when my boyfriend and i have sex, it sucks when i'm on top. actually, if he's doing the work, it's not bad. it's when i try to do it that it sucks.

i've tried different angles, from laying on him to sitting up straight, almost to the point of leaning backwards. i've tried turning around and doing it doggy style with me on top, but it still sucks with me on top and i can't figure out why.

any advice?

Lieselotte?

quote:Originally posted by xilikeeggs0:

. i've tried turning around and doing it doggy style with me on top, but it still sucks with me on top and i can't figure out why.

any advice?

Usually with the female superior position, the woman has control or the direct clitoral stimulation and the resulting orgasmic reaction.

If you would like to learn this technique I would be happy to fuck your brains out.

Insufficient information.

Who does it suck for?

http://www.shooshtime.com/clips/video.php?id=11582

watch this girl do it. If i could teach a girl to ride me like that i would merry her on the spot

quote:Originally posted by boozehound420:

http ://www.sho oshtime.co m/clips/video.php?id=11582 (http: //www.shoo shtime.com /clips/vid eo.php?id= 11582)

watch this girl do it. If i could teach a girl to ride me like that i would merry her on the spot

She doesn't seem like the "merrying" kind.

Why did he keep falling out?

quote:Originally posted by Xiao Mei:

Why did he keep falling out?

By Jove I believe you found their "short cumming"

quote:Originally posted by azalie:

Insufficient information.

Who does it suck for?

both of us. i don't know why, but it just doesn't feel good when i'm doing the work.

quote:Originally posted by xilikeeggs0:

both of us. i don't know why, but it just doesn't feel good when i'm doing the work.

Maybe you should think of it as masturbation with a live dildo.

You do masturbate, right?

I'm guessing maybe you need more foreplay. Make sure to move your hips up and down instead of just grinding into him, alot of the girls I know do that alot and guys find it annoying.

Just practice.

quote:Originally posted by boozehound420:

http ://www.sho oshtime.co m/clips/video.php?id=11582 (http: //www.shoo shtime.com /clips/vid eo.php?id= 11582)

watch this girl do it. If i could teach a girl to ride me like that i would merry her on the spot

she must be a hooker or something, that guy acts like he's half retarded

quote:Originally posted by azalie:

I'm guessing maybe you need more foreplay. Make sure to move your hips up and down instead of just grinding into him, alot of the girls I know do that alot and guys find it annoying.

It is so fucking annoying when they do it... Like it is just shit for the guy.

Really now, you might want to go and rent/download some porno with girls on top, riding. It's not a bad recourse at all to learn such things!

quote:Originally posted by tenguy:

Maybe you should think of it as masturbation with a live dildo.

You do masturbate, right?

up until about a month or so ago, when we started having sex. i just haven't had the urge since i've been getting some.

the thing is, it feels different. like i can be on top and doing the work and i'll barely be able to feel anything, then he starts moving, we don't even have to change positions or anything, and it feels 10x better all of the sudden.

quote:Originally posted by nau06248:

It is so fucking annoying when they do it... Like it is just shit for the guy.

So I've heard, but it just feel better for girls when they grind.

quote:Originally posted by nau06248:

It is so fucking annoying when they do it... Like it is just shit for the guy.

Maybe it's like when a guy just pumps away in a position that offers the girl no stimulation.

For a more constructive response:

When I'm on top, I put my hands beside his head and I grind back and forth. This gets both of us off pretty quickly, so I guess I'm doing something right...You just have to practice and find a good rhythym. When I started having sex I hated going on top at first, but that's because I thought I had to bounce up and down, which was uncomfortable for me and tiring, lol. You just gotta get that hip motion down, and once you do, you'll be coming like there's no tomorrow.

[This message has been edited by Sick_Boy (edited 12-21-2006).]

quote:Originally posted by boozehound420:

http ://www.sho oshtime.co m/clips/video.php?id=11582 (http: //www.shoo shtime.com /clips/vid eo.php?id= 11582)

watch this girl do it. If i could teach a girl to ride me like that i would merry her on the spot

Haha, he throws her off at the end..

quote:Originally posted by xilikeeggs0:

the thing is, it feels different. like i can be on top and doing the work and i'll barely be able to feel anything, then he starts moving, we don't even have to change positions or anything, and it feels 10x better all of the sudden.

Ok, I understand what you mean here. With my first girlfriend, she was literally a dead fish in bed for the longest of times.

Then for whatever reason, she started to actually fuck back and I was finally able to cum like a fire hose.

So really now, even when a girl's on top, the guy should still be trying to match thrusts. Tell him to do that, try matching thrusts and actually doing something. While it's fun being a dead fish, I can't see it being anymore fun than a guy with a girl that's lovin' his cock.

No two peole are the same, so what works for one couple won't necessarily work for another two.

Having said that, you just need to find whats good for you two, and keep trying new things. I'm guessing he has a relatively narrow penis compared to your vagina....

As you get older (and the novelty wears off), you'll probably find other factors come into play. Things like different locations, special clothes, toys, etc... The actual act of sticking it in is only part of the whole experience.

If you want a demo, I'm in Sydney....

