

quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:

Aren't you supposed to want to have sex with your girlfriend? Am I missing something here? I thought that it was normal. When you're in a good relationship you know it, because you aren't just thinking about sex when you're not with her, but mostly just missing her. Then when you're with her anything goes.

The only difference between a close friendship and a relationship is the sex. Wanting to have sex with your girlfriend doesn't mean you care for and respect her any less.

quote:Originally posted by Silverfuck:

The only difference between a close friendship and a relationship is the sex. Wanting to have sex with your girlfriend doesn't mean you care for and respect her any less.

Huh...

well put.

-F☺rd

[This message has been edited by Ford Prefect (edited 12-26-2006).]