So i have been going out with this girl for a week now, and compared to my previous girlfriends, she has very good morals. She does not want to lose her virginity to just anyone, and her plan is to wait until marriage, unless she meets the right guy.

Now me, I have been able to get a girl in the bed within a month, with little to not effort. Of course, they werent virgins, and thats why it was so easy. With this new girl, I cant use any of my old tricks.

I realize that this is going to take some time and effort, but I need some advice on how to do this. How should I initiate things with a girl like this? Shes been fingered before, so I know i can probably build from that. I believe there was a poster that got a good Christian girl to have sex. And my question to you, Totse, how do I complete my journey of sexing this girl?

Keep in mind that I am no player, I DO want a relationship with this girl, but i would like to sex her up somewhere along the way.

Any advice is helpful, but dont post anything like " Get hur drunk and Fuck lol lol!!!11!!!" or any of that bullshit. I want both of us to be sober.

If she wants to wait then let her.

She will have sex when she feels ready, chances are if you go about trying to force her (however subtle) then she will just dump you.

A month? Damn that's waiting a long time for some sexing. Well then, really, it's just about setting the mood.

Find out how she thinks, and aim for that. Does she love romantic books? What about fantasy adventures? Is she a mystery fan?

Find out where her tastes lie, and then make an event around that idea. A romantic candle-lit dinner on the beach. A trip to the old country with you acting like her knight in shining armor. Keep things held to secrets and keep surprising her over and over...

That's really there is all to it for making her fall deeply in love with you. From there, it's just about having your hands in the right places/things at the right time to push all of her buttons in the right order... If you know what I mean (which I'm certain you do).

Have fun with it, but remember, "nice girls" that save themselves sometimes end up being the biggest nymphomaniacs out there... Make sure you're up the HER needs.

My friend has been in the same situation as I am now, and his girl turned into the biggest Nympho i have ever seen. They bang quite a bit, and do some crazy shit.

We both are "scene/emo" or whatever, so we both are really big into music. I'm also in a band, so i have the badass thing going for me right now. So i figure ill take her to one of my shows, and dedicate a song to her. Then after the show, Ill take her out to dinner, and on our way out to the car, my acoustic guitar will just "appear" out of nowhere, and I'll sing a song i wrote for her. Then i will proceed to kissing her and telling her that i care about her a lot. This is going to take place a week from now. I'm not going to use the "L" word for a while, but i think that this will get me on the right track.

Comments, suggestions?

quote:Originally posted by Mr.Dave:

My friend has been in the same situation as I am now, and his girl turned into the biggest Nympho i have ever seen. They bang quite a bit, and do some crazy shit.

We both are "scene/emo" or whatever, so we both are really big into music. I'm also in a band, so i have the badass thing going for me right now. So i figure ill take her to one of my shows, and dedicate a song to her. Then after the show, Ill take her out to dinner, and on our way out to the car, my acoustic guitar will just "appear" out of nowhere, and I'll sing a song i wrote for her. Then i will proceed to kissing her and telling her that i care about her a lot. This is going to take place a week from now. I'm not going to use the "L" word for a while, but i think that this will get me on the right track.

Comments, suggestions?

My god...

quote:Originally posted by baloo:

My god...



Shut up, virgin.

quote:Originally posted by Mr.Dave:

Comments, suggestions?

Make sure you can actually care about her before you do any of this, because she'll cling to you like a veteran's head to my giant electromagnet.

If you really can't see yourself caring about her, then you might want to rethink it. You WILL have to spend a lot of time with her, though, to get her into such an easy state of sexual fury. But after that, just hold on tight!

i can see myself caring for her a great deal. I already have feelings for her, we really hit it off on our first date, and after a few more dates, we were together. This is someone who i wouldnt mind being with for a while.

quote:Originally posted by Mr.Dave:

i can see myself caring for her a great deal. I already have feelings for her, we really hit it off on our first date, and after a few more dates, we were together. This is someone who i wouldnt mind being with for a while.

Then I really would suggest you take your time and don't rush her. Give her the chance to explore and learn more about you and her own body.

Help her enjoy the first kiss, the first cuddling, the first making out, the kiss groping...

She'll love you forever, and even if you do break up later down the track, she'll always think about you whenever she has sex.

Well, it's good if you can pull her over to your side.

But i hate assholes who play the "sex or break up" game.

quote:Originally posted by Gus:

Have fun with it, but remember, "nice girls" that save themselves sometimes end up being the biggest nymphomaniacs out there... Make sure you're up the HER needs.

QFmofoT. Personally experienced one.

Tempt her not.

quote:Originally posted by torxx:

QFmofoT. Personally experienced one.

Yeah? It's fucking awesome when you can handle it.

quote:Originally posted by torxx:

Well, it's good if you can pull her over to your side.