Cheers,

Chump

quote:Originally posted by boozehound420:

http ://www.sho oshtime.co m/clips/video.php?id=11582 (http: //www.shoo shtime.com /clips/vid eo.php?id= 11582)

watch this girl do it. If i could teach a girl to ride me like that i would merry her on the spot

when I read the topic title, I imidiatly started thinking of that video, hotest riding ever! I need to find a girl like that, and I'd marry her on the spot to!

quote:Originally posted by boozehound420:

http ://www.sho oshtime.co m/clips/video.php?id=11582 (http: //www.shoo shtime.com /clips/vid eo.php?id= 11582)

watch this girl do it. If i could teach a girl to ride me like that i would merry her on the spot

There a reason I can't see this with firefox?

quote:Originally posted by woopsueypigs77:

There a reason I can't see this with firefox?

Because firefox is a fucking piece of shit and a waste of time?

quote:Originally posted by woopsueypigs77:

There a reason I can't see this with firefox?

If you have FireFox just download it via d/lhelper or similar.

quote:Originally posted by woopsueypigs77:

There a reason I can't see this with firefox?

i see it fine with fire fox idk do you have the latest updates and stuff i dont know if that would help though?

omg, I have the same complaint. I always worry that I like suck in bed (maybe I do) because when I am on top, I end up getting way too tired to be able to do it long enough to get off.

My boyfriend really likes when I am on top though, he likes to reach around and smush my ass and stuff O_o

Just keep doing it, eventually, I guess you build up stamina... If you get tired, try slipping off, and going down on him for awhile... you can even sneak in some finger time for yourself when you do.

I kind of like masturbating while going down on my boyfriend though...

I guess just try some different things, and see what you like best, and what he likes best, and practice. You can always switch positions a couple times, too.

well there's been some improvement... i got him off last night. i had given him head before hand though, and he said that got him half way, then me riding him got him all the way there. yay! now i just have to work on me.

quote:Originally posted by KamiKaze:

omg, I have the same complaint. I always worry that I like suck in bed (maybe I do) because when I am on top, I end up getting way too tired to be able to do it long enough to get off.

You don't think men don't get tired always being on top? Hell, it ain't easy being a the fucking machines that we are.

Show a little respect, girlies, and take your time like a... Man. Just with tits and a pussy (that we're filling, mind you).

i watched that video because i was worried i'm not that great on top. now my boyfriend thinks i'm a porn addict.

girl on top can be great, I have taught a few how to, the girl should have strong legs and ass, and leaning away from the guy makes it worse, getting closer on top of him is usually better.

I'm glad this thread wasn't any longer?

I was just about to start the quiet moanin'?

ps Both my hands remained on the desk at all times!

quote:Originally posted by woopsueypigs77:

There a reason I can't see this with firefox?

You're using a really outdated version?

quote:Originally posted by woopsueypigs77:

There a reason I can't see this with firefox?

Disable your adblock extension, or get the IE Tab extension (https://addons.mozilla.org/firefox/1419/) and then view it in an IE tab.

quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:

Maybe it's like when a guy just pumps away in a position that offers the girl no stimulation.

For a more constructive response:

When I'm on top, I put my hands beside his head and I grind back and forth. This gets both of us off pretty quickly, so I guess I'm doing something right...You just have to practice and find a good rhythym. When I started having sex I hated going on top at first, but that's because I thought I had to bounce up and down, which was uncomfortable for me and tiring, lol. You just gotta get that hip motion down, and once you do, you'll be coming like there's no tomorrow.



i concur, excepting ive never had an orgasm in me life....yet *crosses fingers*

I've found that when I focus on getting myself off while on top, it ends up being better for both. That way, you stop thinking about being self concious.

quote:Originally posted by boozehound420:

http ://www.sho oshtime.co m/clips/video.php?id=11582 (http: //www.shoo shtime.com /clips/vid eo.php?id= 11582)

watch this girl do it. If i could teach a girl to ride me like that i would merry her on the spot

I fapped.

quote:Originally posted by Shadowhunter_36:

she must be a hooker or something, that guy acts like he's half retarded

Exactly what I was thinking. I'm actually sort of confused, but she is almost certainly a hooker. She rode him like a pro, fast and hard, and he looked like such a bumbling idiot I thought he was a virgin until I realized he was going for quite a while considering how well she was doing. On second thought, she was just an expensive hooker, probably paid for by the retarded kid's rich uncle or something.

Meh. I can't get off on top without some sort of masturbation.

[This message has been edited by oc6 (edited 12-24-2006).]

Try putting your hands just above his waste and sort of rock/thrust... I will draw a pic.

http://i58.photobucket.com/albums/g249/jmcca127/trythis.jpg

- ♫.i.b.y.v.n.t.h.♫

quote:Originally posted by ibetyouvotenexttimehippy:

Try putting your hands just above his waste and sort of rock/thrust... I will draw a pic.

http: //i58.phot obucket.com/albums/g249/jmcca127/trythis.jpg (http: //i58.phot obucket.co m/albums/g 249/jmcca1 27/trythis .jpg)

- ♫.i.b.y.v.n.t.h.♫

I lol'd at your crude drawing, and that looks pretty difficult for a girl to pull off. I liked it though.

quote:Originally posted by Byss:

I lol'd at your crude drawing, and that looks pretty difficult for a girl to pull off. I liked it though.

ohh pish posh, it is not.I like to do it that way, cause i lean back a little if i lose stamina, and my bf plays with my boobs