Even if they didn't know?

Even if it was with the most beautiful woman/man in the history of the world?

Even only once?

For any amount of money?

I wouldn't. I would feel so dishonest for the rest of my life. To be honest, my girl is pretty hot as it is, so I wouldn't trade my integrity and soul for sex with someone slightly more hot.

I wouldn't even do it once, nor for any amount of money.

No

I wouldn't. I mean, I might, for the right amount of money, because my girlfriend would understand, I think, that we'd be set for life after the horrible fact.

I would say with 99% conviction I'd never do it.

But a lot of guys would without thinking twice. I mean, come on, let's say Gisele Bundchen throws herself at you while you're at a club, what would you do? Even I don't know if I could refuse that.

i wouldn't be able to handle the guilt, period. to know that i had hurt somebody for no good reason...i wouldn't be able to live with myself. even if it was for money, it would always come up. basically you're saying then that you value money more than your partner.

i don't know, i would just feel way too awful.

For anything over 10k.

I'm a greedy bastard.

Hell no. Cheating on somebody is the lowest thing I can think of. I love my girlfriend to bits and could never bring myself to do it.

On my current partner, no. I cheated once, when I was 15, in a relationship that wasn't really a relationship and the guy was creepy, psycho and obsessive. Not sure if I could have gotten rid of him any other way. I still felt guilty though. And I'd never do it again. I'm all about meaningful relationships now.

i have cheated on my boyfriend on 3 ocassions with the same guy. after the first 2 times i wanted it again. but after the 3rd it just didn't feel right. after 6 months of on and off with this guy (he is also in a relationship) we both just realized we didn't want it anymore. we didn't even enjoy the last time.



when i saw my boyfriend after that things jsut felt right again...all the issues we seemed to have just melted away. i appreciated him like i hadn't for a long long time. i don't consider what i did justified or a cureall, but it allowed me to see things from a different perspective.

i am not trying to make excuses, but i had only ever been with my boyfriend (he was even my first kiss), i guess it was just starting to get to me. i wanted to do something and i knew there was no way he could find out. i am completely in the clear and could do it over and over if i wanted to, but i realize now that i have all i need. and no matter how much guilt i feel, i would not take it back. it really has changed my view on things and i am happy with where i am now because of it.

No.

I'd be respectful enough to break it off, first.

I respect my left hand far too much to do that to "her".

quote:Originally posted by Gus:

I respect my left hand far too much to do that to "her".

Just don't let your left hand know what your right hand is doing. :P

quote:Originally posted by oc6:

Just don't let your left hand know what your right hand is doing. :P

Ah, but the wonderful thing about this triangle is that the right hand does all the work while the left hand gets all the sex!

I'm currently unattacted. If I did have a girlfriend though, no, absolutely not. And if I had I would be compelled by my sense of honor to immediately tell her then hand her a pistol.

EDIT: BTW, that's a two way street. Cheating = death.

[This message has been edited by Cloaked Dagger (edited 12-24-2006).]

I'm unnattched as well, but I loved my ex more than anything in the world, and I still do, and nothing could ever make me cheat. Especially since she was so open about sex, it would be almost impossible to cheat on her.

If I could ask her what she thought of it before doin it yea.

quote:Originally posted by Demoiselle:

...in a relationship that wasn't really a relationship and the guy was creepy, psycho and obsessive...

It's girls like you that make guys like him.

No

*edit*

Yeah, I would. I think what was left of me as a person was destroyed. Now all I want to do is destroy a girl.

[This message has been edited by arquin (edited 12-25-2006).]

Yes I would.

I am kinda a bad person in that regard... or maybe I just love too many too much.

quote:Originally posted by Ojise:

Yes I would.

I am kinda a bad person in that regard... or maybe I just love too many too much.

Bitch , i'm going to tell your girlfriend

But i woudl probably cheat on you too, so i guess i'd be a hypocrite to get mad at you, everyone needs cock sometimes. It would all work out maybe, like that bad soap opera of r kellys.

I still love you, but i'll be sure to be more paranoid, especially when you're hanging out with your ex late at night.....

quote:Originally posted by Gus:

I respect my left hand far too much to do that to "her".

STFU & GTFO

quote:Originally posted by phmeworp:

STFU & GTFO

I get the feeling that you don't like that guy

quote:Originally posted by oral fixation:

i have cheated on my boyfriend on 3 ocassions with the same guy. after the first 2 times i wanted it again. but after the 3rd it just didn't feel right. after 6 months of on and off with this guy (he is also in a relationship) we both just realized we didn't want it anymore. we didn't even enjoy the last time.



when i saw my boyfriend after that things jsut felt right again...all the issues we seemed to have just melted away. i appreciated him like i hadn't for a long long time. i don't consider what i did justified or a cureall, but it allowed me to see things from a different perspective.

i am not trying to make excuses, but i had only ever been with my boyfriend (he was even my first kiss), i guess it was just starting to get to me. i wanted to do something and i knew there was no way he could find out. i am completely in the clear and could do it over and over if i wanted to, but i realize now that i have all i need. and no matter how much guilt i feel, i would not take it back. it really has changed my view on things and i am happy with where i am now because of it.

So did you tell your current BF you cheated or not? If he doesn't know and he finds out he could dump you in a second. I know I would .

I would only if I seriously honestly felt that I liked the other girl more than my girlfriend. And even then, I wouldn't cheat, I'd just try to break it off with the current girl. But if it came to it then yes I probably would.

I have and will agian, no money involved. I simply don't care any more.

I'd like to say I wouldn't, but you can never be sure.

quote:Originally posted by phmeworp:

STFU & GTFO

So you're just spamming now, eh? I mean, seriously, if you had a REASON to post this, hell, I might actually care.

