Ok, so tonight me and my g.f decided to have sex, it didnt go as planned lol. She's a virgin, who only masturbated by rubbing the clitoris, as opposed to fingering etc. So this made her unbelieveably tight "down there". After some gentle petting and stuff we decided the time was right, so I went to penis in lol. Had a problem tho :O couldn't get it in! I managed to get one finger in all the way, right up, but the dick was really a no-go. She was in a lotta pain when I put the finger in as well. Shes next coming up New Year's eve, and I really don't want a repeat experience...Any ideas guys (and gals) :S as to how we can make her at her loosest lol

*and what's the best position, if there is one, to allow me best access to her vagina.



Thanks.



P.S: I'm a pretty much normal guy down there: 6 1/2 inches, slightly wider than normal.

[This message has been edited by jonathanp2k3 (edited 12-25-2006).]

If she's this tight, well then you MUST wait. Finger her, buy her a dildo and let her work from there. Really, unless you shove the thing in there, it isn't going to work.

Yeah now that we're "having sex", she is letting me finger her. How much longer will it take, before she is open enough to have penetrative. I tried just forcing it in man, but it just rubbed off and either went up or down, but not in

[This message has been edited by jonathanp2k3 (edited 12-25-2006).]

quote:Originally posted by jonathanp2k3:

Yeah now that we're "having sex", she is letting me finger her. How much longer will it take, before she is open enough to have penetrative. I tried just forcing it in man, but it just rubbed off and either went up or down, but not in



I really don't know, I've never had straight sex. But pussies are strechy, so really, buy her a dildo, and fiddle with that. make sure it isn't bigger than you, or longer than you

also, are you a virgin as well, or just her?

Yeah I'm, or was, a virgin as well. Knew exactly what to do and where to put it though. It was simply too tight for me to get my dick in, lol.