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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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 #1 
Old 2006-12-11, 23:07
crazyjarine crazyjarine is offline
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Default should i go for it?

theres this girl i really like in a bunch of my classes. i'd like to ask her out, but the catch is she has 2 brothers im really good friends with.. im wondering if i should go for it.
 #2 
Old 2006-12-11, 23:12
lacrima97 lacrima97 is offline
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Default Re: should i go for it?

Yes. There is no reason not to.
 #3 
Old 2006-12-11, 23:13
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Default Re: should i go for it?

What do you think?

It depends on the girl and on your relationship with her brothers.

It's probably not a good idea.
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Old 2006-12-11, 23:17
crazyjarine crazyjarine is offline
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Default Re: should i go for it?

were all really tight knit. their triplets and i'm practically the additional quadruplet. i dunno if theyd be cool with it.. and shes never had a bf once in her life
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Old 2006-12-11, 23:20
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Default Re: should i go for it?

Talk to her about it, then talk to them about it; depending on what she replies.

If you're serious about going for it, that is to say.
 #6 
Old 2006-12-11, 23:24
crazyjarine crazyjarine is offline
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Default Re: should i go for it?

ill try that.. im just afraid that if she rejects me or if we have a bad breakup if something happens that my relationship with all of them will go down tho toilet
 #7 
Old 2006-12-11, 23:26
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Canada
Default Re: should i go for it?

It will change things, of that there is no doubt. But life always changes, different doesn't necessarily equal out to bad.

It's a choice to make, and it's yours to make.
 #8 
Old 2006-12-11, 23:57
lauren7249 lauren7249 is offline
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Default Re: should i go for it?

Hmmm, why don't you talk to your friends about it, see where they stand? Doesn't need to be a serious sit-down, just say you like this girl a lot and are thinking of asking her out. They will inevitably ask who it is, with which you reply honestly. If they jump on you and try to strangle you, drop the subject. Otherwise, try to get them to at least tentatively approve the idea before you go for it. At the very least, they will be glad you showed them the respect of talking to them first.
 #9 
Old 2006-12-12, 01:06
Local Hero Local Hero is offline
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Default Re: should i go for it?

Why the fucking fuck not?
 #10 
Old 2006-12-12, 01:17
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Default Re: should i go for it?

My cousin is going out with his best friends sister, hes one of my best friends too. They all get through it. It's actually pretty damn cool. All depends on the relationships though.
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Old 2006-12-12, 01:20
grungekid grungekid is offline
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Default Re: should i go for it?

bring it up to the brothers and ask if its ok. Theyll be happy you asked and youll most likely get a yes. Then ask the girl.
 
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