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 #1 
Old 2006-12-22, 02:49
what1sth1s what1sth1s is offline
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Default Do women tend to notice shoes first?

I heard its the most important thing in your outfit, as women tend to notice what's on a man's feet first.

is this true?
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Old 2006-12-22, 02:52
Gus Gus is offline
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Default Re: Do women tend to notice shoes first?

Who cares why?

Just always wear good ones.

Sexy combat boots always are for the win. Especially after they're polished well.
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Old 2006-12-22, 02:57
Twisted_Ferret Twisted_Ferret is offline
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Default Re: Do women tend to notice shoes first?

*looks at cheap, torn-up sandals*

Oh.
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Old 2006-12-22, 02:59
Orange_Crusader Orange_Crusader is offline
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O RLY?

*goes and cleans/polishes straight-laced K-Swiss* Nice shoes, comfortable and a few random compliments, they looks more expensive than they are.

I'd say your face/clothing/cleanliness in general is noticed first, really. Shoes eventually, but I'd doubt first, unless you've got some weird girls there. :\
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Old 2006-12-22, 03:06
giselelang3 giselelang3 is offline
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Default Re: Do women tend to notice shoes first?

i never even think to look at shoes. unless they're flip flops.

i think the first thing girls look at is height, face, athleticism, those kind of things. not really feet.
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Old 2006-12-22, 03:06
Twisted_Ferret Twisted_Ferret is offline
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quote:Originally posted by giselelang3:

i never even think to look at shoes. unless they're flip flops.

*looks at cheap, torn up flip flops*



Oh.

[This message has been edited by Twisted_Ferret (edited 12-22-2006).]
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Old 2006-12-22, 04:19
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hahaha pwned. I should work on that too though. I've been wearing my same shoes from last summer, which I skateboarded in pretty much every day. They're pretty torn up.
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Old 2006-12-22, 04:28
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Any girl that seriously considers your footwear when deciding whether or not you are attractive is entirely worthless as a human.
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Old 2006-12-22, 05:00
senorfrog senorfrog is offline
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quote:Originally posted by Hexadecimal:

Any girl that seriously considers your footwear when deciding whether or not you are attractive is entirely worthless as a human.

No, they ARE human. People judge you by the way you look, which includes your shoes, its a natural thing to do. Anyone who would discount physical appearance is the one who is "entirely worthless as a human"

That being said wear shoes that match your style and that look nice. Drop some money on your shoes, think about how much you are on your feet and how much it sucks when your feet hurt.
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Old 2006-12-22, 09:06
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quote:Originally posted by Gus:

Sexy combat boots always are for the win. Especially after they're polished well.

Snatched the words right out of my mouth. I love my combat boots, I wear them everywhere and they look damn sexy when their polished.
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Old 2006-12-22, 09:13
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What kind of mentally retarded women do you know who look at mens shoes?

Women look a WOMEN shoes. Pfft...men shoes, the female gender could care less.
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Old 2006-12-22, 09:24
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Go to any club that's big on fashion and try and get in with crappy shoes.

That being said, when women have obviously good taste in fashion, and their own sense of style, that's something they look for.

Trust me, girls notice if you dress well.
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Old 2006-12-22, 09:36
shiva shiva is offline
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quote:Originally posted by arquin:

Go to any club that's big on fashion and try and get in with crappy shoes.

That being said, when women have obviously good taste in fashion, and their own sense of style, that's something they look for.

Trust me, girls notice if you dress well.

EXACTLY.

Why would we want a guy who dresses like a slob, with no self hygiene? When a guy dresses good (nice jeans, shoes, does hair etc) it shows he cares enough about himself to look neat and presentable.. but like azalie said "Women look a WOMEN shoes. Pfft...men shoes, the female gender could care less."

We just like when you look nice and peeeeerddyyy
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Old 2006-12-22, 10:05
fat_people_suck fat_people_suck is offline
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Default Re: Do women tend to notice shoes first?

I wear crocodile boots...ladies love em
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Old 2006-12-22, 10:34
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quote:Originally posted by fat_people_suck:

I wear crocodile boots...redneck and Australian ladies love em

Fixed
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Old 2006-12-22, 11:02
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Default Re: Do women tend to notice shoes first?

A number of friends told me that the first thing they notice on a guy is their shoes.. which I thought was kinda weird lol.
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Old 2006-12-22, 16:46
Pilsu Pilsu is offline
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Only compliment I ever got about my appearance was about my shoes so they do notice them. Well, that and I look like shit, getting lucky and picking nice shoes prolly stands out

It was an odd one too, came from a gal I barely speak to who tends to avoid me all she can. Wonder what the motives were..
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Old 2006-12-22, 18:23
lauren7249 lauren7249 is offline
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Default Re: Do women tend to notice shoes first?

i will admit, i do notice shoes. they're not the first thing i notice, but when i'm trying to gauge a guy's level of sophistication, shoes do come into the picture. there are all kinds of things to notice: how fashion conscious he is, how much he cares about his appearance, what stereotype he's trying to fit into. and don't get me wrong; a guy who's overly fashion conscious or too concerned with his appearance can be bad too.

generally, the main thing to avoid are sneakers that look like your mother bought them for you, or like you have them left over from 5th grade. even if the rest of your clothes are fashion conscious, the shoes will give you away if they look too childish. also, ghettoized boots or sneakers look silly.

what i personally prefer are nice sneakers or flip flops. adidas, pumas, those are generally nice. colorful. i'm not a fan of dress shoes unless you're wearing a suit.
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Old 2006-12-22, 18:29
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^Ghettotized boots and sneakers? What the fuck does that mean?

