So, me and my girlfriend have tried to have sex a couple of times the past 2 weeks and we never could because she claims that it hurts really bad. Any clues to why?

Finger her, using more than one finger. Keep fingering her until you can get four fingers into her without it hurting.

Some women, though, are just broken like that from what I've heard... Mental issues and all that.

Um..



She is a virgin.



Still has her hymen.

Uh.......virgin? If she's really tight, not wet enough or not turned on enough it will hurt.

Well, there's a problem. She doesn't like to be fingered....

Yeah.

No, she's not a vigin, we've had sex many times before and it went perfectly fine.

[This message has been edited by torqueman (edited 12-19-2006).]

eat her out before and use more than one finger like directly before to get her as stretched and wet as possible, then let her be on top, it should work fine, and if your on top, just like go with slow shallow strokes first until you can fit all teh way in and just do it slowly

Hmm, it used to be perfectly fine, but now, for some reason, it's not?

Maybe she needs to go see a doctor...

quote:Originally posted by torqueman:

Well, there's a problem. She doesn't like to be fingered....

Yeah.

You aren't doing it right.

And ignore Gus. If you can fit 4 fingers in her she's loose as shit. 2 fingers is plenty.

quote:Originally posted by Fanglekai:

You aren't doing it right.

And ignore Gus. If you can fit 4 fingers in her she's loose as shit. 2 fingers is plenty.

No, really, she doesn't like it. She has a little OCD and it has something to do with germs, evenif I wash. Don't ask, she just wont let me do it.

I'm starting to think she just wasn't wet enough because we kind of jumped right torwards sex. She wanted to but I knew we had to get some foreplay going, but whatever. Im guessing thats the problem.

Could not having sex for about 3 months have anything to do with it?

[This message has been edited by torqueman (edited 12-19-2006).]

quote:Originally posted by Fanglekai:

You aren't doing it right.

And ignore Gus. If you can fit 4 fingers in her she's loose as shit. 2 fingers is plenty.

Hell, four fingers are the only way to get my cock in...

quote:Originally posted by torqueman:

Well, there's a problem. She doesn't like to be fingered....

Yeah.

No, she's not a vigin, we've had sex many times before and it went perfectly fine.



She might just not want to have sex with you and that's her excuse. Either that, or she might have torn something and it needs time to heal, perhaps she has an infection, or she's got a more serious problem. Lay off the sex for a few days, and have her go to a gyno if it still hurts.

edit: I just read your post again, OP. If it's been 3 months, she might just be tighter than you remember, and she needs more foreplay. That sounds like it's the problem. Wait a few days, then get her really wet and try again, but slowly.

[This message has been edited by Fanglekai (edited 12-19-2006).]

quote:Originally posted by torqueman:

No, really, she doesn't like it. She has a little OCD and it has something to do with germs, evenif I wash. Don't ask, she just wont let me do it.

Ok that's understandable. Since she isn't a virgin this seems valid, albeit slightly odd.

Gus, you're so full of shit in this thread that I'm not even going to bother. I just hope the OP ignores you.

quote:Originally posted by Fanglekai:

Gus, you're so full of shit in this thread that I'm not even going to bother. I just hope the OP ignores you.

Ok, the part about my cock being too big was a joke, but seriously, four fingers isn't THAT MUCH TO ASK.

Hell, I've even got fat fingers, kids. But then again, I ain't fucking little twelve year olds... Good luck with that, though, I guess, eh?

Seriously now, go have her get checked out. Or as this dipshit said, go and lay off the sexing for a few days.

quote:Originally posted by Gus:

Ok, the part about my cock being too big was a joke, but seriously, four fingers isn't THAT MUCH TO ASK.

Hell, I've even got fat fingers, kids. But then again, I ain't fucking little twelve year olds... Good luck with that, though, I guess, eh?

Seriously now, go have her get checked out. Or as this dipshit said, go and lay off the sexing for a few days.

Out of curiosity, when was the last time you had sex?

quote:Originally posted by Fanglekai:

Out of curiosity, when was the last time you had sex?

A few weeks ago, why do you ask? Are you... Offering? I don't really.. Swing that... Way...

Is she really wet? If not, try sucking on her ear and neck... Usually works, if it doesn't, try lube. She might just be using it as an excuse, she might not want to fuck you.

quote:Originally posted by Gus:

A few weeks ago, why do you ask? Are you... Offering? I don't really.. Swing that... Way...

I'm asking because you sound as if you were talking out of your ass, and no, it was not an invitation. Sorry to burst your proverbial bubble. How much did this girl weigh?

quote:Originally posted by Fanglekai:

I'm asking because you sound as if you were talking out of your ass, and no, it was not an invitation. Sorry to burst your proverbial bubble. How much did this girl weigh?

Under one hundred pounds. Are you going to ask what color pussy she had, next, too?

Oh, and it's alright. I think I'll be able to go... Maybe... But I was hoping... Oh, right, sarcasm tags, can't forget them!

Sometimes it hurts when my husband first tries to spear me with his mighty sword and that's when we stop and smear on some astroglide.

Astroglide. Choice of Astronauts 'n Air Force men everywhere!

Very welcomed on the Moon too!

quote:Originally posted by Gus:

Ok, the part about my cock being too big was a joke, but seriously, four fingers isn't THAT MUCH TO ASK.

Hell, I've even got fat fingers, kids. But then again, I ain't fucking little twelve year olds... Good luck with that, though, I guess, eh?

Sorry, man, but four fingers really is a lot. I've never been with a girl who could fit more than two, and most of my friends can't get any more than that either (except for one, who can get a fist in there, which just isn't hot). But a vagina shouldn't be able to fit four fingers easily.

Oh, I think my friend put it well;

"if he's not fucking twelve year olds, he's fucking cathedrals"

EDIT: She weighed under 100lbs? That's less than 45kg. Was she a dwarf, or just all bones?

[This message has been edited by Mr.Happy (edited 12-19-2006).]

quote:Originally posted by Mr.Happy:

Sorry, man, but four fingers really is a lot. I've never been with a girl who could fit more than two, and most of my friends can't get any more than that either (except for one, who can get a fist in there, which just isn't hot). But a vagina shouldn't be able to fit four fingers easily.

Hmmm, maybe I'm not explaining it right...? Ah well, I'll draw a diagram and post it later.

quote:Originally posted by Mr.Happy:

Oh, I think my friend put it well;

"if he's not fucking twelve year olds, he's fucking cathedrals"

This friend goes by the totse username of 'wires'.