But i hate assholes who play the "sex or break up" game.

yeah, i think the sex and break up thing is for tools, so i never would pull that bullshit

American Pie : The Naked Mile.

cum on your hand and put your fingers in her pussy when she is asleep. when she has been pregnant and had an abortion, she wont mind so much about waiting for sex.

Simple.

Give her the sexual cold shoulder. Make her think you're the perfect man.

Then put your pee-pee in her ka-ka.

Go, padawan.

Emo/scene.. is not music.. so go commit..

quote:Originally posted by Mr.Dave:

My friend has been in the same situation as I am now, and his girl turned into the biggest Nympho i have ever seen. They bang quite a bit, and do some crazy shit.

We both are "scene/emo" or whatever, so we both are really big into music. I'm also in a band, so i have the badass thing going for me right now. So i figure ill take her to one of my shows, and dedicate a song to her. Then after the show, Ill take her out to dinner, and on our way out to the car, my acoustic guitar will just "appear" out of nowhere, and I'll sing a song i wrote for her. Then i will proceed to kissing her and telling her that i care about her a lot. This is going to take place a week from now. I'm not going to use the "L" word for a while, but i think that this will get me on the right track.

Comments, suggestions?

Your showing that you want to have a relationship, but your describing yourself as an emo-attetnio whore loser.



I'm at a loss where to go about this one

This could work out to your favor.

Get her to give blowjobs.

I'm in a similar spot, 'cept my girlfriend is just younger than me, and not entirely ready for sex, so I'm not going to pressure her for anything. Haha.

But I know how you feel. I say just wait out a bit longer before you even try. You said you wanted a relationship, right? So then what's the rush for sex about? Give her time and let her be comfortable around you. And don't be a jackass. Girls love it when guys aren't jackasses. Weird, but true.

Get hur drunk and Fuck lol lol!!!11!!!" or any of that bullshit

quote:Originally posted by dr rocker:

cum on your hand and put your fingers in her pussy when she is asleep. when she has been pregnant and had an abortion, she wont mind so much about waiting for sex.



+1

Oh, and to the posters who called me an "emo attention whore", go die in a fire. I dont dress this way to try to get attention or anything, its the way i like to dress. And being emo or whatever has nothing to do with this situation.

[This message has been edited by Mr.Dave (edited 12-21-2006).]

I was dating this girl back in H.S. who was a virgin and wanted to wait to have sex. So yea I wanted for like 2-3 months (She gave me handjobs all the time which kinda held me over). Finally I broke up with her. Well less than a month later she was begging me to fuck her. So basically dump her go bang some chicks in the meantime and then bang her when she wants you back. Hope that works!

quote:Originally posted by Aukai:

I was dating this girl back in H.S. who was a virgin and wanted to wait to have sex. So yea I wanted for like 2-3 months (She gave me handjobs all the time which kinda held me over). Finally I broke up with her. Well less than a month later she was begging me to fuck her. So basically dump her go bang some chicks in the meantime and then bang her when she wants you back. Hope that works!

Oh just thought i'd say I didn't break up with her cause she wouldn't have sex. Just because I didn't want to be with her anymore. I wouldn't ever expect a girl to do anything.

Ok, this is steering away from the topic, but I now have a different situation with this girl. She hasnt really gotten comfortable with me yet, as we have only been going out for a week. So when we hang out, its usually with her best friend present. Thats fine and all, except her and her best friend always talk about things that happen at their school, and they always leave me out of the conversation. I try to get into it, but its really hard since i don't go to their school. I feel like I'm being ignored, and my presence isnt wanted. I dont want a relationship like this, so I have been thinking about breaking up with her.

The only thing that stopped me yesterday was at the end of our date, she said that she was really glad that I was her boyfriend, and then she kissed me and all that bullshit.

I do like her, but I am growing weary of this whole situation. So Totse, what should I do, should i break up with her, or continue to stick it out for a little longer. Any advice is appreciated. Thank you for your help so far.

[This message has been edited by Mr.Dave (edited 12-21-2006).]

alright so i thought you might need some advice from a girl for this situation.

now what i get out of this, is she's incredibly shy. so dont just break it off becuz she's that shy, now you just need to take initiative, and ask her (but don't be too wordy) how far u can go if you ever start making out. except you need to get her in a really safe and secretive spot so she can feel as at ease as possible.

now i used to be this girl, well okay, not really, but before i had ever done anything before, my first bf wanted to have sex the 1sst or 2nd time we hooked up. i was just nervous and shy, and i actually didnt really like him, and oh yeah my mom was jsut upstairs lol. but you just have to use amazing subduction and i believe thats all it takes to get a girl in bed (or get drunk lol like my first time, but u said u didnt wana b drunk ) so basically just find out what interests her, express your own opinions and feelings on differnt situations, TOUCH her a lot, like that always gets me, when a guy like touches my arm in a conversation, oh and dont be TOO persistant, you gotta seem like your not desperate, just interested.

if you play that right,

ul liv every guys catholic schoolgirl gone bad fantasy

quote:Originally posted by Mr.Dave:

I do like her, but I am growing weary of this whole situation. So Totse, what should I do, should i break up with her, or continue to stick it out for a little longer. Any advice is appreciated. Thank you for your help so far.