Well, keep it up, and you'll be banned. Have a nice day.

I wouldn't cheat under any circumstances that I can see. If it's a "fuck me or she dies" thing, then I probably would. Otherwise, it's just not right.

If she cheat I will crush her.

had this question been asked to me 6 months ago my answer might have been no, but i'm so fucking cynical and shit and i've gone through too much and i could definitely see myself cheating.

Somebody like Gwen Stefani or Selma Blair spread out on a nice big bed at a Holiday Inn Express. Are you fucking kidding. I'd have a spermfest in their vagina.

quote:Originally posted by Tesla:

So did you tell your current BF you cheated or not? If he doesn't know and he finds out he could dump you in a second. I know I would .



no i didn't tell him. he will most likely never find out, i figure all that will do is relieve my guilt and leave us all unhappy. plus, i don't want the other guy getting in trouble with his woman. it would crush him, but he wouldn't break up with me. i keep wondering if i will ever tell him, but all i picture is him just feeling sad and i don't want to do that to him. and granted, i know i shouldn't have cheated as that is the base core of what would 'do that to him', but i'm never going to do it again...so :/...



idk...

No, never.

quote:Originally posted by oral fixation:



no i didn't tell him. he will most likely never find out, i figure all that will do is relieve my guilt and leave us all unhappy. plus, i don't want the other guy getting in trouble with his woman. it would crush him, but he wouldn't break up with me. i keep wondering if i will ever tell him, but all i picture is him just feeling sad and i don't want to do that to him. and granted, i know i shouldn't have cheated as that is the base core of what would 'do that to him', but i'm never going to do it again...so :/...



idk...

The same EXACT thing happened to me. All of it, down to the very last detail. How crazy.

And I feel just the same way--I have a totally new perspective. It made me realize how much I love him and also, I don't have any desire for anyone else anymore. Sure, the guilt is terrible, but I wouldn't take it back.

yes

Depend on who and their attitude toward to me.

Only if she was a bitch that I had absolutely no respect for.

on princaple i would say no, and thus far in practive i would have to say no... but i imagine that it is possible that i may be confronted with this eventually and i admit that it is a possibility, and since i have not expierianced this it is hard to say.

i would like to think that i would break it off first, but unless you're pushing 50 without having cheated on anyone, with several chances it is hard to say you would never cheat

Yes, but I'm not dumb enough to admit it.

quote:Originally posted by azalie:

Yes, but I'm not dumb enough to admit it.

Lol...

Everyone has their price.

quote:Originally posted by CatharticWeek:



Everyone has their price.

Not everyone. It would take the threat of serious physical pain (either towards myself or my partner) for me to do that. There is truly no money number that anyone could name.

So I hear most people saying that they are either so cynical that they don't care anymore, or they love their partner too much.

But what do you think of my situation, where she said she would if fact cheat on me for a certain amount of money? It would be dirty, ill gotten money, and she would never have me again.

quote:Originally posted by oral fixation:



no i didn't tell him. he will most likely never find out, i figure all that will do is relieve my guilt and leave us all unhappy. plus, i don't want the other guy getting in trouble with his woman. it would crush him, but he wouldn't break up with me. i keep wondering if i will ever tell him, but all i picture is him just feeling sad and i don't want to do that to him. and granted, i know i shouldn't have cheated as that is the base core of what would 'do that to him', but i'm never going to do it again...so :/...



idk...

yes but still hes your boyfriend I know if my girlfriend cheated on me I would want her to tell me. WHO CARES IF YOU GET IN TROUBLE! YOUR SUPPOSED TO GET IN TROUBLE WHEN YOU CHEAT ON SOMEONE! Your bf if you told him would probably dump you if he were to find our anyway. Also its better for him to find out by himself then for another person to tell him

quote:Originally posted by Toraton:

I wouldn't. I mean, I might, for the right amount of money, because my girlfriend would understand, I think, that we'd be set for life after the horrible fact.

You are such a bastard, how could i possibly be able to do that too my girlfriend... i mean id talk to her but the fact itself would create such a gap between us!

quote:Originally posted by Tesla:

yes but still hes your boyfriend I know if my girlfriend cheated on me I would want her to tell me. WHO CARES IF YOU GET IN TROUBLE! YOUR SUPPOSED TO GET IN TROUBLE WHEN YOU CHEAT ON SOMEONE! Your bf if you told him would probably dump you if he were to find our anyway. Also its better for him to find out by himself then for another person to tell him



the thing of it is there is no one else to tell him. it really is me, the other guy, and a bunch of people on totse who has no idea who any of us are (which, btw, my boyfriend does not go on totse nor know my user name). and he has told me before he wouldn't want to know. so, respecting his wishes?

idk, i just see no good for anyone if he finds out. and yes, if he does find out all the badness that comes out if is the fault of me and this other guy, but still. things are finally good between us, i am not going to ruin that.

*edited for clearification*

[This message has been edited by oral fixation (edited 12-25-2006).]

I think your clingy, asking your girlfriend if she would cheat on you and on top of it adding all these parameters. Lose the insecurity chump or she will leave you and you will into depression and murder/suicide.

I would never cheat because i would never date a monogamist (e.g.retard).

It'd depend on the girl, and if there was money involved. If it was with someone I loved, and wanted to spend the rest of my life with, then I clearly wouldn't do it for the world.

But at this age that I'm at right now, I'd probably do it for 50 dollars. And I'm not even poor.

Cheating is a sign of weakness and someone that doesn't understand the basic concepts of relationships. :\

I would do it for alot of money, and only if my boyfriend was okay with it. I mean obviously he wouldn't want me to cheat on him, but if we were going to get a million dollars out of it, I think he'd get over it.