so, ive tried being more dominate in bed, since that seems to be the only way I can get any, lol. I made a post a few weeks ago about sex, and update, i tried tonight, got him on the bed, gave him head, and, he wanted me to ride him. I was like, why cant you get on top? Maby i wanna be ridden like theres no tommorrow.His reply, ive made him passive, he doesnt feel dominate, So I gave him my whip i bought a few days ago in hope of spicing up our sex life, and i was like, why do you think i got this? So you can whip me, so you can be dominate. It ended with me riding him I have no fucking i dea how to be " passive" any one wanna help me out? Advice appreciated.

Tell your boyfriend to go wash his pussy if he wants any chance of getting yours.

"I love you, but... be a fucking man!"

thanx for the useless advice, it was nice you tried ot help, although when i say that, i get no sex, so that advice doesnt help, but thank you

quote:Originally posted by sweet_asCANDY_hot_asFIRE:

thanx for the useless advice, it was nice you tried ot help, although when i say that, i get no sex, so that advice doesnt help, but thank you

You're fucking stupid. You're asking how to be passive.

Passiveness can be explained simply in two words "..do not..."

Apply that to what you "do" (dominant).

Simple.

What kind of advice would actually help your situation other than telling your boyfriend the truth of how you feel?

Make him feel like a man all day long.

Make him sandwiches, make him feel big, get him to drive you around, be submissive and sexy beforehand.

Coyly ask him to eat you out, then tell him to fuck you.

Then just yell at him to fuck you hard, tell him you're a dirty girl and you need to be punished. E.t.c. Fuck my dirty pussuh.

quote:Originally posted by CatharticWeek:

make him feel big

...is he a big guy?

I was skinny. I got my dominance by getting bigger. It just kind of 'happens'.

Tell him to work out.

You find a man who is more dominant than you are.

btw, congrats on getting laid.

I guess you have to take it any way you can get it.

/shrugs

[This message has been edited by oc6 (edited 11-24-2006).]

thanks everyone, and thanks for the " do not" advice, lol. update, i went in just after making the post, and got laid again..hehhe go me...i guess.. any way, thanx everyone, i guess im just dominate by nature, so its kinda hard to be submissive, telling him any way, he knows ive always wanted to be a slave, however, hes never taken the initiative to be my "master"....awww, fantasies

yes, he is a big guy, nice big muscular arms , a regular golden adonis ( he isnt black, alas, cause black guys turn me on )



[This message has been edited by sweet_asCANDY_hot_asFIRE (edited 11-24-2006).]

quote:Originally posted by sweet_asCANDY_hot_asFIRE:

i guess im just dominate by nature

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Does he atleast man handle you? Like throw you around and shit? I see no point to be big unless you're an athlete, require it for your job, or to physically dominate during sex.

He's a male. He's supposed to make you feel female. Have you told him this is what you really want?

quote:Originally posted by CatharticWeek:

Make him feel like a man all day long.

Make him sandwiches, make him feel big, get him to drive you around, be submissive and sexy beforehand.

Coyly ask him to eat you out, then tell him to fuck you.

Then just yell at him to fuck you hard, tell him you're a dirty girl and you need to be punished. E.t.c. Fuck my dirty pussuh.



Wouldn't she still be "dominant"? After all, he would be following "orders".