So the girl I had former relations with said she wants to try to get back together. After the incident before where this one guy kissed without her consent (as far as she said) we haven't had alot of magic. She asked to come to the poetry slam with me. So we head off, I set up being the head of the club and right before we start off two of my so called friends come in.

They're all "Hey Soo... OMG LIEK M I HAD NO IDEA YOU WERE GOING TO BE HERE *wink wink*". So the one kid J sets up a chair right between me and her and K sits himself on the floor right at her feet. After the first session of no talk at all between us, but her chuckling with J and periodicly peering over at me, I at the time realize the situation and get flustered. So I attempt to talk to her with no avail whileast filling my cup of coffee and sit back down for the second session. Her and J have a conversation on a piece of notebook paper which I found out to be much like an IM coversation.

J is known for being one of those not very good looking guys who'll go out with a girl for two days and try to get nothing but poon and say they're in a full blown relationshit. K writes a quick poem saying along the lines of "She'll never be anything more, but I know she'll always be a friend." I know what's going on at this point. After the end of the Slam I take K aside and told him what she why she was here and he was all "She came onto me". He has a history of dramatic passion with many girls before. I finally get to talk to her after he left and I drove her home just asking if she had a good time.

I don't know if I should spew out to those guys tomarrow about what they're thinking of doing. They'll just tell her right away and I don't want her to think I'm really downed on what happened. We haven't hung out, maybe twice for three hours total, since the last incident of that guy kissing her. Do you think she'll be weirded out at this, or should I straight up ask her what really happened? I know I should figure this out for myself, but I could use a little advice.

So which was the one with the bigger tits?

I say tell her, but in such a way that it doesn't sound needy or desperate, and you maintain the advantage of being able to play it off as "I was about to get in her pants, but she was all like 'I'm looking for more'" or something. Basically, if she is a floozy, make sure to not leave yourself vulnurable when you do go ahead and ask her out.

I'd aggressively tell J and K to get the fuck out of it.