She's getting everything she wants from you right now. Stop giving her what she wants until you get what you want.

That means if she and you are hanging out, and her friend comes over just leave. You don't need to say anything, but you get up, and leave (either the room, or the house if you can).

When she finally asks, tell her the truth: You want some alone time with her. She can hang out with her best friend anytime, while you rarely get to see her as often as she does. You don't care that she hangs out with this girl, but you do care that you never get any time alone with her.

That'd be one of the best ways of taking this, of course, though, if she's the 14 year old that you're making her out to be, she'll think you're coming between her best friend and her, and she'll run off and cry about it. That's when you dump her for being annoying.

fuck whatever these emo pussys said. CUNLINGUS is the awnser. Just suck on her clit untill she begs for it.

quote:Originally posted by TheCardboardbox:

fuck whatever these emo pussys said. CUNLINGUS is the awnser. Just suck on her clit untill she begs for it.

Yeah, because raping her is the answer, right?

You're the kinda kid that get charged with sexual assault before you're even able to vote.

Catch her in the shower, run in naked and yell "LEEEEEROY JENKINS!!!!!!!!"

Then fucking rape her ass and donkey punch her!



Haha, sorry Dave I had to do it.

quote:Originally posted by Chris182:

Catch her in the shower, run in naked and yell "LEEEEEROY JENKINS!!!!!!!!"

Then fucking rape her ass and donkey punch her!



Haha, sorry Dave I had to do it.

HAHAHAHHA GODAMIT LEROY!!!

Chris you are a crazy bastard, but anyways, i worked everything out, and were hanging out alone tonight

thank you all for your help, especially you chris.

quote:Originally posted by Mr.Dave:

HAHAHAHHA GODAMIT LEROY!!!

Chris you are a crazy bastard, but anyways, i worked everything out, and were hanging out alone tonight

thank you all for your help, especially you chris.



No problem Dave, that's why we are best friends bro, wanna go bro it up? Hahaha!

Bro rape rules.

"Wanna come up to my room and listen to Jack Johnson?"

quote:Originally posted by goforthebo:

Bro rape rules.

"Wanna come up to my room and listen to Jack Johnson?"

Haha, yes, yes!

Discretion is the enemy.

Don't act like a total whore, but be comfortable about yourself. Does she seem curious about sex? Acting like you have experience, even if you don't, can make her a little more ready. That is assuming she isn't bothered by your lack of virginity.

Slowly build up to it, If she lets you finger her don't rush to the next step. If you hit it before she's ready she can come back the next day saying she thinks the relationships going to fast, and that really sets things back.

Finally, don't make it seem like sex is the only thing on your mind. If you find something that really pushes her buttons (biteing the neck does wonders for most girls) Don't use it evertime you two are getting intimate. Spend some time alone with her and don't just make out. Cuddle her without groping her, kiss her without tongue, etc.. Become comfortable with each other and it'll come naturally

quote:Originally posted by Qoh:

Discretion is the enemy.

Don't act like a total whore, but be comfortable about yourself. Does she seem curious about sex? Acting like you have experience, even if you don't, can make her a little more ready. That is assuming she isn't bothered by your lack of virginity.

Slowly build up to it, If she lets you finger her don't rush to the next step. If you hit it before she's ready she can come back the next day saying she thinks the relationships going to fast, and that really sets things back.

Finally, don't make it seem like sex is the only thing on your mind. If you find something that really pushes her buttons (biteing the neck does wonders for most girls) Don't use it evertime you two are getting intimate. Spend some time alone with her and don't just make out. Cuddle her without groping her, kiss her without tongue, etc.. Become comfortable with each other and it'll come naturally

Yeah, thats my current plan, i dont want to rush things, as I'm in no hurry.

And Chris, we'll bro it up tonight at the party. I'm bringing my Dave Matthews Cd and bringing a gamecube.

quote:Originally posted by Mr.Dave:

And Chris, we'll bro it up tonight at the party. I'm bringing my Dave Matthews Cd and bringing a gamecube.

Gee whizz! Maybe mom will make a pitcher of lemonade and a tray of fresh cookies too! This is going to be the best party ever.