My new b/f has a video of his ex sucking his dick.

I want him to destroy all copies of it but he wants to keep a copy and asked me to hold it in case we part ways.

He says it's important as video porn with him in it. I say it represents a relationship that should be 100% over and done with and if he keeps any copies anywhere it is a blot on our relationship.

Am I wrong in asking him to destroy all copies?

Let him have his porn video...and yes u are wrong for trying to take away something thats his.

yes you are in the wrong for trying to make him destroy the tape..

him wanting to watch the porn doesn't mean he still is invested in that relationship or that it's not behind him... it really has nothing to do with the relationship you guys have. him viewing it is simply for the visual stimulation .

mmm i gotta say i'd be offended, but that's because i'm a ridiculously jealous person. you already know that it bothers you so people telling you that you're wrong to try to take it away from him aren't going to change that. i think you need to tell him how it makes you feel in a non-accusatory manner, as opposed to just saying you want it gone.

You're rather fucking stupid for wanting him to destroy all copies of something so meaningless to you.

It wasn't your dick when she was sucking it, was it?

Hell, maybe he's trying to get you to wise up, and suck dick better. Are you so bad in bed that he needs to relive old memories to get off?

I think you need to check out yourself before you try and bitch at him anymore.

So Gus, if a girlfriend kept a video of a guy eating her out or fucking her, that'd be cool by you?

quote:Originally posted by rabbitweed:

So Gus, if a girlfriend kept a video of a guy eating her out or fucking her, that'd be cool by you?

Depends on if it's for the memory or for the masturbation.

You can only judge that on a personal basis; if they act awkward about it and shit...chances are that they're keeping it for the memory.

quote:Originally posted by darkgypsy:

My new b/f has a video of his ex sucking his dick.

I want him to destroy all copies of it but he wants to keep a copy and asked me to hold it in case we part ways.

He says it's important as video porn with him in it. I say it represents a relationship that should be 100% over and done with and if he keeps any copies anywhere it is a blot on our relationship.

Am I wrong in asking him to destroy all copies?

Quit acting like a self entitled bitch.

Everyone has things from their past, but most (not you apparently) realize that they too have things, but that they shouldn't take priority over YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM.

Yeah, I'd be pretty fucking pissed, too. It just goes to show he's still interested in her, whether it be sexually or other wise. Anyone that says otherwise is full of shit.

Here's what you should do:

Tape over it with you sucking his dick, instead. Problem (somewhat) solved!

[This message has been edited by Rizzo in a box (edited 11-25-2006).]

quote:Originally posted by rabbitweed:

So Gus, if a girlfriend kept a video of a guy eating her out or fucking her, that'd be cool by you?

Couldn't care less, really.

It's her porn. Although, I'd make sure that I ate her out well enough that she'd want to tape over it. It's one of the great things about knowing how humans work.

The other is sleep.

Yes you are wrong but then again so is he. If you meant something to him then he would have destroyed it already or, as tends to happen, he'd have put it in the attic (meaning to destroy it later) and then genuinely forgotten all about it...its a male thing...

quote:Originally posted by rabbitweed:

So Gus, if a girlfriend kept a video of a guy eating her out or fucking her, that'd be cool by you?



That would drive me insane. But then I'm the jealous type.