Maybe they are trying to get the gangsta girls, and not your dumbass.
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Old 2006-12-22, 18:30
samthedrunk samthedrunk is offline
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Default Re: Do women tend to notice shoes first?

Random.

I've never heard any of my friends comment on, or check out, a guy's shoes. I suppose they pay attention to everything a little bit, so it's best not to have disgustingly bad shoes; but that kind of goes without saying...
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Old 2006-12-22, 19:01
Soda_Can_Sniper Soda_Can_Sniper is offline
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quote:Originally posted by Gus:

Sexy combat boots always are for the win. Especially after they're polished well.

Ha, all I wear is desert boots, doesn't matter where I go.
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Old 2006-12-22, 19:19
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Default Re: Do women tend to notice shoes first?

There's a certain logic to this.

If a guy was cheap, he'd only spend money on the things that would be most visible to a girl, so he might have nice jeans and shirt. But a cheap guy wouldn't waste money on expensive shoes, for exactly the same reason so many people in this thread are saying "WTF? Who looks at shoes?"

So if a guy is wearing nice shoes, it's a good indicator that he's:

1) Not cheap.

2) Not trying to trick girls into thinking he is a good dresser.

But this applies FAR more to black people than anyone else. If you're black, having expensive "kicks" is nearly a fetish.

Or so I hear. I'm Irish, if I was any whiter I'd be goddamn see-through...
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Old 2006-12-22, 19:20
MJR deus MJR deus is offline
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quote:Originally posted by giselelang3:

i never even think to look at shoes. unless they're flip flops.

i think the first thing girls look at is height, face, athleticism, those kind of things. not really feet.



*reads the word height*

*preys that she thinks less is more*

*unbuckles belt, prepares noose*

///Michael
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Old 2006-12-22, 19:35
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I look at shoes. I mean obviously I look at the noticeable things first... face, hair that sort of thing.... but the shoes do come into it somewhere.... for example I would never ever ever ever under any circumstances date a guy who was wearing flipflops anywhere other than on a beach. Flipflops are one of the most horrific inventions ever. I'd rather date someone who wears socks and sandals than have to look at some guys pug ugly feet in flipflops
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Old 2006-12-22, 20:34
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quote:Originally posted by fullcircle:

There's a certain logic to this.

If a guy was cheap, he'd only spend money on the things that would be most visible to a girl, so he might have nice jeans and shirt. But a cheap guy wouldn't waste money on expensive shoes, for exactly the same reason so many people in this thread are saying "WTF? Who looks at shoes?"

So if a guy is wearing nice shoes, it's a good indicator that he's:

1) Not cheap.

2) Not trying to trick girls into thinking he is a good dresser.

But this applies FAR more to black people than anyone else. If you're black, having expensive "kicks" is nearly a fetish.

Or so I hear. I'm Irish, if I was any whiter I'd be goddamn see-through...

Yea, because no one puts together a wardrobe to appear like anything else...

Just because he has nice shoes, in no way indicates if he is cheap or not. For fucks sake, millionaires with thousand dollar suits and shoes are cheap.
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Old 2006-12-22, 20:43
Isobutane Isobutane is offline
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Default Re: Do women tend to notice shoes first?

Shoes seem to show what demographic they "belong" too, and are a fairly good representation of their general fashion sense.

I also like to draw lots of other useless conclusions from shoes=]

It is just nice enough for your shoes to match the rest of your outfit/you and are appropriately clean/dirty/scuffed.
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Old 2006-12-22, 21:46
MomentaryLapseOfReason MomentaryLapseOfReason is offline
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Wow.....

Most women are pretty fucking stupid.

I buy my shoes/boots according to what job I need them to do, not whether or not they're in fashion.
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Old 2006-12-22, 21:48
Pirate Hippie Pirate Hippie is offline
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Shoes don't matter to me.

I think my boyfriends boots are badass.

And yes, he posted right above me =P

Edit: Shut up you >=|

[This message has been edited by Pirate Hippie (edited 12-22-2006).]
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Old 2006-12-22, 21:51
Jessic Jessic is offline
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I think you can tell a lot by people's shoes. My mother always told me not to trust men who wear white socks, and it's surprisingly accurate.

I have an irrational hatred of trainers. I'm not sure why. I suppose they're fairly boring. I want something interesting!

Jx
 
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