Ok so long story short basically this girl wants to have sex with me and I am a virgin and she's not but I think I might have a problem getting it up because last time something of this matter came about I couldn't. I'm only 17. is there anything I can do or help me to get it up .

Tell her you're a virgin and you want her to make it special for you.

Either that, or grab her from behind, pull her panties down, pull your cock out, and just fuck her hard and fast.

Just do it...and relax.

I had the same problem when I was younger, I was too nervous to get that far when sober, so I would drink and take pills to be more confident. Then I couldn't get it up... Basically just remember that your first time is going to suck anyway. After that, you don't have the stigma of being a virgin, so it only gets easier.