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 #1 
Old 2006-12-19, 16:43
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akon
Default Girl, Best Friend, Trust.

Well, a few days ago my friend introduced me to a pretty amazing girl.

She's Cute, Smart, and pretty much amazing, We hit it off well, exchanged numbers, texted each other after we met,planning another meeting etc.

Thing is , the friend who introduced me to this girl, also has feelings for this girl.

We made a promise that we would never fight over a girl,

Whenever i meet a girl, after the first meeting i refrain from ANY contact for 2 days, Since this keeps the girl anticipating and i don't come off as clingy, etc. And I let my friend fully aware of this, and had him promise he wouldn't talk to her either for the 2 days.

Well she texted me a few times the first day, asking how i was etc, and another asking if i was busy.

2nd Day (Today) She didn't text/call or anything.

So instead of HER anticipating , it backfired and i sat and waited all day hoping for a text or a call or anything.

At this point i got suspicious, And called my friend.

He admitted to me that he had txted her a bunch pretending to be me.

his explanation was "i know that your supposed to keep them anticipating, but its no fun if your not going to even text her"

I told him that i was pretty mad and that even though we promised to not fight over a girl, that i really didn't know what to do.

We talked for a bit, and he apologized, but you could tell from his tone that he wasn't sorry. In his head he probably still thinks he did the right thing.

Now, the girl isn't important.

Well she is, since she's pretty much everything i want in a girl.

But i value my friendship more,

But i really don't know what to do.

This is the same kid who smoked weed with me for the first time when we were 14, The Same kid who would steal candy, clothes, hats etc with me. heck, i even call him mom, Mom. He was the one person i could probably trust with anything, but now i don't even know.

I'm not mad because of the fact that he talked to her, I could careless, What angers me is that he would have the nerve to do this, and not feel one bit of remorse.

Anyways

i need some advice

Girl Should be easy

I'll just say " hey, i was pretty busy yesterday and didn't have a chance to talk, i guess ***** talked to you instead."

But the more important part is

I have his myspace / msn passwords, and could go and get the whole school to hate him.

I could just get new friends,

I really don't know.

Anything i do for revenge i'll probably end up regretting, since revenge = losing my best friend.

But i just can't let him off.

Or can i?

What would totse do?

because this is driving me crazy.
 #2 
Old 2006-12-19, 16:47
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OPS 2A building 688-6911(b)
Default Re: Girl, Best Friend, Trust.

Just let it go dude.
 #3 
Old 2006-12-19, 17:02
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dodging the rain and tractors
Default Re: Girl, Best Friend, Trust.

If you put your male friendships above getting a girl then you deserve to die a virgin.

Oh well at least you didn't come out with any crap like 'bros before ho's'.

*is grateful for small mercies*

Grow up, call the girl and if your friend doesn't like it then he can go fuck himself (or rather he can carry on wanking cos thats all the sex he is going to get!)
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Old 2006-12-19, 17:55
Mr.Dave Mr.Dave is offline
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Default Re: Girl, Best Friend, Trust.

Dude, just forget the girl, your still young, there will be more where that came from. Chances are, you two will break up, and you wont have your best friend to chill with either, so you will fuck yourself over.
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Old 2006-12-19, 18:29
Gus Gus is offline
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Default Re: Girl, Best Friend, Trust.

What pisses me off about that is that HE seemed to value this girl about YOUR friendship. I really don't think that HE is mature enough to have an adult friendship, with trust and the whole nine yards...

You might really want to consider finding a new best friend, dude.
 #6 
Old 2006-12-20, 00:02
MJR deus MJR deus is offline
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You have my respect sir. Too often friends pick girls over friends, you made the right decision, he was being an immature fuk and tried to scupper your chances, now that is fucking unnaceptable. I'd let him off though, but when you post video of afformentioned possible new girlfriends, before posting on totse, give him a copy of the video.

Michael
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Old 2006-12-20, 02:16
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akon
Default Re: Girl, Best Friend, Trust.

Btw, I'm 17, And so is he, And we've both had our fair share of relationships. Regardless as much as I like this girl, before he introduced me, the day we met, and yesterday I've told him that, If he wants her, just to say something, And I'll back off.

And he keeps claiming "it's not like that"

Fuck i need a ciggie brb
 #8 
Old 2006-12-20, 02:22
Gus Gus is offline
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Ah yeah, he's just being stupid... Maybe then, YOU should go after her?

See what HE does, and then totally just threesome her.
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Old 2006-12-20, 02:24
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Mate, that was a fucking dick move on his part. You have a right to be very angry. He needs to know it, too. This isn't about the girl, you said so yourself. This is about him pretending to be you without your permission. That's seriously fucked up in it's own right.

Let him know you're mad. If you're friends, good friends, it'll blow over and he'll learn his lesson.
 
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